help! i can't cum...

[princessa]

i've never had a vaginal/g spot orgasm before but sometimes i feel so close when i'm masturbating with a toy (just a regular slim vibrator not turned on)... it feels incredible to have the toy going in and out of me... plus i get the wanting to pee sensation...

any advice on finally cumming?

 

[Hotred911]

I can't give you any tips as I'm the same way. The only way I've ever had an orgasm is through clitorial stimulation. I'm eager to see some suggestions.

 

[Ezzie]

I'm the opposite, Hotred. I can't orgasm from clitoral stimulation. It's penetration that finally does me in.

As for you, Princessa. Maybe you're putting too much pressure on yourself to cum and that could be doing more harm than good. Just relax and see what happens. I feel for you, though.

Just my two pennies.

 

[Puppi]

plus i get the wanting to pee sensation...

any advice on finally cumming?

Welcome to the unique, slightly rare, and fun club!

Female Ejaculation is what many women will describe as "a need to pee" when aroused. This topic has been covered a lot, here on Lit, and continues to grow.

The best advice I can give to you is to read two, or three, of these threads that I pulled up from the Search feature, relax, and enjoy the time you spend masturbating! Don't worry about going with the flow on this one! It's NOT pee!


~Puppi

 

[princessa]

i figured that out from some of the other threads here... thanks though puppi!

but i can't even get as far as ejaculation if i can't orgasm...

i know some people just can't cum through vaginal stimulation (correct me if i'm wrong about that)... but i feel like i can!

help?

 

[forced]

Knock back a couple of gin and tonics (or drink of choice) first...

...that's what got me over my orgasm issues.

 

[princessa]

oh my...

trying to masturbate while drunk could be interesting...

for vanity's sake and not wanting to look stupid the next morning, i won't involve a guy in my little quest.

any other suggestions?

 

[Star of Penumbra]

The first thing I thought when I read this is that maybe you can't orgasm through vaginal stimulation. And I don't mean 'can't' as in 'dont want to', I mean as in 'physically incapable.'

[BIOLOGY GEEK MODE]It is sad but true that some women -I believe about 15%- are physically incapable of orgasming during vaginal intercourse, simply because they are built wrong. The same women can orgasm through manual manipulation of the clitoris, but vaginal intercourse does nothing for them.[/BIOLGY GEEK MODE]

[PHYCHOLOGY GEEK MODE]Of course, it may simply be a mental inhibition you have. You may be depriving yourself of orgasm because you view sex as dirty or sinful, and recieving pleasure from it would be wrong.[/PHYSCHOLOGY GEEK MODE]

That's about all the help I can ooffer right now... Damn, I need ot get to bed.