Have you ever actually SEEN your...
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Ambrosious
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Re: To be fair...
My penis is 10 inches long and fat as a beer can.
*bratcat* said:
My penis is 10 inches long and fat as a beer can.
sexy-girl
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i think it makes a huge difference if you've met the person your talking to online ... i met my gf lisa for real and then it became an online realationship when she went back to canada ... it would of been weird if i didnt know what she looked like however not being able to see her didnt stop me falling in love with her the more and more as we chatted
just thought i'd add i did lie about TWO things when i had met lisa
i really sad that i did that but i was scared i wouldnt make a good impression ... i think people sometimes lie about stuff even when you meet someone for real if your trying to hard to make a good impression
just thought i'd add i did lie about TWO things when i had met lisa
i really sad that i did that but i was scared i wouldnt make a good impression ... i think people sometimes lie about stuff even when you meet someone for real if your trying to hard to make a good impressionYes I have seen Dragons Picture, as he has seen mine. We have exchanged many pictures. We have both sent full body pictures of one another, clothed of course, . I think it's important that you request this before meeting, so you won't have any doubt of physical attraction. And that's not me being shallow. Physical attraction has alot to do with how you would respond to someone. I fell in love with Dragon for his personality, his humor, his intelligence, his kindness, and his way of treating a woman. The fact that he is sexy is just icing on the cake. But I still think you have to see the physical person as well. Anyone who won't send you a picture of themselves, or only shows you bits and pieces, to me, is someone who has something to hide, or is very insecure about themselves.. and no, I would not meet Dragon had he refused to send his picture. Besides, how else could I make sure he wasn't on the most wanted list??
I think you should request a picture, or you're liable to be stuck with someone you don't find physically attractive.. ok flame away..
. I think it's important that you request this before meeting, so you won't have any doubt of physical attraction. And that's not me being shallow. Physical attraction has alot to do with how you would respond to someone. I fell in love with Dragon for his personality, his humor, his intelligence, his kindness, and his way of treating a woman. The fact that he is sexy is just icing on the cake. But I still think you have to see the physical person as well. Anyone who won't send you a picture of themselves, or only shows you bits and pieces, to me, is someone who has something to hide, or is very insecure about themselves.. and no, I would not meet Dragon had he refused to send his picture. Besides, how else could I make sure he wasn't on the most wanted list?? I think you should request a picture, or you're liable to be stuck with someone you don't find physically attractive.. ok flame away..
Celtlan
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pics and not telling the truth
well not that ive met anyone ive chatted to. Pictures are a problem. yes have sent pictures to people but the problem i have is cant aford a digital camera or web cam at preset .....collecting pennies i guess just wont do it.....
problem is when i split from my last g/f she took all the picks from the previous 4 years, well most of them anyway so yes they are old ones i have but i say they are and describe differences. Like less hair lol
but if you cant at least tell the truth while on line well its like having no integrety or respect for yourself.
i dont know......
i guess people have to decide for themselves if they want to be who they are or want to be someone else.
well not that ive met anyone ive chatted to. Pictures are a problem. yes have sent pictures to people but the problem i have is cant aford a digital camera or web cam at preset .....collecting pennies i guess just wont do it.....
problem is when i split from my last g/f she took all the picks from the previous 4 years, well most of them anyway so yes they are old ones i have but i say they are and describe differences. Like less hair lol
but if you cant at least tell the truth while on line well its like having no integrety or respect for yourself.
i dont know......
i guess people have to decide for themselves if they want to be who they are or want to be someone else.
willywanker
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Cat, just one observation. This thread seems to assume that everyone has an on-line lover.
I've got quite a few pictures of ladies that I have talked to in chat and on the Board, but put me down in that group who do not have a On-line lover. While I can see where your coming from with this thread, since there is not one person I'm intimate with on-line, I guess that is why I'm looking forward to Vegas. It will be fun to match faces, bodies, and voices to names I converse with almost daily here on the BB.
I've got quite a few pictures of ladies that I have talked to in chat and on the Board, but put me down in that group who do not have a On-line lover. While I can see where your coming from with this thread, since there is not one person I'm intimate with on-line, I guess that is why I'm looking forward to Vegas. It will be fun to match faces, bodies, and voices to names I converse with almost daily here on the BB.
Bubblegum *sugarless*
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Yes I have seen him and yes he has seen me. Various poses and stages of undress, yada yada yada. 
And he still loves me.
And he still loves me.
shadowsource
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Sob....
I don't have an online lover, but I'm sure she'd be gorgeous, though perhaps not the best speller....
