have you ever been physically sexually attracted to someone

Frimost

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But mentally repulsed by them at the same time?
If it came down to it, would you ever have sex with the object of your physical affection but mental rejection?
 
I have found people physically attractive who were assholes to my way of thinking and no, I didn't or wouldn't act on it.

It is like eye candy for the diabetic! Ya gotta stay away from that stuff!

:D
 
Frimost said:
But mentally repulsed by them at the same time?
If it came down to it, would you ever have sex with the object of your physical affection but mental rejection?


Im not fucking their brain......well.....thats not exactly true......I've been known to Mind Fuck now and then.....lol
 
Been there, done that...and I've got the psychic scars to prove it. Every time I had sex with her, ever day we spent together, my soul died a little. The sex was incredible, she had the best body of any woman I have EVER been with...and she was so incredibly shallow and stupid and ignorant. I was young and dumb myself, but deep down I knew that I was compromising my integrity by having any sort of relationship with her at all. I started drinking heavily to dull my mind, but eventually I hit rock bottom, and I dumped her. The moment she grabbed her shit and left, I felt a weight lift off of my shoulders.
 
Frimost said:
But mentally repulsed by them at the same time?
If it came down to it, would you ever have sex with the object of your physical affection but mental rejection?

More times than I can count. This is quite natural for heterosexual males. And yes, I've banged women who I absolutely despised. I don't drink, but I imagine that's what beer is for.
 
I have found people physically attractive who were assholes to my way of thinking and no, I didn't or wouldn't act on it.

It is like eye candy for the diabetic! Ya gotta stay away from that stuff!


Is it a ratio thing or do you think that is would actually be possible that there could be a guy so found so sexy that his sex appeal outweighed his mental/personality deficiencies IYO?

Like if he had what you considered God-like physique like Michelangelo’s David (or whatever male body type your prefer) but was what you thought of as a dick?

If the answer was still no how far would you be willing to go? I must assume you would look at him naked, would you allow him to perform oral sex on you without reciprocation even though you disliked his personality?
 
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At this point, I wouldn't even let a woman who I disliked suck my dick, not even if she was a supermodel.
 
Johnny Mayberry said:
At this point, I wouldn't even let a woman who I disliked suck my dick, not even if she was a supermodel.

:confused: How many supermodels are there in North Carolina?
 
Killswitch said:
:confused: How many supermodels are there in North Carolina?

Well, probably more than you think...they film tons of movies and TV shows here. I know they film Dawson's Creek here.
 
Frimost said:
Is it a ratio thing or do you think that is would actually be possible that there could be a guy so found so sexy that his sex appeal outweighed his mental/personality deficiencies IYO?

Like if he had what you considered God-like physique like Michelangelo’s David (or whatever male body type your prefer) but was what you thought of as a dick?

If the answer was still no how far would you be willing to go? I must assume you would look at him naked, would you allow him to perform oral sex on you without reciprocation even though you disliked his personality?

I ignore them, Fri.

Always have. So, it wouldn't get anywhere.

However, I may be an oddball, but I don't get into the visual aspect of sexuality. It is mostly mental. I don't look at porn. I don't watch pornos unless I am playing with my SO at the same time...that sort of thing.

Now, if he is butt ugly but has a mind and personality that I want and adore, he is likely to get somewhere. NOt that I look for butt ugly men, but it is the mind that gets me, not the wrapping paper.
 
i'm often sexually and physically attracted to people BECAUSE i'm mentally repulsed by them!
wrap your head around that.
 
about as far as i could go is masturbating to fantasies of that person. if the mental/emotional attraction isn't there i just couldn't do it. i once tried to make out with a guy at a party and the situation was similar and it was so far from arousing that i felt sick afterward.
 
the main part of attraction is in the mind.

If I can't find your mind or personality attractive then why the hell would I want to fuck you? I have done it but its boring as shit to fuck a beautiful but completely unimaginative starfish of a person. Selfishness and severe vanity are real turnoffs.
 
It's sorta like jerking off to playboy... not very satisfying PLUS you have to put up with their dumbass afterwards!
 
There's this dark-skinned guy in one of my classes. The image of beauty, the image of sex. He's got dark, full eyebrows, and black, intense, beautifully shaped eyes, he's muscular, but not juice-monkey muscular, he's tall, and dresses well (and is straight, I've seen the guy's perfect gf)... and I've been lusting after him since September. This week, he opened his mouth, and the words and language and idiocy that poured forth has ruined him forever. I can't look at him without cringing. So no, I wouldn't fuck him... I'd be afraid of the things he'd say during the act.
 
I've had practically the same thing said to me once by a Dutch woman I was sleeping with. She told me no-one had ever turned her on as much or repulsed her as much.:confused:
 
I couldn't and wouldn't do it. For me it's so much about the mental connection, if I find the personality repulsive, then the person is repulsive to me.
 
No way. I have to at least like someone to want to sleep with them. Isn't that just common sense?

It looks like most of the guys are able to compartmentalize their feelings here to at least fuck her once if a girl is attractive enough. No common sense? heh
 
Frimost said:
But mentally repulsed by them at the same time?
If it came down to it, would you ever have sex with the object of your physical affection but mental rejection?


I look at a physically attractive woman like I would a beautiful landscape, and you don't fuck landscapes. Only after I talk to a women and judge her inner beauty do I concider taking it further. The landscape is a bonus. I have met so many "sexy chikitas" lately but their personalities were poor or they shared a brain with their friends. Another point of note, I've never slept with a woman with a less than genius IQ. Just a personal preference.
 
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