Have ED...can't convince her to try another

[RedRideHer]

Birmingham, AL mature male with ED. Can't perform anymore, but want wife to still enjoy intercourse with another male. Can't convince her to do it. Any ideas. Really sad here!

 

[Breakfromstress]

Maybe she would feel less guilt playing with a girl? Since possibly in her head you are supposed to be the only guy for her

 

[ForestFlame]

Birmingham, AL mature male with ED. Can't perform anymore, but want wife to still enjoy intercourse with another male. Can't convince her to do it. Any ideas. Really sad here!

If your wife is adamant that she does not want another male, then I would stop trying to convince her otherwise, she may feel unduly pressured by that.

There are plenty of ways for you to still satisfy your wife, various toys available on the market and of course your own fingers etc. I'm sure you could find something fairly 'life like' to substitute for the real thing, that would keep you both happy. Best of luck to you both

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny

Birmingham, AL mature male with ED. Can't perform anymore, but want wife to still enjoy intercourse with another male. Can't convince her to do it. Any ideas. Really sad here!

Went thru this exact same thing awhile back. First get tested for prostate cancer. DO IT. I waited several years and after we moved my new family doctor sent me to a urologist. Yep, prostate cancer was why I couldn't get it up.
Kept saying no. Had reasons to finally say yes. Painless, 45 radiation treatments and I'm cured. So far can't keep an erection but I'm going to live long enough to drive others insane!
Joined Lit and other adult sites, against my own wishes. My wife decided to try sex, intercourse actually, with a few friends since I had begged and tricked her much of our lives. Then it didn't work. Now she loves it and so do I. Yes I watch and play while others do what I can't.
Every wife doesn't do what my wife has done but I only have one wife so only suggest to others things to try.

Maybe she would feel less guilt playing with a girl? Since possibly in her head you are supposed to be the only guy for her

There's truth in this. A man who loves is wife is not supposed to want to share her with anyone, male or female. As for this, my wife has rarely had any female play, some boob fondling.

If your wife is adamant that she does not want another male, then I would stop trying to convince her otherwise, she may feel unduly pressured by that.
There are plenty of ways for you to still satisfy your wife, various toys available on the market and of course your own fingers etc. I'm sure you could find something fairly 'life like' to substitute for the real thing, that would keep you both happy. Best of luck to you both

Written by a very smart lady. I tried all of those things and up until recent years everything did work wonders.
As I wrote, age and the chances of not being sexually active much longer, along with sexy Lit comments, convinced my wife to try intercourse. Something I wouldn't recommend for others but it works for us.
We are all the same, yet different in many ways. As long as your wife is happy, everyone is happy. Or something like that.

 

[RedRideHer]

Thanks

Thank you for your replies. Still would like to see her get male fulfillment. Maybe a little voyeur in me too.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

Thank you for your replies. Still would like to see her get male fulfillment. Maybe a little voyeur in me too.

Don't give up. Some of the things I've done later in life took most of a lifetime of begging and teasing from other men. All women aren't the same or even like to show skin.
We've played games just south of Birmingham.

 

[RedRideHer]

Keep Trying

Illinois is a far piece from just south of Birmingham