I don't have an online lover, but I'm sure she'd be gorgeous, though perhaps not the best speller....
cymbidia
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A caution from someone who's been there done that, over and over...
I'm not aiming this at you, specifically, shadowsource, though it may seem so, but... maybe you ought to rethink your priorities a teensy bit.
How about a partner who is just plain attractive?
What about smart?
Mentally stable?
Not a liar?
Without a police record for something major?
Not a kleptomaniac? (Any kinda maniac, for that matter.)
Possessed of some plans for thier future?
Trustworthy?
...on and on...
"Gorgeous" doesn't translate well to RL as THE single most important quality one wants in a potential partner, IMO.
And, i hate to tell you this, but people lie big time on the net about everything. Be exceedingly careful about believing much of ANYTHING you're told. Trust comes slowly, in most cases, and is all the more valuable for taking tthe time to ripen to sweetness in a natural fashion.
Okay, go back to waxing enthusiastically about what a gorgeous online lover you'll find sometime...
Of course she'd be gorgeous. ALL online lovers are drop-dead gorgeous. Every single one of them. Yeh. Uh huh.shadowsource said:
I'm not aiming this at you, specifically, shadowsource, though it may seem so, but... maybe you ought to rethink your priorities a teensy bit.
How about a partner who is just plain attractive?
What about smart?
Mentally stable?
Not a liar?
Without a police record for something major?
Not a kleptomaniac? (Any kinda maniac, for that matter.)
Possessed of some plans for thier future?
Trustworthy?
...on and on...
"Gorgeous" doesn't translate well to RL as THE single most important quality one wants in a potential partner, IMO.
And, i hate to tell you this, but people lie big time on the net about everything. Be exceedingly careful about believing much of ANYTHING you're told. Trust comes slowly, in most cases, and is all the more valuable for taking tthe time to ripen to sweetness in a natural fashion.
Okay, go back to waxing enthusiastically about what a gorgeous online lover you'll find sometime...
shadowsource
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hey! Cym!
That was a joke. I appreciate your soliticousness. But please re-examine: "...but I'm sure she'd be gorgeous, though perhaps not the best speller...."
I am not one who is likely to fall in love online, okay? Though, as with religion, etc., I do not judge those who do. Having been to the chat room a few times, I marvel at the spelling (not to mention all those 42DDs...). I have encountered people who may well be who they say they are, or they may not be. You, for instance. Or me. Or W. Not to mention Todd!
That was a joke. I appreciate your soliticousness. But please re-examine: "...but I'm sure she'd be gorgeous, though perhaps not the best speller...."
I am not one who is likely to fall in love online, okay? Though, as with religion, etc., I do not judge those who do. Having been to the chat room a few times, I marvel at the spelling (not to mention all those 42DDs...). I have encountered people who may well be who they say they are, or they may not be. You, for instance. Or me. Or W. Not to mention Todd!
IndianaJones
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Re: willy...
I met a former g/f on line. At the time, neither of us had the hardware to send/receive pix, so the first time we saw each other was in r/l. But we had both been quite honest about what we looked like, (I told her about the eye in the middle of my forehead and she admitted to being 8 feet tall) and we recognized each other immediately. We're still close friends. And we send pix.
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I met a former g/f on line. At the time, neither of us had the hardware to send/receive pix, so the first time we saw each other was in r/l. But we had both been quite honest about what we looked like, (I told her about the eye in the middle of my forehead and she admitted to being 8 feet tall) and we recognized each other immediately. We're still close friends. And we send pix.
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Re: Re: willy...
Good Lord......must be an Indiana thing. I have an eye in the middle of my forehead too!
IndianaJones said:
Good Lord......must be an Indiana thing. I have an eye in the middle of my forehead too!
cymbidia
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Re: hey! Cym!
shadowsource? I was pretty sure you were tongue-in-cheek (that would be your tongue in your own cheek, btw) about the gorgeous lover thing but, gee gosh golly, let this be a lesson to you about giving me an opening to lecture seriously on the importance of taking one's time in online affairs of the heart. I rarely pass up such an opportunity. Just one of my little tweaks.
Yep. All the gorgeous online lover babes have 42DD boobs (natural, of course, and never ever droopy) and 24 inch waists. Of course, all the online lover guys have 10 inch dicks and know what to do with them, too, so everything works out for these people, right?shadowsource said:
shadowsource? I was pretty sure you were tongue-in-cheek (that would be your tongue in your own cheek, btw) about the gorgeous lover thing but, gee gosh golly, let this be a lesson to you about giving me an opening to lecture seriously on the importance of taking one's time in online affairs of the heart. I rarely pass up such an opportunity. Just one of my little tweaks.
