have you ever cried softly in the night so no one could hear you?

[contango6]

I know what it is like. Wanting the one beside you to give you the physical and emotional nurturing you need. Yet, also knowing that you aren't likely to get it because they are incapable or unwilling to provide it. Well, i'm tired of waiting and wanting.
If any lady can relate to the feelings I just mentioned please e-mail me at E-mail address removed by moderator. Please refer to the Forum Guidelines, at the foot of the page, or the 'sticky' first thread on the first page. Thank you. and perhaps we can help each other! I'm a very sensual man who needs a sensual woman to respond to. Please contact me, what have you got to lose,except, perhaps those feelings that aren't being fulfilled.


Tango

 

[ShyNymph]

You seem like such a sweet man, why is nobody replying to this? Come on ladies, we may have a winner!

Hope everything works out for you sugar.

Much love,
~ShyNymph

 

[bamagirl]

I know what it is like. Wanting the one beside you to give you the physical and emotional nurturing you need. Yet, also knowing that you aren't likely to get it because they are incapable or unwilling to provide it. Well, i'm tired of waiting and wanting.
If any lady can relate to the feelings I just mentioned please e-mail me at E-mail address removed by moderator. Please refer to the Forum Guidelines, at the foot of the page, or the 'sticky' first thread on the first page. Thank you. and perhaps we can help each other! I'm a very sensual man who needs a sensual woman to respond to. Please contact me, what have you got to lose,except, perhaps those feelings that aren't being fulfilled.


Tango

I lived that many years.before I finally left him
I know exactly what you are going through.
the worst lonliness is laying next to someone,and yet still being alone.

 

[Guest]

I have done that too many nights. Not only when I was with someone but also when I was alone. The worst feeling is being alone when you are involved. Or knowing they are looking for others when they say they are happy with you and don't want to loose you. That does something to ones heart, head and emotions.

 

[SexyChele]

You seem like such a sweet man, why is nobody replying to this? Come on ladies, we may have a winner!

Hope everything works out for you sugar.

Much love,
~ShyNymph

People might be resonding via PM.

But a "winner"? Granted, the man may seem "sweet" but he is attached to either girlfriend/wife. A "winner" would seek to make the relationship better or extricate himself from it. Not seek outside partners.

Just my .02.

 

[Guest]

two cents

Thank you for your two cents. I would think that if you are truly happy with the one you are with one would stop seeking out others to be with. That one would take that relationship serious enough to stop hurting the one they "love".

Things like that causes one to try cry alone in the night.

 

[Angelofsex]

People might be resonding via PM.

But a "winner"? Granted, the man may seem "sweet" but he is attached to either girlfriend/wife. A "winner" would seek to make the relationship better or extricate himself from it. Not seek outside partners.

Just my .02.

Maybe us being women can help him with his......giving him ideas, not to take a place of.

I think we all be that way, I know I have.

 

[Guest]

Maybe us being women can help him with his

how could we help him with this - any ideas?

 

[contango6]

crying softly

Hello everyone,
Thank you all very much for being such sweethearts and taking the time to help. You have made me feel better just by your concern and actions. This is not something I have done on the spur of the moment but it is a considered action on my part. If I had better options I would have tried them believe me. However, this is what I am left with. I have tried to make this option not just about making me feel better but maybe helping someone else in a similar situation in the process. That way both people gain from a bad situation.
While this isn't a perfect solution it is one that I can live with. The perfect solution would be for me not needing to be here at all, but such is life. I'm a retired stockbroker,air-traffic controller and ex-pilot/flying instructor, just to give you some idea of my background.
Once again, thank you for your kindness and for being so sweet. Hugs,kisses and gentle caresses.


contango6

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: Maybe us being women can help him with his

how could we help him with this - any ideas?

Maybe with what we would like.....what is missing thast makes us cry.....the important things.......like feeling special......passion......looking at us with love..........I haven't felt special in a long time.......doing things with out being ask.......go out to a romantic dinner.......or hotel.......music......candles......holding hands........things like that.......sorry have to stop now.......the tears are coming.

 

[Guest]

Re: Maybe us being women can help him with his

don't be sorry for the things you feel - you are allowed to feel them - we all need to feel what you have described - those are good feelings to have too - to experience them is nice too ..... sigh making me think here too

 

[contango6]

crying softly

Dear sweet, sweet ladies,
This post is causing hurt and pain, something which I never expected and certainly never wanted to have happen. I truly thank you from the bottom of my heart for your kindness and concern. Please accept a hug from me and a soft kiss on the cheek for your sweetness.
How do I cancel this post so it ends here? I'm so sorry to have caused anyone pain or discomfort. Please accept my apologies for this.

