help a newbie?...please

[lillymyoung]

Hello lit world, I am a 22 year old girl in southern CA. I've had the daddy fantasy for years and being newly single, interested in at least learning, if not pursuing, about the idea in a real relationship. So if any daddies (or other more experienced little girls) would like to share anything with me i'd love to hear from you

 

[chuckhoke]

good luck!

good luck! go slow, and maybe turn on your private messages....

 

[SDCardinal]

To echo the last poster.... Go slow, lily. Take your time and find the right person.

If you're around and would like, send me a message...if you're not, or don't want to, then I still hope your night is good.

 

[xxxpaulzzz]

I would contact you if you turned pm on

 

[lillymyoung]

i think i turned pm on....still learning this site

 

[lillymyoung]

will do, thank you!

 

[Timhammer]

will do, thank you!

I sent you a PM babygirl. If I don't hear back from you, good luck in your search. As others have said, take it slow.

 

[Pink_Milkmaid]

Hello lit world, I am a 22 year old girl in southern CA. I've had the daddy fantasy for years and being newly single, interested in at least learning, if not pursuing, about the idea in a real relationship. So if any daddies (or other more experienced little girls) would like to share anything with me i'd love to hear from you

go really slow, be super choosy, and be SAFE if you're taking things IRL. (meet in public, don't give too much contact info, etc).

 

[johnmatrix0143]

go really slow, be super choosy, and be SAFE if you're taking things IRL. (meet in public, don't give too much contact info, etc).

SO, Pink Milkmaid..... You have interesting thoughts based on SinBanquet!!!

 

[Chris_Michael]

go really slow, be super choosy, and be SAFE if you're taking things IRL. (meet in public, don't give too much contact info, etc).

How are going to have an entire thread centered around the concept of genuine ads and then come here and fall for this bullshit ad? LOL

 

[Pink_Milkmaid]

How are going to have an entire thread centered around the concept of genuine ads and then come here and fall for this bullshit ad? LOL

It took me exactly 30 seconds to be friendly and helpful. If this is a 22 yo looking for an IRL relationship, she might need a pointer to be safe and not fall for the first few responses she gets. That's all.

 

[Chris_Michael]

It took me exactly 30 seconds to be friendly and helpful. If this is a 22 yo looking for an IRL relationship, she might need a pointer to be safe and not fall for the first few responses she gets. That's all.

Face it, we're dealing with a double standard here. If this chick was genuine, she would have gone to the How To section of the forum. This chick has a terrible ad, ZERO INFORMATION in her profile, and 3 posts. Seriously?

If this were a man, you would be chastising him (rightfully so)... Oh wait, this probably is a man. So, forget it...

 

[Pink_Milkmaid]

Face it, we're dealing with a double standard here. If this chick was genuine, she would have gone to the How To section of the forum. This chick has a terrible ad, ZERO INFORMATION in her profile, and 3 posts. Seriously?

If this were a man, you would be chastising him (rightfully so)... Oh wait, this probably is a man. So, forget it...

Could she do a better ad and profile? Sure. But she didn't come on that thread looking for advice. I don't go on individual threads critiquing ads. Just thought I'd be helpful in case this person is genuine because they mentioned IRL. I really have no idea why you've taken such a dislike to me and my posts, but please, feel free to just ignore me if I irritate you so much.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Could she do a better ad and profile? Sure. But she didn't come on that thread looking for advice. I don't go on individual threads critiquing ads. Just thought I'd be helpful in case this person is genuine because they mentioned IRL. I really have no idea why you've taken such a dislike to me and my posts, but please, feel free to just ignore me if I irritate you so much.

What are you talking about? I don't dislike you. >.< Just because I challenge you, that doesn't mean I have ill feelings towards you...

...well, except when you do the whole "YOU" thing, which is mildly annoying.

 

[LWulf]

Pile on the noobie!!​

ahem... welcome to Lit and good luck in your search. Some sound, good advice up to now...

 

[tinwalker]

What are you talking about? I don't dislike you. >.< Just because I challenge you, that doesn't mean I have ill feelings towards you...

...well, except when you do the whole "YOU" thing, which is mildly annoying.

Offering someone advice on how to safely pursue a fetish in real life is a rather different thing from crafting creative stories and worlds for someone's private use.

The type of fake profiles you are talking about are much less likely in someone who is asking for how to set something up in real life, the advice given is going to be received and potentially followed by far more than just the OP, and the sort of fake profiles you are likely to encounter in people looking to meet in actual person are some of the major reasons the whole "go slow" and "be careful" advice is so important in this context.

Just saying.

 

[Pink_Milkmaid]

Offering someone advice on how to safely pursue a fetish in real life is a rather different thing from crafting creative stories and worlds for someone's private use.

The type of fake profiles you are talking about are much less likely in someone who is asking for how to set something up in real life, the advice given is going to be received and potentially followed by far more than just the OP, and the sort of fake profiles you are likely to encounter in people looking to meet in actual person are some of the major reasons the whole "go slow" and "be careful" advice is so important in this context.

Just saying.

Exactly. She said "IRL" or similiar and I wanted to offer advice/encouragement b/c maybe she IS a 22 yo newbie, and I'd rather spend 30 seconds typing advice than hear later of a lit horror story.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Offering someone advice on how to safely pursue a fetish in real life is a rather different thing from crafting creative stories and worlds for someone's private use.

The type of fake profiles you are talking about are much less likely in someone who is asking for how to set something up in real life, the advice given is going to be received and potentially followed by far more than just the OP, and the sort of fake profiles you are likely to encounter in people looking to meet in actual person are some of the major reasons the whole "go slow" and "be careful" advice is so important in this context.

Just saying.

Exactly. She said "IRL" or similiar and I wanted to offer advice/encouragement b/c maybe she IS a 22 yo newbie, and I'd rather spend 30 seconds typing advice than hear later of a lit horror story.

I fully expect this to be a consistent thought process when men post how to questions on the personals...

....because we're just gonna give them the benefit of the doubt.

There's a question about older women on here. Why aren't you answering that question? I mean, that person is obviously a young male wanting to know about women and what to do. And it's not guaranteed to be a bullshit ad. So, why aren't you posting over there? Hmmmm....?

 

[lillymyoung]

Face it, we're dealing with a double standard here. If this chick was genuine, she would have gone to the How To section of the forum. This chick has a terrible ad, ZERO INFORMATION in her profile, and 3 posts. Seriously?

If this were a man, you would be chastising him (rightfully so)... Oh wait, this probably is a man. So, forget it...

I'm sorry, I'm really confused by this for a few reasons.
1. Being new to this, why would you criticize me for I post I made asking for tips, info, advice, etc. not being in the "appropriate" section?
2. how is this a terrible ad? Or an ad at all? I posted it in personals because I was seeking personal communication with people who might have wanted to share information.
3. how much information is supposed to be in one's profile, you say i have zero. So age, location, picture, interests....none of those things qualify as info?
I'm asking genuinely, I haven't had time to revisit this thread or the site for awhile, so I still really don't have a great understanding on how to navigate it.

 

[Friendlymann]

go really slow, be super choosy, and be SAFE if you're taking things IRL. (meet in public, don't give too much contact info, etc).

Very very good advice, be safe and have fun.

 

[newby59]

new to daddydom

I'm new to the "Daddy" and 3/4 of a continent away. However, perhaps we can share stories/experiences as we explore this avenue.

 

[ArthurW]

Well you are full so you have all the help you need I guess. Have fun lady.

 

[happyplayer]

Very sensible advice Pink Milkmaid and I know it is offered with the best of intentions. Nobody should have argued with what you said.