Have you ever had a partner who you...

janettt5 said:
discovered cross-dressed?

My boyfriend in high school was a cross dress. I'm pretty sure he is straight since he never mentioned (or showed) bisexual tendencies while we were together, but who knows what has happened in his life since we've been apart.

I am openly bi, and he knew that, and had no problem with his cross dressing. In fact, it was quite a turn on. Often times we'd go out to eat or to a movie with him dressed up. We had a lot of fun kissing in public when he was dressed up! ;)


~Kenzie :kiss:
 
when i was about 25, i dated a beautiful bi-sexual guy named Chris. He had that perfect androgynous body that is made for dress up. Needless to say...we spent many happy hours dressing him up and going out. Sometmes..i really miss him (le sigh).

PET:rose:
 
I used to cross dress some. It was never a big thing to me, just sort of fun.

A couple of years ago I went out for a while with a guy who just loved to wear thigh high stockings. No other female clothes, just thigh highs.
 
I've never discovered it, I've known from the start. And it doesn't make a bit of difference.
 
My boyfriend loves to wear panties and bras while we are fooling around because he likes to pretend sometimes he is the women and I am the man. It turns him on all the time but he doesn't go out in public like that except occasionally when I request that he put on panties.
 
I had a phone-fuck partner who cross-dressed. Discovered that after about a year of knowing him.
 
apet4you said:
when i was about 25, i dated a beautiful bi-sexual guy named Chris. He had that perfect androgynous body that is made for dress up. Needless to say...we spent many happy hours dressing him up and going out. Sometmes..i really miss him (le sigh).

PET:rose:

Well there are plenty of us out there looking to meet women like your self.......which we find so hard to find. :)
 
i do once in a while. it's fun. never did it in public or even with any other partner. i do for robby if he asks. it's fun but if i had to give it up i wouldn't mind.
 
i had a partner for about two years off and on (the father of my son actually) who i had been dating for about two months when i found out he liked to crossdress.

i got pregnant we split up but got back together when my son was six months old. we moved in together he started crossdressing regularly,then decided to take it a step further and wished to be a TS.

i was fine with that and was prepared to stand with him through it when he got a phonecall from a buddy asking him to come back to where we had first gotten together. Bang he decided he didnt want to continue with the TS bit and instead of finding a job and a place for my son and i to join him, he phoned me a few weeks later and said he'd found someone else...

weird huh?
 
sexylilmissie said:
i had a partner for about two years off and on (the father of my son actually) who i had been dating for about two months when i found out he liked to crossdress.

i got pregnant we split up but got back together when my son was six months old. we moved in together he started crossdressing regularly,then decided to take it a step further and wished to be a TS.

i was fine with that and was prepared to stand with him through it when he got a phonecall from a buddy asking him to come back to where we had first gotten together. Bang he decided he didnt want to continue with the TS bit and instead of finding a job and a place for my son and i to join him, he phoned me a few weeks later and said he'd found someone else...

weird huh?

Sounds similar to my story. I started going with my cross dressing first husband at the age of 15. He informed me of his 'hobby' by taking me to see 'Rocky Horror Picture Show' to gauge my reaction, then at the end said... "well have I got news for you!" I couldn't see a problem with it and we were married a few years later.

After getting pregnant, he also decided that he wanted to go Transexual and left me for a while before coming back. I supported him in his wish, even to the extent of having an open relationship where I'd drop him off at his boyfriend's then going to visit my 'dial a fuck'.

Unfortunately the marriage didn't survive and he also left the family business to enter the Gender re-assignment outpatient clinic. After 18 months he ended up reverting to his 'maleness'. This all happened 17 years ago. We are still great friends and we have maintained regular contact throughout this time. He has come out of the closet as being gay and is in a relationship with a TS from the Phillipines. I am now with a lovely lady of my own, after a second attempt at a Hetro marriage.

My only bitches I had with his cross dressing... Why did he have all the really sexy outfits and why were his boobs bigger than mine when he was on hormone treatment???

Our daughter's comment when I also came out? "How the fuck was I born!!!???"
 
sexylilmissie said:
i had a partner for about two years off and on (the father of my son actually) who i had been dating for about two months when i found out he liked to crossdress.

i got pregnant we split up but got back together when my son was six months old. we moved in together he started crossdressing regularly,then decided to take it a step further and wished to be a TS.

i was fine with that and was prepared to stand with him through it when he got a phonecall from a buddy asking him to come back to where we had first gotten together. Bang he decided he didnt want to continue with the TS bit and instead of finding a job and a place for my son and i to join him, he phoned me a few weeks later and said he'd found someone else...

weird huh?

I would have to say there was a lot going on in his head....not really knowing what gender he wanted to identify him/her self by didn't help any. I know that I am a male but just like to dress up in womens clothes sometimes......I do not want to change into a woman because I am very happy with the plumbing I have. I think lingerie and nylons feel so good....soft ,silky , smooth....and there is something to be said about the " feeling Naughty" when wearing too.
It is too bad that he could not get it together and make a life of it with you and your son. Finding a woman who can accept a man that has a fettish for womens clothing is very hard to find. I mean how many women can find a man who likes to spend hours shopping for clothes............those are far and few also. It's a world that takes all kinds.....and lit offers us a place for us to talk freely and not be ashamed of who we are and what our likes are.
I hope everything is going well for you and your son, and thanks for sharing your story with us.
 
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