Have you ever looked at your life

[April]

and hated it?

Who's idea was this? How did it get so fucked up?

Is this it? Really? You mean it's probably not going to get any better? 'Cause I really don't like what I see.

 

[plasticman33]

No, actually I am quite satisfied with the way things are going. I have a beautiful home, nice cars, a loving family, an interesting job.

(Just wish I could get laid more often)

 

[estevie]

and hated it?

Who's idea was this? How did it get so fucked up?

Is this it? Really? You mean it's probably not going to get any better? 'Cause I really don't like what I see.

I think it too...more often than not lately. I have no advice, no words of wisdom just...I hear ya

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Hate it ... No.

Wonder how it got so fucked up? Yes.

I know the one I am living isn't the one for me, and only I can change it. I am just struggling to find my own way out. But I feel that I am suppose to be where I am right now for a reason. I have to believe that something wonderful will become of all of the pain I feel now. This won't be it for me ~ I won't let it be.


Morgy

 

[freescorfr]

and hated it?

Who's idea was this? How did it get so fucked up?

Is this it? Really? You mean it's probably not going to get any better? 'Cause I really don't like what I see.

When the fog comes down, I know by now it will lift some time and the sun will shine and there will be good visibility.

What just surprises me is why so many drivers still go so fast in the fog that they kill themselves, and we pass these battlefields on bright days and wonder how it could have happened.

But you can still keep going when it's bad, just slow down.

 

[Andreina]

*sending Morgy a plane ticket to Edinburgh and whisking her off to my place to introduce her to a few nice Scottish men to let her find out what's really going on under the kilt*


Halo

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I'm quite happy with my life. I have a sexy husband and great kids. My home is comfortable and my car can make it from A to B ok. I am able to work with my passion for writing and art.... so I'm fine

 

[kotori]

I don't hate my life. It's not terribly fucked up. I might be closer to plasticman in fact. But I have come against that question that the late Peggy Lee most poignently asked, "Is that all there is?" I'm ready for my mid-life crisis, but I can't afford a Harley.

"The unexamined life is not worth living." Hmm.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

*sending Morgy a plane ticket to Edinburgh and whisking her off to my place to introduce her to a few nice Scottish men to let her find out what's really going on under the kilt*


Halo

A Ghra Halo... you are so sweet


Morgy


I'm so happy for those of you that have found the happiness in your lives...I too have a comfortable-warm home, a good car, the pleasures of living on the water...But perhaps I am naive...I want something I think doesn't exsist.

 

[Starblayde]

Every so often I sit back and think 'what a fucking state my life is in right now' Then i resolve to change it, but dont, and end up thinking the exact same thing at some later epiphany

 

[thumbs2_ca]

Well

I am happy with my life because I am healthy and have a good job. Two great daughters and a wonderful wife. I live in a beautiful area and I am one of those optimistic people that is always high on life.
Of course my life is somewhat fucked up as my wife has been ill for the last couple of years and unable to work but some things cannot be helped.
So wire me money and life would be perfect.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: Well

So wire me money

I'd like to wire you more than money

 

[freescorfr]

*sending Morgy a plane ticket to Edinburgh and whisking her off to my place to introduce her to a few nice Scottish men to let her find out what's really going on under the kilt*


Halo

One willing volunteer here, Littledevil

 

[Andreina]

Men for Morgy

Enjoy hon!

Halo


http://www.paddy.de/silvester99/kilt.jpg

http://www.multimania.com/parksimps/affichage/kilt.jpg

http://www.matthewelliott.com/Frames/Images/Torso/kilt%20shirtless.jpg

http://homepages.tesco.net/~davyreynolds/images/personal/kilt.jpg

 

[Thumper]

You OK April?

Yes, I would say I find life in general less than enjoyable. But Abraham Lincoln said "Most people are as happy as they make up their minds to be"

I just need to decide to be happy...

Take care...it all could be worse...for all of us.

On the kilts...I ain't gay but Duncan or Connor McCleod would look better methinks...

 

[plasticman33]

Re: Well

I am happy with my life because I am healthy and have a good job. Two great daughters and a wonderful wife. I live in a beautiful area and I am one of those optimistic people that is always high on life.
Of course my life is somewhat fucked up as my wife has been ill for the last couple of years and unable to work but some things cannot be helped.
So wire me money and life would be perfect.

How much do you need, thumbs?

Yes, I'm OK, materially, but there are sometimes that I feel I'm missing something in the romance deptartment. My wife has totally lost her sex drive and refuses to see a Dr. I think hormone replacement therepy would work, but she just won't do it.

 

[*bratcat*]

Are you a carrot, an egg or coffee beans?

 

[April]

No, I am not. Call it a dark night of the soul if you want. I'm sure it will pass. It always has before.

No fog, just dark. And a heavy load that I'm so tired of carrying.

What's really the point of this? Any of this?

 

[plasticman33]

No, I am not. Call it a dark night of the soul if you want. I'm sure it will pass. It always has before.

No fog, just dark. And a heavy load that I'm so tired of carrying.

What's really the point of this? Any of this?

April, you sound so depressed, you worry me! Are you OK? PM me if you want to talk, I'm a good listener.

 

[Starblayde]

What's really the point of this? Any of this?

Thats the big question... the reason why religion happened, to explain why.

"Life is what you make of it, but most of us just fake." - Stereophonics - "Just Looking"

 

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[Spinaroonie]

Yeah, I look back and see that I've payed almost too much time for my studies, gone and chosen to be a good student instead of party, or picked up a debilitating (or as they call it, recreational) drug habit.

Living fancy free, ingesting chemicals and long shed of my virginity.

I always wonder what that would be like.


But... I do like my friends, I do like what I've accomplished, and I do like being above all that.

So I think, as humans, we jsut always look back and wonder what could have been.

 

[Lost Cause]

Everything in my life I don't like is a direct result of my choices and decisions.
The only way to proceed forward is to evaluate the negatives, change direction, and move on.
I'm not a slave, I can set my course, the only problems are those that are affected by your choice.
You have to decide if you are worth the risk you want to take.

A cool saying;
**Do you live 365 days a year....or one day 365 times?**

 

[CarolineOh]

and hated it?

Who's idea was this? How did it get so fucked up?

Is this it? Really? You mean it's probably not going to get any better? 'Cause I really don't like what I see.

April, you sound just like I did at one point, before I got my divorce. It won't "get" better, you have to make it better. I know it's hard to see how sometimes, because you can't always make the connection from how solving the little problems can make the big things better. But life is like any journey, it has to be taken one step at a time. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep your eyes on the prize.

 

[CarolineOh]

Gee, I hope that last post didn't sound like I'm trying to be your Mom or something. I just hope things will be looking up for you soon.