Have you been to an organized orgy?

[Hitchiker69]

I've never been to an orgy, and I'm curious how they are organized. Do you get a written (or texted, emailed, messaged) invitation? Do you know the other people there? Does everyone just show up, strip naked and start fucking or sucking a stranger? Are drinks or drugs provided, or do you bring your own? Are there games to break the ice, like strip poker or spin the bottle? How about body oils or lotions, do you bring your own?

Please share your experiences. I'd really like to know

 

[womaneater58]

Interested in hearing about it also.

 

[ericrodman101]

I’ve been to a disorganised orgy. Does that count?

 

[Islander55]

How do you define orgy as opposed to a group of swingers getting together. I have been to one swingers group but it was mostly pairing off with some small groups that were open for viewing.

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

Can we just call them "orgynized"?

Go ahead and use that amongst yourselves. I'll call the folks at Merriam Webster to have that added.

 

[policywank]

I have been to organized orgies, but I think of them more like adult parties. It was really much like being to any private party except that sex was one of the activities that all attendees knew was deemed acceptable. The host provides a nice atmosphere, food, drinks and facilities. It helps to have entertainment and things to do like billiards, a pool, music, etc. (don't think I've ever seen spin the bottle seeing as we are all grown-ups) as well as places to have sex. It is effectively a social gathering or party where everyone knows in advance that all the attendees are sexually open. But nobody is compelled. Everyone takes things at their own pace and engages in the things that appeal to them in an atmosphere of mutual respect.

 

[ericrodman101]

I have been to organized orgies, but I think of them more like adult parties. It was really much like being to any private party except that sex was one of the activities that all attendees knew was deemed acceptable. The host provides a nice atmosphere, food, drinks and facilities. It helps to have entertainment and things to do like billiards, a pool, music, etc. (don't think I've ever seen spin the bottle seeing as we are all grown-ups) as well as places to have sex. It is effectively a social gathering or party where everyone knows in advance that all the attendees are sexually open. But nobody is compelled. Everyone takes things at their own pace and engages in the things that appeal to them in an atmosphere of mutual respect.

Yes, that's what I'd call an organized orgy. An adult party, a venue or a house with socializing and fucking if you want. Very cilvilized. Swingers party is more membership based, if not formally, then de facto. At a swingers party everyone expects to participate at least by watching the fucking. No one is going to a swingers party just to chat. A sex club is a mix of both. Not everyone fucks, nearly everyone watches, you can just hang round the bar, but there's not a lot of socializing - more likely to encounter strangers. A disorganized orgy is more like what used to happen at my place when we got drunk or stoned and it went down organically. And a gangbang is the same except everyone went down on one person.

 

[stretch351]

Not orgies, but a number of gang bangs over the years, normally involving a number of ladies.
Lots of fun!

 

[Chernosoth]

I attended a party where some people got laid. I paid admission and ate some food. The women I liked were busy with other men. I spanked the one still available. Later I watched a little bit of action with two women.

 

[J_Bone]

I have been to organized orgies, but I think of them more like adult parties. It was really much like being to any private party except that sex was one of the activities that all attendees knew was deemed acceptable. The host provides a nice atmosphere, food, drinks and facilities. It helps to have entertainment and things to do like billiards, a pool, music, etc. (don't think I've ever seen spin the bottle seeing as we are all grown-ups) as well as places to have sex. It is effectively a social gathering or party where everyone knows in advance that all the attendees are sexually open. But nobody is compelled. Everyone takes things at their own pace and engages in the things that appeal to them in an atmosphere of mutual respect.

This exactly. I attended quite a few back in my 20s with several loosely-affiliated swingers groups, but they weren't referred to as orgies, just lifestyle/swinger parties or get-togethers and always invitation only. Of course sex was the theme, but It was a more casual go-at-your-own-pace atmosphere with no expectations or requirements that anyone take part. Some hooked up individually both in private and more public rooms/settings, some group, and then some were just there to watch and otherwise enjoy the environment. The hosts' residences were always large to very large and well appointed with various other activities as PW mentioned, pools, hot tubs, pool tables, backyard games, etc. There were always snacks or light fare provided and only once or twice that I remember where there was an open bar and alcohol was provided, which I'm sure wasn't the norm for liability issues. Most times it was BYOB and the host provided setups. And there was definitely a rule prohibiting illegal drugs of any kind.

All in all, lots of fun, but more like a party and not like everyone's naked all the time and in a pile on the living room floor

 

[BigButtSlut47]

My now sister-in-law, then roommate/lover, and I used to provide the "entertainment" at frat parties in college. Does that count as an orgy, or just a gang bang?

 

[Hitchiker69]

The closest I ever came to an orgy was when the lesbians who lived next door in my apartment block announced a party with a little bi horny young woman they'd met. I'd already fucked the slut once, and was all for fucking her friends. The party started after dark, and we'd all been drinking. We were all naked in the living room, 2 girls and 5 guys. The girls were very busy getting fucked while sucking a second guy or 2.

At some point I was fucking a girl doggy style while she ate pussy, and bragging that she knew how to eat pussy much better than any of us guys. A few guys had eaten her without making her cum, but she made the other girl cum several times.

I wanted some cock too. Several hard ones were very near my mouth as the guys stood around watching me fuck one of the girls. But every time I reached for a cock they pulled away. None of the guys made a big deal out of my attempts to suck them, they just pulled away and that was all. I would have gladly sucked them all, or get fucked by a few, but there was no interest.

Somehow I ended up in bed with the bi girl and another guy. I was on my back on the bottom, fucking her pussy while he fucked her ass from above. After he came he left and she and I fell asleep together.

I woke the next morning in my own bed with a hangover and a sore dick.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

We have been to few over the years. They were all arranged through swinger clubs we belonged too. Mostly, we knew other people there and many, we had been with them in a threesome or couple on couple basis. It usually starts with socializing with others before sexual activities begin. In most cases, bringing your own alcohol is the norm, but outright drunkenness is not permitted. As far as drugs crack, heroin, hard stuff is forbidden, though we did engage in cocaine ourselves in the early days. Pot is always welcome, especially if we are hosting at our home and have a number of like minded legalization sexual partners.

 

[fma20fma]

would like to know more about this before plunging.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

I attended an orgy with a couple who knew the owner of the house and organizer. We had been a threesome for just over a year. They had been attending these weekend orgies for a long time and knew most attendees very well. All the rooms upstairs and down were open for use. My threesome vixen spent most of the night surrounded by men in bed taking turns with her body. She was very oral and loved all her fuck holes filled at once. When she came, you could hear her moans from rooms away! Her husband and I had been suck buddies before his wife wanted the threesome, so we spent time going from room to room watching everyone do their thing while we edged and sucked each other for others to watch. He ended up in a spa with his "regulars" sucking cock after cock. I ended up in bed with two guys and a gorgeous woman sucking each other and fucking in every position imaginable. The guys left to explore more rooms leaving me alone with my new-found lover. We were very happy to share deep passionate soul kisses, 69, and slow-fuck all night until we drifted off to sleep....and doing it all over again first thing in the morning!