Having sex in front of other couples...

[tryn2Bgood]

Have you ever thought something you did was one of those 'everybody does it' kind of things, but maybe it's not? I'm interested in getting opinions on the following:

When I was younger (post highschool), I had several very close girl friends. We had zero modesty between us. We often went out on 'double dates' and sometimes, at the end of the night, we both ended up having sex with our dates near each other. (College dorm room, shared hotel room, on blankets beside a secluded lake, hangout room in someone's basement...just wherever we ended up.) It wasn't planned or discussed, before or after, and we didn't interact we each other...more like nobody sought out privacy and it just happened that way. Nobody ever made a big deal out of it or acted embarrassed or regretful. This was 'the norm' with at least five different friends of mine. I don't know if we just didn't have any inhibitions or what, but I never thought it was weird until my recent BF was shocked to hear about this. (It's not something that any of us do now. As we all grew up and got our own houses, there wasn't any need.)

So, what I'm wondering is: Is this commonplace for anyone else, or were my friends and I just sluts? Just curious...I never even looked at it as unusual before.

 

[extreme_hetro_sex]

Have you ever thought something you did was one of those 'everybody does it' kind of things, but maybe it's not? I'm interested in getting opinions on the following:

When I was younger (post highschool), I had several very close girl friends. We had zero modesty between us. We often went out on 'double dates' and sometimes, at the end of the night, we both ended up having sex with our dates near each other. (College dorm room, shared hotel room, on blankets beside a secluded lake, hangout room in someone's basement...just wherever we ended up.) It wasn't planned or discussed, before or after, and we didn't interact we each other...more like nobody sought out privacy and it just happened that way. Nobody ever made a big deal out of it or acted embarrassed or regretful. This was 'the norm' with at least five different friends of mine. I don't know if we just didn't have any inhibitions or what, but I never thought it was weird until my recent BF was shocked to hear about this. (It's not something that any of us do now. As we all grew up and got our own houses, there wasn't any need.)

So, what I'm wondering is: Is this commonplace for anyone else, or were my friends and I just sluts? Just curious...I never even looked at it as unusual before.

I don't think you or your friends were sluts. I also don't think it's unusual. Though I didn't do anything like that, but as a male, I think there are many males who had done that. I know a few of them. They always boast about that.

You and your friends might have a very high comfort level with each other at that time. I kind of envy you for having that kind of relationship with your friends.

 

[tryn2Bgood]

I don't think you or your friends were sluts. I also don't think it's unusual. Though I didn't do anything like that, but as a male, I think there are many males who had done that. I know a few of them. They always boast about that.

You and your friends might have a very high comfort level with each other at that time. I kind of envy you for having that kind of relationship with your friends.

Thanks. Yes, we definitely had a high comfort level with each other. I think it's more common for girls to be open with each other. Girls can be affectionate, compare bodies, share clothes, do each other's hair and makeup, and it's perfectly natural. I never even thought about what the guys were thinking of the situation.

 

[luckyseven]

It's not unusual

My wife and I often swap with a couple we have known for many years and have had sex in close proximity. We never felt that it was odd and seeing each other with someone else is very erotic. The four of us enjoy camping and have sex outdoors together with own partners - never had problems and all of us don't have problems with it - indeed we enjoy it.

 

[bibethhotwet]

No not unusual. My husband and I have had sex in the same room with other couples as well as have swapped and had sex with other couples spouses. We experience a tremendous turn on from this as we are both voyeuristic and love watching.

 

[tryn2Bgood]

I've gotten a lot of PMs on this, and I think a lot of people get an extra thrill out of watching or being watched during sex. I can understand how that could be an erotic experience. My experiences were a little different in that it wasn't really about the others couples being there or not. We were young, having fun, and just didn't care what was going on around us. Although, thinking back on it, the guys probably did enjoy it in a different way than me and my friends. I'm sure more erotic accounts were passed around by the guys when retelling the story. Oh well, it's nice to be featured in somebody's fantasies, I guess. ☺

 

[Lucien_Al]

Pool

Never had same room but when we were younger we were active nudists and on one occasion we were quietly fucking in the pool and before long 3 couples were in the other corners fucking away.

 

[tryn2Bgood]

Never had same room but when we were younger we were active nudists and on one occasion we were quietly fucking in the pool and before long 3 couples were in the other corners fucking away.

Yes, that's the kind of thing I'm talking about. We use to go 'skinny dipping' a lot too, and that stuff just happened...

 

[Porkwarrior]

(It's not something that any of us do now. As we all grew up and got our own houses, there wasn't any need.)

That's the key sentence in your post, right there.
In highschool/uni you are kind of stuck for places, and well make do (and memories).

Once you're an adult though...well unless you seek them out, those memories are hard to create again. Until you spend time on sailboats (there's only so many feet to work with, and regatta parties generally feature excessive amounts of rum, and bulkheads are mostly just plywood...)

But yeah, that highschool thrill of having your girlfriends hand wrapped around your cock listening to your and her friend fucking their brains out...kinda gone by the 30's. Ofcourse divorced in your 40's you still listen, then unabashedly yell "OH HELL WE CAN DO BETTER THAN THAT, GERANIMOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!"

 

[Christobal]

I have stayed in hotels were it was known if you left your drapes open it was OK for others to watch. No one in the room but OK to watch. We kinda liked that.

 

[jasonmason]

So one of my biggest fantasies right now is to have a swap. So he fucks my wife while I fuck his wife in the same room

 

[tryn2Bgood]

That's the key sentence in your post, right there.
In highschool/uni you are kind of stuck for places, and well make do (and memories).

