Help! I can only cum...

[funwdi]

I need some info, please!

I am a lesbian who has an awesome, incredible girlfriend who knows EXACTLY what she's doing when she licks me.
I have always had the problem of only being able to cum one time, and then my clit is so sensitive that I have to wait about 20 minutes to do anything else.
Well, I thought this problem would be done once I had someone that knew what they were doing in bed, but I've found her, and I now have terrific orgasms, but only one at a time. I can make her cum up to six times in a row, and am SOOOO envious.
Any tips? I think it's a mental block or something.
Thanks.

 

[Guest]

go get some cock.

 

[funwdi]

Gee, golly...now there's a great solution. Hmmm...never came once with a man. Looks like I'd want to do that again! NOT!
Grow up.

 

[PainSlut]

I have the same problem..... I have lovely orgasms... but i have to wait so long in between that everything is usually over with before i'm ready to go again... I have tried everything from non direct stimulation.. to ice with no luck.

 

[scamp]

I'm no expert on the female body, but some women's clits are more sensitive than others. My exwife was very sensitive and if I brought her to orgasm orally or fingering she couldn't stand any more for a period of time till she calmed down. On the other hand during intercourse she could cum time after time or have little multiple orgasms rippling thru her without her clit getting to sensitive.

I don't know that this will help you in anyway, but thought I would mention it to you in the case that it would.

 

[funwdi]

Thanks for your input! I appreciate it!

 

[Honeygirl]

I have exactly the same thing.......I need my clit to be given a total rest in between orgasms......and if / when I do have the next one that night (I tend to have HUGE ones, rather than smaller `mini' orgasms) - it's usually of a lesser intensity than the first.

We're all different I guess............I'm just glad I know how to have one - so many women haven't - which is heartbreaking!

 

[secretluv]

I have exactly the same thing.......I need my clit to be given a total rest in between orgasms......and if / when I do have the next one that night (I tend to have HUGE ones, rather than smaller `mini' orgasms) - it's usually of a lesser intensity than the first.

We're all different I guess............I'm just glad I know how to have one - so many women haven't - which is heartbreaking!

Yes we all need to be very thankful that we can orgasm at all. I know of and have talked to many women that don't have orgasms and really don't understand what they feel like. They have basically resigned themselves that this is the way it supposed to be. I feel so badly for them! They really don't know what they are missing. I also think that is why so many women get bored with sex and as they get older would rather go with out it. Pity for them!

I'm glad I'm not one of them!

 

[DarkkSeduction]

I have the same problem after I cum once any clitoral stimulation at all is almost painful

 

[KillerVanity]

If you can cum once and you're happy, then you shouldn't try to force more!

 

[petrel]

I have the same problem after I cum once any clitoral stimulation at all is almost painful

mmm me too - i am bi and when i was with my last female partner i used to tease her and make her come several times but she could never do the same to me.
I can come from penetration either vaginal or anal though and then come from clit stimulation.
How about a strap-on fucking and breast teasing and then getting licked out?

 

[funwdi]

Mmmmmmm

All of that works very well, thank you. Makes me have a grrrreat orgasm...once. But, once can be enough if you consider that some women can't orgasm at all. YIKES! But what a cool challenge for a Lesbian. Hmmmmm...

 

[Garylad]

Acceptance

Hi all

As a guy I can't begin to speak from personal experience but, well, I hope this helps.

When my current girlfriend orgasms she is hyper sensitive and can't bear to be touched for a good long time. I've had other girlfriends who could come a dozen times and still be begging for more.

I think it really is a question of individuality. You are just made that way.

The focus should be on enjoying what you have to the fullest. As some women have stated, one big orgasm is better than nothing at all. The intimacy, affection and passion you share with your partners counts for just as much, if not more, than being able to hit double figures in the orgasm stakes.

Have a great time!!

 

[BlkPnthr]

Pretty much all posts here are good ones, with some form of advice or suggestion. If it is only your clit that becomes to sensitive, you may wanna mess around with the gspot.....makes for great orgasms!

 

[funwdi]

Y'know, I should just be grateful for what I have, huh? Thanks for all the posts, everyone!

 

[BlkPnthr]

That works too! LOL

 

[MissTaken]

BlkPnthr is on to something here.

If you clit is too sensitive after an orgasm, are you able to achieve orgasm through other forms of stimulation?

Can you cum by nipple stimulation or as suggested, g spot?

Maybe your lover would enjoy exploring your body one little bit at a time to find as many ways as possible for you to orgasm. Hmmm not that sounds like fun even if the results are lacking


Good Luck and enjoy !

 

[BlkPnthr]

BlkPnthr is on to something here.

If you clit is too sensitive after an orgasm, are you able to achieve orgasm through other forms of stimulation?

Can you cum by nipple stimulation or as suggested, g spot?

Maybe your lover would enjoy exploring your body one little bit at a time to find as many ways as possible for you to orgasm. Hmmm not that sounds like fun even if the results are lacking


Good Luck and enjoy !

In my humble opinion, the best suggestion I can think of is to take your time after you cum and just enjoy foreplay again. Could really make a night out of it After you cum, give your partner some attention, and vice versa. Not everything revolves around the clit

 

[Ice Princess]

I think the g-spot suggestion is a very good one. The only other thing I can think of that hasn't already been mentioned here is to maybe try some manual stimulation with your legs closer together and the outer lips shielding your clit while it's too sensitive and stimulating it more gently by rubbing against it. The entire area is probably sensitive after orgasm, so it should feel pretty good, even if it doesn't end up giving you an orgasm.

I agree with everyone who said it's not all about cumming as many times as possible in a row, but I can see where you're coming from too. Sometimes you have to explore things to find out exactly what your body can do and what incredible things you can experience. It's so much fun discovering some new sexual treat for yourself or your partner.

 

[funwdi]

Nice!

Ice,
Excellent suggestion. Think I will try this with my girl tonight. Very cool. Thank you!
Exploration is wonderful, isn't it?