So, I just created this account after coming across this site. I've been reading a few posts here and there and I figured why not register and join in. Hi. 
I'll go ahead and break the ice.
It wasn't recently that I learned I enjoyed being a dominant partner. It actually took a little time and it started my sophomore year in college (I'm a senior now). I can't really explain the *exact* reason why I enjoy it. Maybe there's some biological nature to it, but a lot of it is certainly mental. It gets me going to imagine a fine lady tied tightly, naked in front of me. It displays this innocence and defenselessness that makes my heart quiver and my mind reach a high and I somehow connect with her on some deeper level. Maybe it's a rookie thing, but the idea that I wouldn't even know where to start adds to that new world I just stepped into.
Then there is that dark aspect that I can't imagine is not there in all men. The idea that you now control her, that her will and her body are now seemingly a part of your own and it gives this erotic feeling, almost completely unrelated to this naked lady in front of you, but a deep lust for power and you just want more of it as you carry out your own role.
I just thought I might share that with you guys because I am actually interested in what about BDSM gets you going?
Hello Again,
Morbs
I'll go ahead and break the ice.
It wasn't recently that I learned I enjoyed being a dominant partner. It actually took a little time and it started my sophomore year in college (I'm a senior now). I can't really explain the *exact* reason why I enjoy it. Maybe there's some biological nature to it, but a lot of it is certainly mental. It gets me going to imagine a fine lady tied tightly, naked in front of me. It displays this innocence and defenselessness that makes my heart quiver and my mind reach a high and I somehow connect with her on some deeper level. Maybe it's a rookie thing, but the idea that I wouldn't even know where to start adds to that new world I just stepped into.
Then there is that dark aspect that I can't imagine is not there in all men. The idea that you now control her, that her will and her body are now seemingly a part of your own and it gives this erotic feeling, almost completely unrelated to this naked lady in front of you, but a deep lust for power and you just want more of it as you carry out your own role.
I just thought I might share that with you guys because I am actually interested in what about BDSM gets you going?
Hello Again,
Morbs