Have All The Females Left This Site??????????????

[friendlyguy]

THIS IS STARTING TO REALLY "BLOW" PEOPLE!!!

I AM BEGINNING TO THINK THAT LIT.COM IS VISITED BY HUNDREDS OF LONELY MEN AND VERY FEW IF ANY, WOMEN!!

DOES ANYONE KNOW OF ANY OTHER SITES OR PLACES TO GET E-MAIL ADDRESSES OR PUT UP ADS LIKE THIS ONE TO GET WOMEN TO E-CHAT?????

I PUT OUT SO MANY REQUESTS FOR WOMEN WHO WANT TO TALK VIA E-MAIL AND THEY ALL SEEM WAY TOO BUSY OR SOMETHING, OR THIS IS JUST 100% MEN!!!

OH WELL, IF YOU HAVE ANY THOUGHTS, PLEASE DON'T REPLY TO THIS THREAD, E-MAIL ME AT
FRIENDLYGUY2002US@YAHOO.COM

C'MON LADIES, WHAT IS UP?????????????

 

[Guest]

Maybe they don't like you. I have read some of your stuff and it is a turnoff.

 

[friendlyguy]

Give me an example if you really feel this way

Like what for instance?

Tell me what you've read specifically

If you are going to respond and this is REAL, send me an e-mail at Friendlyguy2002us@yahoo.com

Otherwise I'll assume you haven't read anything I've wrote and this is just a flip comment.

 

[lovetoread]

What kind of talk are you after? Lots of women really dont like rude and crude emails on the first date. And yes to answer one of your questions this site has more men than women. But we are here.

 

[on_the_verge]

They are here and there...

I have met a few women through Lit and written or spoken to them on the phone. I enjoyed and was inspired by everyone of them, although they have never lasted a lengthy amount of time or gone beyond online. Some ended because I became to passionate as a person and a heart may be broken, other times were because of distance and differences. What I am saying is you can't win them all, but persistence, being straight forward, respectful, honest and just the ablity to singe and smoke a persons minds and nerves may to the trick.

I agree that you can't be rough and demanding the first time? But, you have to know the person a fair amount to asses and gather their preferences and what draws them to be stimulated or enraptured. After that, you can be as dirty, romantic or both as the both see fit. It also takes creative writing and I don't mean some front, but someone who can actually reflect they want more than their self satisfaction and has both parties in mind.

You know the deal: It's when you see the same person responding to every personal or one that claims their attributes and what they can do. How about what "we" can do? Etc, etc.

On another thought: Some women/men may have an aversion or are actually unable to follow through for some reason or another. It's umistakingly hard to call what and why, but why ponder on what is not going to happen and make inroads to the "real deal?" There are people who expect things right up front and as if it was going to be the best thing on face value, but maybe if there was some time spent on knowing each other, the pleasure could be paramount and much desired over and over again.

 

[Guest]

Posting in caps is yelling.

Start there bud

 

[MysticSwing]

Hi friendlyguy!
I'm a female... I'm here.... What do ya wanna talk about??
XOXO Mystic XOXO

My bio here at literotica: http://literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=49592

 

[portal65]

Well Friendlyguy........
I think you have a mental image of hundreds of gorgeous, horny women, hovering over their computer, hoping some guy will post a personal saying he is interested in sex.

I hate to burst your bubble, It don't work that way.

True, there are no doubt many more males than females lurking on this site. However there are enough females to make it all worth while. The trick is to make your ad interesting enough to warrant a response. What you find interesting may not be interesting to those you seek.

Portal65

 

[SexyChele]

Don't know if you'll be back or not....

But, one - try to avoid using all caps. It really is rude in cyber-land. Makes one think you are yelling at them. Thank you for not using them.

Second, the topics you are bringing up would not cause me to want to communicate with you. Yes, I've read all 14 of your postings, and do you realize that you seem to dwell on topics that are edgy at best? To ask people to send you details about their female relatives, and to included nasty details, just so you can write rape fantasies is really not a way to get a female's attention.

The subjects that you have brought up, all of them, have been crude and vulgar. Granted, there are some women who will respond to that sort of thing. But most women will respond to something a little more normative. Why not just include a description of who you are? What you like? What youa are interested in? Why dwell on rape stories? Or eating cum out of Brittany Spear's ass? Not exactly compelling, let me tell you.

Fact: most ads placed by women here are responded to publically. Most ads placed by men are not. There was a discussion not long ago as to why this happens. I don't think it was ever resolved. Now, men may be responded to privately, but you would need to change your focus for most women to respond.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

There are a lot of very nice women on Lit.

but you won't find them hanging on every word of crudely written personal's ads - you will find them in the other sections of the BB. Just do them one favor though - don't go posting personals anywhere but here; that is what this particular board is for, and if they want to see your personal ad they will come here. Post it elsewhere and you will get flamed.

 

[MissTaken]

Re: There are a lot of very nice women on Lit.

but you won't find them hanging on every word of crudely written personal's ads - you will find them in the other sections of the BB. Just do them one favor though - don't go posting personals anywhere but here; that is what this particular board is for, and if they want to see your personal ad they will come here. Post it elsewhere and you will get flamed.

