Help a stranger (non sexual)

[NCincestlover]

It's almost 4am and I need someone to talk to. My ex girlfriend officially ended or relationship lsst night and I'm so hurt. It's too late/early to call a friend so I'm on here looking for anyone who can not only be an ear but could also give me some advice. I am not doing good at all right now and I'm all alone

 

[Gunter99]

I hope you are ok

I did see your xhampster site, wow, nice cock there!

If you want some chat please pm me

 

[beingtrue2me]

All the advice in the world isn't gonna help or ease the pain. Hopefully you feel more like you soon and not like the shell of your real self (we've all been there)

 

[NCincestlover]

All the advice in the world isn't gonna help or ease the pain. Hopefully you feel more like you soon and not like the shell of your real self (we've all been there)

Thank you and I hope I do too. I konw time heals all wounds but mine are so deep its going to take a long time.

 

[Mockingjay]

Thank you and I hope I do too. I konw time heals all wounds but mine are so deep its going to take a long time.

Oh, buddy, you are right. Time heals and it doesn't say how long is the healing. Don't seclude yourself. Go out, have fun, meet new friends, and enjoy everything life offers you atm.

 

[NCincestlover]

Oh, buddy, you are right. Time heals and it doesn't say how long is the healing. Don't seclude yourself. Go out, have fun, meet new friends, and enjoy everything life offers you atm.

Thank you I was just thinking I needed a hug

 

[ashesatwork]

Hope you have a better day. Give it some time

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Hello

I am a person who feels your pain. My one time girlfriend left me at Christmas time. I sulked and was depressed but found a way to carry on.

Turns out there are a bunch of fish in the sea as the saying goes. Sulk, mourn whatever you do and then keep trying. Not every female will say no. Good luck!

 

[Doog_kuron]

I am a person who feels your pain. My one time girlfriend left me at Christmas time. I sulked and was depressed but found a way to carry on.

Turns out there are a bunch of fish in the sea as the saying goes. Sulk, mourn whatever you do and then keep trying. Not every female will say no. Good luck!

At Christmas!? That's pretty rough by any stretch rather bizarrely I've never been in that position myself. But I've known loss so I have nothing but sympathy. Though it's difficult to really accept such a sudden trauma it helps having good friends or family about you, even a sympathetic ear. And clearly if she left you then she's clearly not the right gal for you, and when your ready look at it as an opportunity to meet someone better Best of luck!

 

[lonely_niceboy]

You need to give yourself time to properly mourn the passing of your relationship. You will have to go through all the stages--anger, sadness, denial, regret, what if? etc. This process varies in how long it takes in people, but trying to short circuit it by acting as if nothing is wrong and trying to date people right away will not help in any way and in fact may just end up hurting you more. Take some time out, give yourself permission to cry, and then slowly but surely get involved in other interests in your life--hobbies, volunteering, work etc. A lot will depend on how long you were together. The longer you were together obviously the more hurt you will be and the longer it will take you to fully recover.

I once took about 3 full years after a break up before i even said "hi" in a friendly way to a girl, let alone ask one out. I was just hanging out with the guys a lot. Finally bear in mind that you will never actually "forget" the person--as much as we humans would like to have a delete button, we simply don't. You'll just reach a day where the pain won't be traumatic, but like an old scar it may always "sting" a little. Essentially when you can reach the point of calm acceptance or forgiveness (or both) then your process will be done. Make a conscious choice to keep the good from that person in your heart while letting the bad that happened go.

 

[Mockingjay]

Another hug, buddy.

 

[stephcumbunny]

Pull on your boots. Stomp around the woods. Drink a Genny Cream Ale. Call me in the morning. Hugs and kisses, sweety.

 

[NCincestlover]

Pull on your boots. Stomp around the woods. Drink a Genny Cream Ale. Call me in the morning. Hugs and kisses, sweety.

Why not tonight? I'm doing much better now. Thank you

 

[NCincestlover]

Another hug, buddy.

Thank you. The picture is adorable