Help - I need my sex life back!!

[vfrman]

I would appreciate any advice you guys can give - I have 22 month old daughter, who i adore, but since she arrived sex has all but vanished from our lives.

We had a really hot time before parenthood, but now we are some knackered, by the time we get some time to our selves in the evening its hard to raise a smile let alone anything else!!

Any thoughts from all you experienced sex hounds?

 

[Titania1616]

what does knackered mean?

i suggest taking your daughter to a sleep over with her granparents/family. family allways love to see babies, especially grandmas. this way, grandma gets some bonding time (which she's probably been begging for) and you get a night all to yourselves. lots of people find the house a distraction, so rent a nice hotel room order room service and have fun!

 

[Freya]

Knackered means tired in "England" speak.

Take some time for yourselves - have a night out where you can relax and enjoy yourselves and one in which there will be no concerns about being woken up early.

 

[Overdrivenat40]

Totally normal..........unfortunately. Need to communicate with your better half and try to set aside time for pleasure. Prioritize it and 'schedule' sex...........seems non-spontaneous but that's life with young uns...........

 

[Titania1616]

ohhh i get it, i was a bit confused, thanks freya2!

 

[alphacat]

Hire a babysitter for the night, and go out for a nice romantic evening culminating with a nice round of sex at a motel somewhere

 

[Monazwx]

Find a time during the day when the baby sleeps.
A good lunch date always helps the relationship.
(And a quickie in the afternoon wouldn't hurt either.)