Have you ever had to fake an orgasm?

[wildtiger60]

Just out of curiousty, I am wondering how many of you ever had to fake an orgasm.

Just to let you know I have never really actually faked an orgasm, but I know of some people who have faked them.

I've had intercourses where I have never had orgasms, but I never lead on that I had an orgasm.

Just interested in the responses I get from this.

WildTiger

 

[Lone_Shadow]

faking it

Hi,
I am a 30 yr old male and believe it or not I did fake an orgasm once.

 

[Lone_Shadow]

fake

Well, I am a 30 yr old male and believe it or not I did fake an orgasm once, really.

 

[wildtiger60]

Re: fake

Well, I am a 30 yr old male and believe it or not I did fake an orgasm once, really.

Thats interesting to know, out of curiousty, can you tell me how you got away with it considering your a male.

 

[Honeygirl]

I'm ashamed to admit - but yes I have on occassion, faked an orgasm. Mainly because I was taking too long to cum, and felt pressured to hurry along and `finish'...it was some years ago now - I don't think I'd do it now. I'd be more assertive and stroppy "Just bloody wait...I'll get there when I can!"...

 

[Cloak38]

Re: Re: fake

Thats interesting to know, out of curiousty, can you tell me how you got away with it considering your a male.

I would guess he was wearing a condom...

 

[girlincrisis]

the thought of faking an orgasm seems silly to me but i do know people who have done that. it just sounds like too much work without any of the great benefits..ya know??
that said, i never fake it

 

[wildtiger60]

i have to agree

I have to agree with girlincrisis, but I don't want anyone feel ashamed for doing it.

Thanks for the comments so far.

As for cloak38 and the suggestion of him wearing a condom, is a pretty good explanantion. I never thought of that....


Hope to see more responses.

WildTiger

 

[bfine]

Faked

Yes, in my younger years I would, on occasion, fake an orgasm........ but then I became more vocal and no longer fake anything!

Most men are very cooperative and will assist my efforts!

 

[jrs259]

Faking It

Well, I guess I'm lucky. In my yonger years, I learned to satisfy my partner prior to my turn, therefore, the intensity of my partner carried thru to me. So no reason to fake it.

 

[Lone_Shadow]

Reply to wild tiger

Cloak is right, I was wearing a condom. The thing was that my partner at the time would not have been content unless I came so I speed up my rythm a bit and then grunted, she was the one who removed the condom though but I still think she didn't realize I faked it.

 

[wildtiger60]

hmmm...

I bet you thought at the time you were busted when she took it off. Its not fair that she insisted that you had to cum, i take it she was out for her enjoyment, not yours too.

 

[Lone_Shadow]

Actually if you want to hear the story I will tell it....

The thing was that we had a discussion about past loves not too long before we had gotten intimate. During the discussion I had mentioned that sometimes I could cum twice in a row without stopping, if I was turned on enough and, you know, if things were right.
So we start off and I went down on her and then she me...and after she asked me to make love to her.....knowing what she was shooting for I put on the condom and we proceded. After a while and a couple different positions I became a little worn out and she was still trying to turn me on enough to keep going. So I finally thought faking it was worth a shot....

As I said she removed the condom but the way she triumphantly held it so nothing would spill out (even though it was empty) proved to me she was convinced.

I probably should have just been honest but I have never been able to refuse a lover's request.

 

[wildtiger60]

good enough....

I can see how you were only doing it to spare her feelings, so I don't think anyone would hold it against you. Your a sweet man for being thoughtful like that.

 

[Lone_Shadow]

Thank you Wildtiger

 

[meop79]

Re: Re: fake

Thats interesting to know, out of curiousty, can you tell me how you got away with it considering your a male.

It's not that difficult and yeah I did it a couple times. I'm male too by the way. Shrug she just wasn't doing it for me and she wanted to stop but didn't want to till I'd cum, so I faked it and that was that....

meop79@yahoo.com

 

[wildtiger60]

Re: Re: Re: fake

It's not that difficult and yeah I did it a couple times. I'm male too by the way. Shrug she just wasn't doing it for me and she wanted to stop but didn't want to till I'd cum, so I faked it and that was that....

meop79@yahoo.com

Thats quite interesting, I never really thought a man could get away with faking an orgasm, but I now know that they can.

 

[SexyChele]

Ever had to fake an orgasm? Oh HELL yes! And I distrust people who say they never have, quite frankly. Everyone I know, who is willing to be frank, admits to this happening at least once.

