Have you ever.....
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A hug, for you.
doctor_insanus
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Yes.
I'm sorry, man.
I'm sorry, man.
SweetCherry
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I've been there myself, and it's a bad place to be. I can only hope you are lucky enough to have someone there to pull you out of your dark place like I did. Self destruction wasn't fun. Hugs, Val, and you're in my thoughts right now.
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A million hugs to you, Valdimer. I can relate to what you are feeling. Please know we're all there for you - we all care about you.
Life is not easy, love is most times difficult, we always need each other.
Life is not easy, love is most times difficult, we always need each other.
knightstalker
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Yes i can understand what that feels like ..Mine was torn out ripped to shreds stomped on then tossed in the garbage..And that was almost a year ago and i still have not recovered fully from it..
espressolover
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valdimer
Yes I have...there is light at he end of this long, dark tunnel...even if it is so black you can't see the hand in front of you reaching out to you.
Take hold and walk on!!
espressolover
Yes I have...there is light at he end of this long, dark tunnel...even if it is so black you can't see the hand in front of you reaching out to you.
Take hold and walk on!!
espressolover
sch00lteacher
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Three, no four times...
It takes awhile but you get over it. Worthless advice I know. There is nothing anyone can say right now that will make you feel better.
Time really does heal all wounds.
It takes awhile but you get over it. Worthless advice I know. There is nothing anyone can say right now that will make you feel better.
Time really does heal all wounds.
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Valdimer,
I just wanted to check in on you to see how you were doing. Hugs to you, you're in my thoughts. Please smile just a little bit if you can.
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I just wanted to check in on you to see how you were doing. Hugs to you, you're in my thoughts. Please smile just a little bit if you can.
Enchanted
pabloback
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been there done that
you have to hang in , and remember that it will pass in time , talking helps getting out among friends maybe difficult but it also helps sometimes , the important thing is to get out of the rut break away from your routine if you can and keep your mind occupied
you have to hang in , and remember that it will pass in time , talking helps getting out among friends maybe difficult but it also helps sometimes , the important thing is to get out of the rut break away from your routine if you can and keep your mind occupied
SilverVeil
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Valdimer
Yes honey, sadly more than once. And I will carry the scars of my actions forever.
1st and foremost.... Do not do anything without talking to someone first. Some actions are a very definate final solution and can not be reversed once done.
2nd - Endure. Life does not seem like it has all that much to offer, but there is something waiting right around the corner just for you.
3rd- remember that no matter how painful something is, after time, instead of a raw gaping wound that just overwhelmes you, it begins to scab over and the pain, while it may never go away totally, does lessen.
I do not know what has happened to you, but I am assuming you have lost something precious. My heart is thinking of you. I hope it helps.
Yes honey, sadly more than once. And I will carry the scars of my actions forever.
1st and foremost.... Do not do anything without talking to someone first. Some actions are a very definate final solution and can not be reversed once done.
2nd - Endure. Life does not seem like it has all that much to offer, but there is something waiting right around the corner just for you.
3rd- remember that no matter how painful something is, after time, instead of a raw gaping wound that just overwhelmes you, it begins to scab over and the pain, while it may never go away totally, does lessen.
I do not know what has happened to you, but I am assuming you have lost something precious. My heart is thinking of you. I hope it helps.
JennyOmanHill
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Yes I have.Valdimer_79 said:
It's worth hanging on though. Know that you're not alone, and although that is not much comfort now, you will one day realize how many feel your pain.
You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Yes. Earlier this year my world collapsed around me, to the point that I had to check myself into a hospital. The advice here is good. Find a confidant. If it's serious enough that you don't see a way out then seek the help of a counselor or a doctor. I'm sorry but that light at the end of the tunnel stuff is crap, when your that low you cannot see the light(not a slam espressolover, personal opinion). Over time the pain will dull, but it will take a lot of time. As someone said before if you need us we are here.
