Help I need romance advice!!!

[knightstalker]

I am seeing a lady who I have fallen in love with and want to do something really romantic for her you know something that will make her heart melt..Please ladies you guy's to give me some idea's to bounce around..It will be much appreciated since I have been out of the game for so long...Take care all and have a great day

 

[Bindii]

Hey Knightstalker,

You know its the little things that count - ok we all enjoy being spoilt with dinner by candlelight, flowers etc - but what really makes my heart go thump is the small things he does for me.

Taking the time to ask about my day and then actually listen to the answer. Making me a snack when I'm hungry...going to the shop to fetch that chocolate that I've been craving all day. Surprising me with a small gift for no reason at all, just something small that he thought I might like. Packing a picnic lunch and taking me to the park to eat, or coffee in styrofoam cups sitting in the car by the water at midnight. A massage complete with candles and music after a hard day. A handwritten love note hidden where he knows I will find it...these are some of the little things that mean so much.

 

[TantaLiza]

Just be open...

Try to think of something you might like her to do for you and put a female spin on it..

One of the main things women like is for a man to actually LISTEN to what she has to say...ask questions and want to know how she feels...that alone will endear her to you for a very long time!!

Good luck Knightstalker!!

Liza

 

[Ladybird]

Oh knightstalker, I am so happy for you.

As Bindii said.. for women it's the little things that count. And not something that you've bought, but something that you've done that shows you think of her.

Most women are very tactile too. So touch her. Reach and just rest your palm on her cheek, or put your arm around her shoulders while you're walking. Cuddle up with her at every opportunity and as the girls here have said... LISTEN to her and show your interest.

Do all of this, and she'll love you for the romantic man you are.

LB

 

[someplace]

I saw the sweetest thing yesterday

While waiting at the park & ride for my ride, I watched a man drive up and park to watch for his lady getting off the bus. He sat there a few minutes in his truck, just like everyone else waiting.

The bus pulled in and people poured out.

The man's face lit up as he got out of his truck. A woman approached. He walked eagerly up to meet her half way between the bus and his truck (about 30 feet). His entire body language screamed to the world that he was SO HAPPY to see this woman. They met in the middle of the parking lot. He reached for her hand, pulled her close and kissed her right there. It was if he couldn't wait to kiss her. Then they held hands and walked back to the truck. He put her in her side and then walked around (still smiling) back to his side and they kissed again before he drove off. The couple were in their late 40's, early 50's and nice, but very average looking. It was so cute to see someone just WANT to be with someone like that.

The lady sitting next me sighed, then turned to me and we both smiled. I know we were both thinking the same thing, "That is ONE LUCKY lady!"

 

[knightstalker]

Thank you ladies for giving me something to think about ...I did buy her a card and wrote a little love note inside of it lastnight and when I gave it to her she had tears in her eyes ..I asked her what was wrong and she said she was so happy and that noone ever just bought her something because they wanteds to ..You are all right about the little things I have taken her to a fancy restuarant(bad spelling sorry)I rented a jacuzzi room this past weekend we have done alot together but it was one simple little card with some words from my heart that did it ...Thanks again all...Take care

 

[carrie-on]

allllriiight Knight!!!
so glad for you,sweetie.
huggggg...just keep being your sweet self and you will do wonderfully!!

 

[huskie]

Its taken me some 30 years to figur this out..... All you really have to do is tell her the trueth.
If you look at her and think she is beautiful just tell her. any time it somes to you.
If you like the sound of her vioce, even when shes fussing at you, just till her "hey! I love the sound of your voice."
If your walking behind her and think woo she has a nice butt, then tell her "hey! you have a nice butt."
It's just that simple. Tell her what you think.

 

[lilpriss]

romancing the GF... I'm so happy to hear that someone cares enough to ask how to make her melt! You go boy!

The candle light all over body massage would absolutely do me in!! Especially if he didn't have any ulterior motive in mind. Gosh, that would be just heavenly.

Different stuff melts different hearts... I tip my hat to you sir!

 

[huskie]

The candle light all over body massage would absolutely do me in!! Especially if he didn't have any ulterior motive in mind. Gosh, that would be just heavenly.

And what Hetro Sexual male would NOT have an ULTERIOR motive?????? ...... unless hes gay of course.

 

[Bueydgirl]

Its taken me some 30 years to figur this out..... All you really have to do is tell her the trueth.
If you look at her and think she is beautiful just tell her. any time it somes to you.
If you like the sound of her vioce, even when shes fussing at you, just till her "hey! I love the sound of your voice."
If your walking behind her and think woo she has a nice butt, then tell her "hey! you have a nice butt."
It's just that simple. Tell her what you think.

This is such good advice! It seems so simple, but so overlooked!
We are not mindreaders, My ex husband went years without saying things like that to me, yet when we got divorced, he was sorry that he "took me for granted" even tho he "really was attracted to me"
Ha! well live and learn. My boyfriend now treats me like a princess, and it sure feels good for a change.

Good luck with your new love knightstalker, and just by you asking for advice, it shows you are sensitive to her feelings and wanting to make her happy. I'd say she's lucky to have found you