Heart Stepped on in Michigan

[kenyon]

To All:

 

[Cipher]

That really sucks!! that was truly a mean thing he did to you!!


You'll hurt, but you'll get over it in time, and that is what's important here. Maybe for future situations, maybe being more cautious when it comes to giving people over the net your heart. Some people think breaking hearts over the net is the "cool" thing to do..and it's really not. I've been there, i know how you feel right now.
I'm sorry for your tragic experience with this person.




*edited for spelling*

 

[mi_dan]

Sorry Kenyon. I wish you better luck in the future. Remember when life gives you lemons, make lemonade! I hope you are feeling better

 

[Barely__There]

Go ahead and cry. When you put your feelings in someone else's hands, they are not always as careful with them as they should be. There are RL meetings and relationships that sour like this too, so don't let this one get you down on them totally.

Remember, you are the one who had the guts and heart to at least feel.

 

[knightstalker]

To All:

How does it feel to put your heart on your sleeve, and then get burned!! This is in reference to Forum started by Mr_Eightball
and his need for affection.... Yes, he was a very nice guy.
One who says all the nice and romantic things your heart wants to hear. God, we would talk for 3 hours on Yahoo IM, talk on the phone. He was so sweet and honest ( I thought). Even sent me a lyric on how me and him were alike, and he wanted to get in his car and drive to me so on and so on....
He couldn't wait to meet, said of how he wanted to feel close
and the hand in hand walking... God, I was so excited.
Then we meet on Saturday, and yes very good looking and nice.
Then his attitude was all together different. He told me before we meet that oh yes I do like you I already know that.. Then bamm
Sunday, he says, GEE I just had to much guilt and oh yeah one other thing There wasn't any physical attraction. How can someone say all the right things and even send nice writings to you. Make you believe that he can't wait to have some quiet time with you. I said to him I was afraid of getting my heart broke by you. No, by our talks I know I really like you.

Well people, all those nice and sweet words meant nothing. A big line and I fell hook-line-and-sinker for it... Mr 8 you really hurt me how you can be so sweet and then so hurtful after meeting.
I just had to get this off my chest I have cried myself to sleep at night. I really did like him you know...

Kenyon aka Wendy

I believe they call them predators..They are lurking out there and this personal section is full of them ..they find you when you are vulrenable and they talk of sweet noithings because they know you will take the bait and once you do they pounce on you and attack with there cruelity or stupidity which ever you choose..I am sorry to hear you were a victim of this creature and hope you have learned a lesson that hurts inside but will make you a stronger person in the end..

 

[kentp69]

Sorry...

Please put him aside ... not all people are like this. Try to have faith again. There are nice honest people out there, and one for you. Keep you head up, and remember to keep smiling.

truly sorry.

 

[starwriter57]

Kenyon~

I certainly know how you feel. It's happened to me twice, quite by accident. The women I met touched me with their words and lifted me with their desires, and I was absorbed. After a few months, it all came crashing down and I was left alone. But what I felt was real, and it made me feel alive. And all I can think of even now is that these women may have missed out on something very special. And I think, too, that I found some measure of happiness unexpectedly, even though it did not last. Sometimes things are not meant to be. Only, like you, I wish that people would be a little more honest with their feelings for someone, rather than hide behind a mask of deceit and lies and selfishness. But I feel by your message that you are a survivor. And you will win in the end, probably when you least expect it.

~Starwriter

 

[apollides]

oh hell...

He's a piece of shit, plain and simple. I'd just like to reiterate some of what everyone's been saying: You ARE a survivor (or at least you seem like my perception of one, judging by the posts I've read from you.) Not everyone is like this; For this ONE asshole on Lit, there are 10,000 decent people here (seems like I've read that many posts, anyway, and no complaints yet). take a chance again and cast another line (thread?) ;p Chances are, they'll snag a much nicer guy than the one who, let's face it, didn't desrve to be SHIT on by you, much less get the priveliege (can't spell that word for shit...) of talking to you. Heads up kenyon. The good days lie ahead.

 

[Guest]

I'm very sorry to hear about what happened. Some so called "men" are just little boys pretending, with no idea how to treat a woman, be respectful and a gentleman. Obviously his momma didn't raise him very well. Don't let that put you off though, there are alot of really good guys out there, that are looking for someone with a giving heart such as yourself. If I could jump thru this P.C. to you, I'd give you great big Hug!!

Much Peace
Koz