Your friend,


Tango

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: crying softly

Dear sweet, sweet ladies,
This post is causing hurt and pain, something which I never expected and certainly never wanted to have happen. I truly thank you from the bottom of my heart for your kindness and concern. Please accept a hug from me and a soft kiss on the cheek for your sweetness.
How do I cancel this post so it ends here? I'm so sorry to have caused anyone pain or discomfort. Please accept my apologies for this.

Your friend,


Tango

Please don't feel that way.......it is ok.......

 

[contango6]

crying softly

I have tried to delete my post but it won't let me. Please, if someone can do it for me, please do so. I don't want this post to cause upset to anyone else.


Tango

 

[Succulent-one]

I know what it is like. Wanting the one beside you to give you the physical and emotional nurturing you need. Yet, also knowing that you aren't likely to get it because they are incapable or unwilling to provide it. Well, i'm tired of waiting and wanting.
If any lady can relate to the feelings I just mentioned please e-mail me at E-mail address removed by moderator. Please refer to the Forum Guidelines, at the foot of the page, or the 'sticky' first thread on the first page. Thank you. and perhaps we can help each other! I'm a very sensual man who needs a sensual woman to respond to. Please contact me, what have you got to lose,except, perhaps those feelings that aren't being fulfilled.


Tango

First leave your post up

Tango, I know the personal hell you are going through. I myself spent many years laying next to someone who withheld affection, the touching, the kissing, the sex. It is the worst loneliness there is. Crying silent tears, praying to be held and touched. It is a form of abuse. I finally got out of the situation. And granted I might sleep alone now, and am lonely, but it is not near the suffering I did laying next to some one who was ambivalent

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: Re: have you ever cried softly in the night so no one could hear you?

First leave your post up

Tango, I know the personal hell you are going through. I myself spent many years laying next to someone who withheld affection, the touching, the kissing, the sex. It is the worst loneliness there is. Crying silent tears, praying to be held and touched. It is a form of abuse. I finally got out of the situation. And granted I might sleep alone now, and am lonely, but it is not near the suffering I did laying next to some one who was ambivalent

Thank you for saying to leave his post up......it helps to make other people think.

 

[contango6]

crying softly

Hello Ladies,
I am an amateur photographer and I thought you might like to see some of my images. You have been so kind and thoughtful and as my photography is important to me I wanted to share it with you. The site is www.portraitsofnature.net . I hope you like it and enjoy the images. They were all taken by me. Hugs,kisses and soft caresses.



Tango

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: crying softly

Hello Ladies,
I am an amateur photographer and I thought you might like to see some of my images. You have been so kind and thoughtful and as my photography is important to me I wanted to share it with you. The site is www.portraitsofnature.net . I hope you like it and enjoy the images. They were all taken by me. Hugs,kisses and soft caresses.



Tango

Tango,

They are beautiful......you are very good at it.......I love the yellow rose--means friendship.........and the ocean---it speaks.....they are all so pretty....thank you for sharing with us.

Angel

 

[Guest]

I enjoyed the pictures also - thank you

 

[John Roberts]

Hello Tango,
I went through the same thing with my ex, in my case she was the one to break it off.....I am more positive than her and eventually would have broken off.....the pain is not worth it....there are others with whom you can be synergistic and nurture each other.......I wish you well. Nice photos.
JR

 

[sasha23_fem]

have you ever cried softly in the night so no one could hear you?

Every damn night.

 

[contango6]

crying softly

hello Ladies,
Thank you for your kind words about my images. I am so pleased that you enjoyed them. Once again i must pay tribute to your kindness towards me. Thank you very much and a biggg hug and a kiss on the cheek. Hugs,kisses and warm caresses.

Your friend


Tango

 

[azurite unicorn]

Re: crying softly

Hello Ladies,
I am an amateur photographer and I thought you might like to see some of my images. You have been so kind and thoughtful and as my photography is important to me I wanted to share it with you. The site is www.portraitsofnature.net . I hope you like it and enjoy the images. They were all taken by me. Hugs,kisses and soft caresses.



Tango

Tango ~ Your pictures are beautiful! I adore B&W photography ~ It allows the eye to "see" into the picture so much more when there is no "color" to distract you. You are a very gifted and talented "amateur"....I look forward to seeing more of you work....as I have bookmarked it into my fav. art sites. Also, hang in there darlin'.....I know, as it seems a lot do, the pain you are going through........we all live it I'm sure at one or another in our lives....... "You can't find love where there is none, and you can't hide it where there is". ~anonymous~ Namaste`

 

[Icey*Fire]

I cried so many tears..they eventually stopped coming and all I feel now is alone.

 

[ffemtp]

been there and still doing that. It has gotten better. It's like a rollercoaster some days are better then others. Time wil heal all. I say BS to that. It will if you can let go 100 %. I'm at about 75 % now after two years. MMM at this pace i will be old and gray when I'm at 100%. But each to there own. I will get over my lose someday.

tango keep your chin up it wil work out.