Have You Ever "Soaked?"

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I'm seeing more social media posts on the sexual practice known as "soaking." Apparently, it's popular with some Mormon students in college. It's where a man inserts his penis in a vagina and holds it there - no thrusting is allowed. The term "soaking" comes from the fact that the penis is 'soaking' in the fluids produced by the vagina.

There are associated terms with it as well. "Jump Humping" is when a third person bounces in the bed where the soaking is taking place, causing movement of the penis in the vagina but not initiated by the soaking couple. A "bed jumper" or "Provo Pusher" (Provo being where the campus of Brigham Young University is located) is the name of the person doing the jumping on the bed. "Durfing" is dry humping with clothes on both parties. And the "poophole loophole" is using anal sex get away from the Mormon rules of virginity until marriage by engaging in anal sex.

I don't know if any of this is true or not, but I used Wikipedia (I know, not a "real" source) to complete some of the information I've already seen.

So...have you ever "soaked" before, where you put a penis in a vagina and held it there? I'm not sure I have enough discipline not to move!
 
I'm seeing more social media posts on the sexual practice known as "soaking." Apparently, it's popular with some Mormon students in college. It's where a man inserts his penis in a vagina and holds it there - no thrusting is allowed. The term "soaking" comes from the fact that the penis is 'soaking' in the fluids produced by the vagina.

There are associated terms with it as well. "Jump Humping" is when a third person bounces in the bed where the soaking is taking place, causing movement of the penis in the vagina but not initiated by the soaking couple. A "bed jumper" or "Provo Pusher" (Provo being where the campus of Brigham Young University is located) is the name of the person doing the jumping on the bed. "Durfing" is dry humping with clothes on both parties. And the "poophole loophole" is using anal sex get away from the Mormon rules of virginity until marriage by engaging in anal sex.

I don't know if any of this is true or not, but I used Wikipedia (I know, not a "real" source) to complete some of the information I've already seen.

So...have you ever "soaked" before, where you put a penis in a vagina and held it there? I'm not sure I have enough discipline not to move!
Soaking is sometimes also called "Cock Warming". I have done that as part of play with my Dominant FWB. She was sitting on me, squeezing my dick with her wet cunt, but not moving at all. Just keeping me rock hard... She also did it with her mouth or asshole... I have actually enjoyed it very much...

When I was 28 I dated devoted Christian girl, who wanted to remain virgin till her wedding night. But she was horny most of the time, so we have done everything else, including anal sex.
 
Apparently, it's popular with some Mormon students in college. It's where a man inserts his penis in a vagina and holds it there - no thrusting is allowed
Because that would be "premarital sex" or some shit.

As far as I've heard, that's the justification for this behavior. It's supposedly popular with Mormon kids because it's a loophole.

Kind of like these "anal sex for Jesus" girls we hear about ^
 
I have no idea about the religious significance of this but this has definitely been a part of our love making for a long time. It is just nice to do as part of the emotional connection, not just the physical one.

We usually do this when she is sitting on top of me. She is amazing when we do that. We usually just stop for a moment to consider the miracle that we are experiencing. She is deliciously attractive, sitting on me, with those wonderful breasts in plain view, that deep longing look of erotic bliss on her face. We just don't move for a moment. I place my hand on her abdomen and usually say something that may sound corny here, like, "I can't believe that my cock is inside you like this. It feels SO wonderful."

She usually responds with something similar, like, "I love the feeling of your cock so deep inside of me."

We just move every so gently and subtlely, to get those micro sensations. They drive us both insane and it isn't long before the more carnal impulses take over.

I should also say that we do this when I have come inside her. We just stay there, motionless, and experience the new warmth and wetness. We stay like that well past the point when we both feel my cum slip from her pussy.

God, I love that woman!
 
Never tried soaking, but my first wife used the poophole-loophole to get around her Catholic beliefs until see finally decided to give it up.
 
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I once had sex in a very swirly bed, and in an effort to not make any sound and be discovered, I had to move excruciatingly slow. When orgasm finally came it was incredibly intense both for me and her.

I would love to be edged this way!

(But the religious significance of this whole practice is stupid - though it does make me interested in meeting some Mormon college girls….)
 
That’s wild. I’m a firm believer that people (well, mostly allosexuals) should have whatever type of consensual sex they want. I admit that when people tell me that they are a virgin but they’ve had sex, I don’t take them seriously.
 
I once had sex in a very swirly bed, and in an effort to not make any sound and be discovered, I had to move excruciatingly slow. When orgasm finally came it was incredibly intense both for me and her.

I would love to be edged this way!

(But the religious significance of this whole practice is stupid - though it does make me interested in meeting some Mormon college girls….)
Is a “swirly bed” a bed with an iron frame?
 
Discovered another term - "Zipper-Sparking." It's durfing (dry humping with clothes on) but facing each other, groin to groin, i.e. Zipper-Sparking.

Kids these days!
 
I once had sex in a very swirly bed, and in an effort to not make any sound and be discovered, I had to move excruciatingly slow. When orgasm finally came it was incredibly intense both for me and her.

I would love to be edged this way!

(But the religious significance of this whole practice is stupid - though it does make me interested in meeting some Mormon college girls….)
I generally love feeling filled would totally be willing to sit there gently while we watched a movie and move gently when needed just to keep you "up"
 
I generally love feeling filled would totally be willing to sit there gently while we watched a movie and move gently when needed just to keep you "up"
That sounds delightful. I’m sure I would need no help staying “up” I regularly edge for hours, having warm wet refuge would be the ultimate edge.
 
My wife would ask me to put it in her and let it marinate for a while without moving . Then one night I asked her why and she told me it would make me more feminine because her juices were soaking into my body . I told her I love the thought of being a little more like her . Now I like a guy marinating inside of me especially if he deposits his load in me without pumping my ass
 
We never called it "soaking," but he sometimes stays in after he cums. I love feeling it grow inside, especially when he can come again without ever pulling out! 🤭🤪😍🥰
I have done this with partners in the past where after I have cum in her I would remain hard. Laying there and feeling her squeeze and clench around my cock. Laying there and feeling our juices envelop us. And then a short time later slowly moving until eventually we build up to another frenzy fuck.

I have also had on occasion a past partner where she wanted something sensual and emotionally close where I would enter her, always missionary, and kiss and make out and just enjoy being connected without actually fucking. I didn't know it had a name.
 
I have also had on occasion a past partner where she wanted something sensual and emotionally close where I would enter her, always missionary, and kiss and make out and just enjoy being connected without actually fucking. I didn't know it had a name.
I don't know that I could possibly do this. Props to the men who can or could.

Sure, you might say I lack discipline. I'll just admit that I'm not strong enough to overcome half a billion years of genetic programming.
 
I've seen this performed before for purposes or research and tantric sex (minus the people jumping on the bed). I didn't know there was a special name for it, but that sounds hot as fuck, honestly. I'd love to partake in something like that. Either as the soaker, or the bed jumper.
 
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