Our hero, STG championing the cause....

Thank you, very nicely put.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Re: Re: There are a lot of very nice women on Lit.

Our hero, STG championing the cause....

Thank you, very nicely put.

Well I just thought I would come over and see if anybody actually replied to my ad after it had been up a month; nope, nada nothin! There were 38 views and no replies - knod of says something for the effectiveness of Lit personal ads doesn't it?

 

[SexyChele]

Re: Re: Re: There are a lot of very nice women on Lit.

Well I just thought I would come over and see if anybody actually replied to my ad after it had been up a month; nope, nada nothin! There were 38 views and no replies - knod of says something for the effectiveness of Lit personal ads doesn't it?

Oh, I don't know. I placed an ad here last April and got a decent show of responses. Course, I am a female, and that might have something to do with it. What's even more curious is that I no longer have contact with any of the men I initially met here. The friendships that have developed either started on the bulletin boards or in the chat room. Strange. Well, maybe not ~

 

[on_the_verge]

Hmmm?

I wonder what the women feel about my posts? I think I did place a description of me on one of the NY threads, but I wonder to such a perplexity and curious tinge of what is that of my posts?

I can't, can't say what I have experienced on Lit to only get a you are saying all the sweet things and that you are not true to your words and thoughts...still can't! You have to know that developing an attraction and a fondness for a person will extract some other that may feel the same embrace you desire.

My g/f and I are looking for a 3-some! Wait! Stop right there people and before you think you all will ever be in it....think that it's about us and not what another solely desires or can claim they can offer. We want good lovers and friends to allow us to explore, but don't think because you have a cock or a cunt that we will be open to it all. We want trust, comfort and a wonderful experience.

Now where is that post I made?

Ahhh!

I have posted in threads about NY area people and I guess here goes again.

Why, if anyone should know me:

Because I am not afraid to say I have been hurt before and it still lingers from minute times, but I am receptive to happiness and fulfillment, may it be temporary or not, from myself and others around me. I will be your best friend that you could call at 3 am because you felt tlike it.

I have minute scars on my body from experiences in life and some on my heart that I am able to share and be open about it. (We all have a scar here and there from somewhere in our life).

I am a sensual person to a challenging lover that is inviting and is open not only to surprises, but being hard and furious one moment to a gentle and tender lover the next. Yet, I am sensual about many things in life besides a woman and sex, but life can be such a sensual and delicate things in it's own.

I have a complexity, but I am also cynical and take fun to a level where it is not finding happiness, but being in the throws of it. I have an intelligence that is enormous-not all wordly, but an intelligennce of life and passion. I am a personable writer at heart and I would write about you if you touched me that way. Other than that, I wecome the absence of drama and the ability to lay next to another the first and last time. Spontaniety and the tribulations of a lover can be surprising, be it one night or many nights.

Because I won't claim I am a "good fuck" or anything else as a person unless I was talking about doing myself and selfish that way. I know it takes two two tango and that is when the truth begins to surface and the dance of companionship is brought onto the floor.

So, HELLO NY and welcome to a new life ahead of you as every new waking day is a new chapter in your life!

I guess it all means I did not spark a woman's attention, but I am confident and patient enough to know that when another is a part of us or just me, it will be there and I/we will be grateful for it....

 

[xzchief]

Admittedly, I'm new to these boards. However, I think there are more than a few women here. There probably are hundreds of guys here although I have no idea how many of them are lonely.

Check search engines; I'm sure you can find dozens of sites where you can look for female chat partners. You seem very frustrated though. Just relax, there's no need to yell at everyone.

Good luck to you,

chief

 

[MizTabby]

If you're still around, you'll see that there are quite a few ladies still on the site. SexyChele and on_the_verge made some very valid points and it was also nice to see Shy Tall Guy's comments. I do wonder at times though, how fruitful/less the ads are, still I'd much rather an approach a lot less crude and more friendly, "friendly guy".

 

[on_the_verge]

Having a tender and respectful heart may seem somewhat of a dismal aspect of being a man, but IMO, a man that can be respectful as a lover outside of sex and also within is a hard match to locate and seize. Just about anyone can have sex, but what we must also consider is that a "great" lover is a person of spirit and the sensibility to enact all forms of sensuality and that does not impose a physical contact. To be a lover and be creative as well as seductive is more than where you can put it, but how you can enrapture and begin to spin that silver lining that will alow another to fluster and wrap within the very person you are-the potential that you can also please the persons mind as well as the body.

Through actions and words, we may form a compatability and set the path there, but anyone can say the crude and striking words we know and have felt, but can you do it in a way that brings that "spark?" Sometimes you may have to look it as dating and when a person follows you through your posts and sees the inner being, that person may feel an attraction or at least a desire to know more. To say fuck and suck is like saying I have a good heart, but we must define what that heart is and how others perceive it.

Blah, blah, blah...

Although it may be something to consider and heck, I am not an expert, but I just feed from my experience and what vibrates within.