having a bad day

[xxCrystal4314xx]

I'm having a crappy day, and feeling royally stressed to hell right this second.

things kicked off in our friendship group, and has spiralled so far out of control that my friend has had his business and child threatened, and we've had a threatening message threatening attacks on us, our dog, and car, and having people coming round to our house to have 'words'.

Everything sucks, I'm scared and stressed, and don't know who can and cant be trusted.

thanks for hearing me.

 

[minx1]

I'm having a crappy day, and feeling royally stressed to hell right this second.

things kicked off in our friendship group, and has spiralled so far out of control that my friend has had his business and child threatened, and we've had a threatening message threatening attacks on us, our dog, and car, and having people coming round to our house to have 'words'.

Everything sucks, I'm scared and stressed, and don't know who can and cant be trusted.

thanks for hearing me.

*huge hugs*

Poor you hon. Have to spoken to the police/sought advice?

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

My hubby has gone to speak with the friend that got the other threatening message, and then will be going to the police. Why can't people just be reasonable?

 

[minx1]

My hubby has gone to speak with the friend that got the other threatening message, and then will be going to the police. Why can't people just be reasonable?

Yeah I know, but unfortunately its just the way of the world eh. You will probably need to keep a diary of incidents/times/witnesses I guess.

Bloody hell...it sucks Crystal. I hope it all works out ok

 

[callinectes]

That's awful. I'm so sorry.

That's also why I stay off the local radar.

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

It all sucks. It all started because our best friends wife cheated on him. Now the other guys friends are going around threatening everyone.

 

[neonflux]

I am so sorry that you have to go through this, Crystal! I will put you in my morning meditations. In the meantime, what Minx already mentioned - documenting incidents, involving the police. People can be so ridiculous. Neon

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

Thanks hon... as it turns out, the message was left on a blog, which has ip logging of anonymous comments. That will be useful.

 

[Calyph]

I'm going over to speak to the police with our friend tomorrow morning. It might exacerbate the situation, but if something happens and we've not informed the police beforehand, they'll look on it with less suspicion.

 

[HottieMama]

Crystal and calyph....you are both in my thoughts.

People are fundamentally idiots sometimes...It just royally stinks when their idiocy infringes on your own safety and happiness.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x95/Sir_Winston54/smilie_keks3.gif


I *think* "keks" = cookies...

 

[Tabea]

Yep, Keks = cookie.

Where do you always find that stuff?

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

Thanks everyone Just waiting to hear what the police say now.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Thanks hon... as it turns out, the message was left on a blog, which has ip logging of anonymous comments. That will be useful.

Crystal you may wish to peruse this site . It's a Message Board dealing with Cyber Law . Lawyers tend to comment on the issues presented and like any other thread , information will amass. I wouldn't take the advice verbatim but it may present with perspectives that are useful at this difficult time .

Best of luck

 

[sexycaz22]

*hugz* for you Crystal and for Calyph.

(I know we haven't been introduced formally!)

But my thoughts are with you both.

And I hope things will work out.

Caz

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

*hugs back* thank you both I will have a lookie at the site

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

*hugs* Crystal. I hope you are having a better day today.

Ivy

 

[Softouch911]

Just read this -- good grief, I'm glad it was a "friendship group." Yikes.

Good luck to all -- brings back memories of the lady I fired once upon a time who had to be taken away by force then served with restraining orders.

Blech.

With good wishes, ST

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I hope today is running better for you than yesterday, Crystal and Calyph.

Tell the ruddy buggers to sod off!

 

[xxCrystal4314xx]

Things are quiet on that front for the mo, waiting to hear from the police about what they plan to do about it.

Ivy~ *hugs to ya*

EG~ I can't imagine hearing anyone say that with an american accent, so it really made me laugh to read it, thanks