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Having a hard time enjoying masterbation

How are you doing it? With what are you doing it with? Maybe you just need to experiment more? Also do you use porn? Mentally fantasize?
 
Yes did you just start masturbating or have you recently lost interest in it?. There are many things that it could be.
 
twister947 said:
Laugh. Why do you keep masturbsting, then?
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It's hard to type with one hand, isn't it?

Maybe Nerdygirl knows from reading about it that other people enjoy the hell out of masturbating, and wonders what she's missing. I wouldn't blame her.

My only advice to you is to just enjoy what you're enjoying, and don't make a big thing about not getting more. As a male, I've never really had to deal with that, as my equipment is right out there in the open and it's kind of hard for a male not to get immediate reward for jerking off. Ladies are different, or so I'm told.

On this forum, I've read many accounts from who didn't get much from wanking for a long time. Then, as their bodies matured and their hangups were overcome, the dam broke and they started getting off on a regular basis ... not necessarily every time, but enough to make it a nice diversion from the usual.

On this site, there's a page called the Blank Manual:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=243894

and you can probably find more answers there. Good luck, and remember that the journey is the reward.
 
I kind of agree with the "why do you masturbate" answer.. but taken a step further. What are you feeling when you decide that you want to touch yourself? Are you already aroused? Are you doing it so someone else can watch or so that you can tell someone else that you've done it? What prompts it?

if I masturbate when I'm not already aroused, I might as well be shopping for light bulbs at Home Depot. (Now.. to my boyfriend.. that Home Depot thing is the perfect foreplay.. but that's where he and I are different)

are there sexual activities that might precede masturbation where you find pleasure?
 
Nerdygirl101792 said:
When I masterbate It not very enjoyable I'm just wondering is it me
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A bit more info may help others give you some suggestions.

Are you talking about the act of masterbating itself, or how you feel about it afterwards?

If it is the act itself, and you are not finding it enjoyable, what are you basing this on? Has it been more enjoyable before, and isn't so much now? Or are you just expecting it to be more enjoyable, because you've read / heard / saw on some porn that it is supposed to be some out-of-this-world experience?

Or is this some comparative thing, like "masterbating is not very enjoyable, compared to sex with a partner / chocolate gelato / a good chic-flick?"

Great sex, even of the flying solo variety, starts in your mind, and is not solely a physical thing. If you aren't getting there, inside your head, then yeah, you might find it as gratifying as shopping at Home Depot, as pointed out above. **makes note to check out rubber O-Rings at HD, this weekend
 
Have you recently ended an intimate relationship? Sometimes when we are doing the autopsy on a lost love, our interest or ability to muster the energy to make solo play worth while falters.

If this is the case, just put away the toys for now and focus on letting time do what it does.
 
It may have something to do with the mind-set you bring to it.

For me, it was learning to focus on myself. I set aside a special time for it, and set the mood with soft lighting, music, and incense. A bottle of body oil, a little wine or pot maybe, and NO INTERRUPTIONS. Then I made love to myself the way I wanted others to make love to me, slowly and sensuously. If I had a climax, fine. If not, I still gave myself a nice, stress-free time. Gradually, the climaxes came more easily and more intense, but it took a while. Perseverance furthers.

At the time, I didn't have a vibe. That might have been in the toybox, too.
 
How often are you trying it, and what method are you using? Toy? Fingers? The reason I ask is that I have a fabulous clit vibe that I ADORE!! But, I can only use it about once a week, or I just get... inured. It doesn't work on me constantly. Maybe you need to change up your routine, and as mentioned above, feed your id with some porn, read some stories here, etc... that could help a lot.
 
Private Messages

Hey there.....I think you may need to delete some of the private msgs in your in and out box...
 
I am intrigued by this thread. I've never heard of anyone who didn't enjoy it.

BBaikido said:
Hey there.....I think you may need to delete some of the private msgs in your in and out box...
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I'm quite sure that this thread probably got her box filled with proposals of "I'll give you something to make you cum" type PMs.
 
Nerdygirl101792 said:
When I masterbate It not very enjoyable I'm just wondering is it me
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Well I will need to ask you a few questions before I can help you. The first one will be what is your climax like when you have penetration sex, because if its done right it should be the best orgasms you can have.
 
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