Matter of fact, I faked orgasms with all my partners until I was in my late 20s. Finally found a man who knew what the hell he was doing and would actually listen to me.

 

[wildtiger60]

Ever had to fake an orgasm? Oh HELL yes! And I distrust people who say they never have, quite frankly. Everyone I know, who is willing to be frank, admits to this happening at least once.

Matter of fact, I faked orgasms with all my partners until I was in my late 20s. Finally found a man who knew what the hell he was doing and would actually listen to me.

I swear, I never ever faked an orgasm, if he couldn't give me an orgasm, I would do it for him.

 

[Elvenspell]

To be perfectly honest, I have a few times. You see, I have enourmous endurance, and sometimes it goes well beyond simple endurance to the point of being hard, throbbing and going at it for more than an hour, and still no release coming on. These occurances are rare, but sometimes, to make sure that the sweet one I'm with at the time doesn't think I find her unfulfilling, I'll fake.

It's not that I don't enjoy the sex with her. I'm just making sure she knows that I'm satasfied on all levels that count. The first time I did it was when my lover was feeling fairly vulnerable because of having had a rotten night before we'd gotten together. SHe was trying SO hard to please me, and I was completely happy with the sex we'd been having for the past few hours, so I put on a condom and rode her wildly for ten minutes, and faked it.

She didn't need to feel like a failure about anything else that night, she really didn't. And, despite how I would have honestly told her that I was fine and happy if I hadn't given her the performance, she would have felt like she'd let me down (over ten orgasms on her side to not even one of mine).

Has a lover ever faked on me before? Maybe, but I DO know that one said after our first lovemaking that she was used to having to fake one at the end of a "typical twenty minute session", but during our three hour version she kept rocketing off that she couldn't imagine what on earth I was doing to her that no one else did.

My simple reply: "I took my time". It's my best cure for orgasmless lovers. I don't know for sure that it has worked every time, but I'm pretty confident that it has a high success rate.

 

[wildtiger60]

My simple reply: "I took my time". It's my best cure for orgasmless lovers. I don't know for sure that it has worked every time, but I'm pretty confident that it has a high success rate. [/B][/COLOR][/FONT] [/B][/QUOTE]

Wow, I would enjoy you so much........most guys don't take their time, and I find thats when i have the most orgasms is when the guy takes the time to actually pleasure her as well as pleasuring yourself

 

[LovetoGiveRoses]

I have too (male). My partner at the time (not too long ago) liked to time hers for simultaneous pleasure. I don't know why she believed that simultaneous orgasms were the best, but she did. She'd really get going on the first one and would almost burst with excitement and enthusiasm. It's hard to hold back in circumstances like that. She'd still be randy after the our first orgasms though and I felt bad the first few times we made love even though I have good endurance. For those first few times I'd use my hand to help her out for another orgasm or two. I soon figured that I'd fake it one or two times and she'd have orgasms (hoping she wasn't faking) and then really go at it hard. It seemed to work. Maybe we were both faking, but I don't think so. I think that she still thinks that I could get hard three times in a row when it was really only once.

That went on for several years so I got pretty good at it.

Hand stimulation after coitus was a pretty good idea I thought, so I still did it from time to time later even after I figured out the "faking". If fact, I wrote a story this morning where I played with her (in the story) clit after we both had an orgasm, it's a fun thing to do.

As for the "evidence" it's hard to tell if you eventually do have a (male) orgasm so the fluid is there, you can't tell if it's the first, second or third shot.

You're getting more male responses than female, that's funny.

 

[SexyChele]

You're getting more male responses than female, that's funny.

You must have been reading my mind! LOL!!


Finding it very odd as well....

 

[twodogs]

time

Being a man if you don't takeyour time it's not worth doing just as well sit in a corrner and play with yourself.
I never think of myself first ,allways the women,Iwas broke in by a verry experence women at the age of 16 been that way every since there is no other way . twodogs

 

[meop79]

You must have been reading my mind! LOL!!
Finding it very odd as well....

Why? have you perhaps fallen into a sterotypical impression of men? or perhaps did you just never think about it?

Our culture puts a huge burden on men... we're suposed to be the experienced ever virile, "men". We're suposed to have super stamina, and we're suposed to be able to cum at the drop of a hat. Shrug, that's not always easy to do... but it's hard to admit... especially if you don't really have that much trust in your partner or your relationship...

meop79@yahoo.com