Once you're an adult though...well unless you seek them out, those memories are hard to create again. Until you spend time on sailboats (there's only so many feet to work with, and regatta parties generally feature excessive amounts of rum, and bulkheads are mostly just plywood...)

But yeah, that highschool thrill of having your girlfriends hand wrapped around your cock listening to your and her friend fucking their brains out...kinda gone by the 30's. Ofcourse divorced in your 40's you still listen, then unabashedly yell "OH HELL WE CAN DO BETTER THAN THAT, GERANIMOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!"

Sounds like you can relate ☺

 

[Porkwarrior]

Sounds like you can relate ☺

I was spoiled, my 20's were mostly spent in a mortgage free house where the house rules were loose, but mostly boiled down to "only be a dick in small doses".
And we were "poly" before anybody had ever used the phrase "poly".

Did make many fun memories, very occasionally repeated in my married 30's. And as often as I can repeat them in my divorced 40's

 

[clarissaj1982]

yes

Sex in a VW bus.

I was young, still learning, and exploring what it means to be bisexual. My friend, Linda, and I were heading out to the desert in her bus (lots of good places for sex in the desert). We spotted another friend, Stephanie in front of the ice rink. We stopped to talk with her. See what was going on. She said that she and her boyfriend, Tom, been skating. They were both feeling a little 'frisky' and had decided to go out and find someplace to do it. Tom, she said, was coming right out. Unhesitatingly Linda, told Steph that was exactly what we were doing, that we were going out to the desert, that we had an extra blanket, and that we could give them a ride.
About that time Tom came out and they both jumped in the back. The middle seat had been removed in the bus so there was plenty of room to roll around on the back floor. There was lots of groping going on in the back as we made our way out of town.
When we got out to the desert Linda and I spread our blanket on the sand next to the bus and proceeded to remove one anothers clothes. Linda and I loved 69 and wasted no time.
Steph and Tom stayed in the back of the van until Tom came the first time. I promised never to tell anyone this and I am going to break that promise right now. When Tom came in Steph's mouth that night he called for his Mama. Linda and I had a good laugh over that and later those guys did too. Eventually Tom took Steph from behind. She had her hands on the floorboard and her knees in the sand. It was pretty hot to watch.
No sharing partners that night, but plenty of sex in front of others. I still think about it today.

 

[Inspire8]

*****

 

[JackOffer]

Many times! The first time was with my late first wife in front of my parents. Then we swapped and I fucked Mom while Dad fucked her.

 

[midwestdude]

......

 

[Inspire8]

*****

 

[bristolbabcock]

Honestly

I think you and your friends were sluts, nothing wrong with that at all because you did grow out of it... at the time that was what was necessary to get fucked... sorry I'm not being an asshole but that is the reality of it and I don't want to be hippo critic about it... I was too back in my earlier years... and believe me it wouldn't take much to make us revert back!

 

[zotique]

When my wife and I first met we lived in one room in Japan with her friends.

The other couple fucked uninhibitedly and we did too, albeit more quietly.

We moved into the futon closet just so we wouldn't get stepped on when someone got up to pee in the hallway toilet.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny

Have you ever thought something you did was one of those 'everybody does it' kind of things, but maybe it's not? I'm interested in getting opinions on the following:

When I was younger (post highschool), I had several very close girl friends. We had zero modesty between us. We often went out on 'double dates' and sometimes, at the end of the night, we both ended up having sex with our dates near each other. (College dorm room, shared hotel room, on blankets beside a secluded lake, hangout room in someone's basement...just wherever we ended up.) It wasn't planned or discussed, before or after, and we didn't interact we each other...more like nobody sought out privacy and it just happened that way. Nobody ever made a big deal out of it or acted embarrassed or regretful. This was 'the norm' with at least five different friends of mine. I don't know if we just didn't have any inhibitions or what, but I never thought it was weird until my recent BF was shocked to hear about this. (It's not something that any of us do now. As we all grew up and got our own houses, there wasn't any need.)

So, what I'm wondering is: Is this commonplace for anyone else, or were my friends and I just sluts? Just curious...I never even looked at it as unusual before.

This was pretty much our lives before we married and after. We were the first of our group to marry and the first to have a small home. We all fucked together at the drive in movies, out riding, on lovers lane, and in our home after we married.
Many of our early stories are about our kinky life as young couples just doing what came naturally.

My wife and I often swap with a couple we have known for many years and have had sex in close proximity. We never felt that it was odd and seeing each other with someone else is very erotic. The four of us enjoy camping and have sex outdoors together with own partners - never had problems and all of us don't have problems with it - indeed we enjoy it.

Again, a repeat of my wife and I.

Never had same room but when we were younger we were active nudists and on one occasion we were quietly fucking in the pool and before long 3 couples were in the other corners fucking away.

We've spent 50+ years fucking in first gravel pit lakes, small and large rivers in springs, lakes, and an ocean. Hot tubs and RV/motel pools were common for group fucking. Back then my wife and I only fucked each other yet many had fondled her from her late teens on.

So one of my biggest fantasies right now is to have a swap. So he fucks my wife while I fuck his wife in the same room

Don't wait. As our user name implies, fantasies can come true. It doesn't have to be a fairy tale.

Many times! The first time was with my late first wife in front of my parents. Then we swapped and I fucked Mom while Dad fucked her.

Of all the nasty kinky things we've done I've only fucked my wife in front of her mom and sister. Then only because they caught us and repeatedly snuck in on us in the act. No other family members were involved.

 

[Cybermiss]

Ohhh I can answer this one.

Cybermiss and I have had sex in front of others before.
I love watching to people in love having sex.