HELP! girlf friend trouble

[funkingroovin67]

hey everyone, im desperately in need of some help

my girlfriend and i have been having sex since the end of novermber. i was her first she was mine, yadda yadda yadda

the sex has been great for both of us untill this past weekend.

she lives kind of far away and i only get to see her on weekends, but when i do we have sex anywhere from2-5 times in 3 days.

as of last weekend, she has started to get a lot of air insider her when we have sex, and it also isnt as satifying for her. i tried everything i can, but she is afraid she is getting "loose" and wants to stop having sex for a while, which of course is tough but i would do anything for her.

anyone know whats going on with her? its kind of weird.

 

[watergirl]

Hmmm.

Sounds like the two of you were having some good enthusiastic sex.

Air can get in, it makes that goofy noise when it gets out. It's not the end of the world, but maybe it embarrassed her, and that might be bothering her just as much as a fear of getting loose.

Your dick hasn't gotten bigger in the last year, so why would the infrequent sex you guys have stretch her out?

I offer this as a very basic logical question you could ask her.
Your statement about the sex not being as satisfying for her makes me wonder what sort of toys she's playing with when she's away from you, that she's worried about getting too loose. If she isn't playing with herself at all, suggest she should try dipping a finger in during the week - that should reassure her that she's still nice and tight as a normal thing. It's just the great sex that caused her to relax and loosen up and get some air in there...

I don't know what is normal for you during sex, but try something new that you think she might like - be more romantic or more forceful, or go down on her longer/sooner/later in the sex, whatever - surprise yourselves, good luck.

This isn't a very coherent post, but I thought someone ought to reply.

 

[asiasiren]

Change positions. She is not getting more loose. The vacume you are creating is causing air to get in and then you are forcing it out. the position you are in is not allowing air to excape except for a very small area thus causing noise. Changing positions will normally make them go away. No damage will be done no matter.

 

[funkingroovin67]

well, she's 18 and im 20, and she isnt very experimental when i comes to sex. it was everything i could do just to get her to go doggy style.

she dosent use toys, and she thinks masterbating is just weird. she thinks I have a fetish because i think she looks hot in her underwear. she is very very very very conservative when it comes to sex.

i tried once to venture into something fun and maybe blindfold her, but she hated it and took it off right away, i think its a control issue.

but she does enjoy sex and i know for a fact that she has an orgasm everytime. i make sure she has hers first, then i have mine, sometimes we even have them at the same time.

but she really needs to get adventurous. i would love it if she stopped being so reserved about it.

 

[Mskey]

about that air

if it stays trapped in the vaginal cavity and doesn't get to escape in one of those wonderful mood killing vaginal farts it can become quite painful for her. It's like having a giant air bubble except it's in your vagina and not belly.

Now onto the looseness...you say she's new to all of this so I'm going to guess she's not familiar with doing her kegel exercises to keep her vaginal muscles in good shape. Try to steer her to some info about that if you can. It'll be good for both of you and she can do them anywhere any time. Basically she needs to contract and release as if she were trying to stop the flow of urine when she pees. If she does this faithfully every day there shouldn't be any worries about getting to loose. Remind her that the vagina is an incredibly elastic thing designed to allow the passage of a human childs head which can be anywhere from 12 inches or more in circumference. Unless she's playing 2 liters for dildos I don't think she's going to stretch herself out.

 

[sexxyange1]

I hope the situation has resolved itself. Her ultra conservative take on sex could be causing some paranoia. Even without kegel excercises, i think it takes a fair amount to really loosen things up down there.

I don' think I'm being helpful, but I replied just the same

On another note I have to laugh at the air issue. The first time it happened to me I was absolutely mortified, but my man was so in the moment he just plowed right through Some moments are just too priceless.