My wife and i have talked about haveing a 3some for a couple of years but never had the chance. Could not find the right woman to join us. well the right one came to us and asked us about it. So next fri night we are going out to eat for my birthday and coming home for dessert. Wife is very excited and i am also. We had the talk of any questions, concerns, and what is ok to do and not ok to do. I am a VERY faithful husband so it will be a little weird and may not feel right for me to have sex with her, but wife says it will ok. I feel bad because I have had a past where an EX stepped on my heart and ran around on me (which i caught them) and am not able to think of the thought of another guy joining us. Is all this normal and is there any other questions that need to asked. Thanks for any advice