Have you ever.....

[Guest]

Loved someone that you know you can never have?

 

[Angel]

Yes.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

yes.... one of my closest friends, and i have yet to say a word to him about my feelings cuz of what he has already said in respect to us being together in a romantic way

 

[MinkSoul]

Yup...

 

[FantasyGoddess]

Most definitely, yes.

 

[Starfish]

Only one. It sucks.

 

[StarBound]

those seem to be the ONLY ones I love.

 

[April]

Yes. *sigh* And I can't have him because he's so very bad for me. Not to mention totally unsuited to my personality.

 

[Guest]

Ok... flip side of the question...

how do you deal with someone who loves you and knows they can't have you..... ??

 

[Mistress]

Yes

 

[Angel]

Ok... flip side of the question...

how do you deal with someone who loves you and knows they can't have you..... ??

Beat myself up about it on a daily basis and feel like total and utter shit.

 

[FantasyGoddess]

Ok... flip side of the question...

how do you deal with someone who loves you and knows they can't have you..... ??

If I can tolerate them, I tease them.

 

[lavender]

 

[Guest]

I have noticed that sometimes I want what I can't have and then.... well..... if I should happen to get it/them.... I don't want them as much anymore...
yeah its awful... and I hate it... but its what happens..


and I hate hurting anyone's feelings.... and sometimes I may even make them think that they have a chance..... but I don't mean to... its just the way I say things

 

[Ask For More]

It depends on whether she knows that I know that she likes me....

If she knows that I am aware, then I would just treat her normally and try not to lead her on.

If she didn't know I was aware I would probably just act the same way come to think about it

Just try and be considerate of her feelings at the same time...

 

[StarBound]

its the thrill of the hunt..if you can catch it, its not as fun as chasing it and not knowing the outcome.

 

[scylis]

yes..
most definently yes..

http://scylis.homestead.com/files/Friends.jpgyou see this?
all but two of the women in my old sig here are ones i love but can't have...

 

[Starfish]

You are reaching to fill something else Jaded.
You just aren't acknowledging why you are unsatisfied once you get what you 'want'.
Look at the exact elements you are basing this desire on, and then ask yourself if your premise for desire is a delusion'. Not meaning that you, as a person, are deluded, just that your tendancies arise from a possible delusion of love, that is really lust.

See Jaded, You know that what you need is so much more important than what you want.
But, you are afraid to open up what you need, to another person, unless you sence a strong bond (which has yet to happen for you) for fear of the potential of the deepest form of vaunerablity turning against you.
You have reason to feel this way. Many people don't have feelings like you have.

Until you find a kindred spirit, you will not be happy in trying to fill that spot with someone else.
Don't try anymore. Just have fun, and don't lead people on.

You'll know when you find each other.

 

[Cheyenne]

Yes. Seems to be the story of my life, actually.

 

[CoolCucumber]

Yes....and also, yes. It sucks to love someone you can't have. And it makes me feel bad if someone loves me, and I can't return it...
-CoolCucumber

 

[Fleshmachine]

I love it when G.R. says stuff like that.

First question: Yes

Second question: I plead the fifth.

 

[CW]

for sure yes to the first


with complete honesty, not sugar coated, but not intentionally hurtful either, just honest

 

[batter]

FOR SURE !!

i believe all people have at one time or another in their lives.

 

[bluntforcemama]

I usually get what I want, but there have been times when I've realized that it would be best to walk away when you love someone so much. I'm doing that in my life now, because I know that he will be better off without me.

 

[Renegade]

Loved someone that you know you can never have?

Yes. I'm in a situation like that right now also. Sucks, huh?