Hate-sex theme

[coldesire]

Are there any good stories with a hate-sex theme? As in, both characters hate each other, but end up having sex... I tried using the search function, didn't have any luck.

I absolutely despise my boss, and the feeling is mutual, yet I fantasize about him sitting behind his desk while I'm on my knees giving him a BJ. I'm not even physically attracted to him either. WTF!

 

[JMaxwell69]

I'd guess you'd fine a lot under "boss/secretary" "boss/employee", and "power play".

Of course, not all of those are going to involve mutual loathing.

Is there something other than the power dynamic at work that makes this arousing?

My guess is there are stories there, but I'm not certain how they'd be categorized.

 

[Cameo_Fleur]

Try looking under "Angry Sex".

 

[JMaxwell69]

Try looking under "Angry Sex".

That sounds like it. Is there a "Passive Agressive Sex" category?

 

[coldesire]

Yeah, I guess searching for boss/employee stories is a start. I had thought about going through those kind of stories but I guess I didn't want to fall into that cliche.

Is there something other than the power dynamic at work that makes this arousing?

Good ques. I think that's *partly* why I'm searching for similar stories, to get some further insight. Though the power dynamic thing does make a lot of sense. Maybe because he's my boss, and because of my own control issues, plus his abuse of power since he's a fuckin jerk really, I feel getting him off empowers me. Even if it is just fantasy. If that makes any sense. Gah, I didn't realize how twisted this all was.

Passive Aggressive Sex? geez I never knew this category of sex existed. Learning so much from this site already.

I'll try 'Angry Sex' too

Thanks for the replies!

 

[silkstockingslover]

This could be a good story on its own...

 

[coldesire]

yeah maybe... wish I had an ounce of writing skill.

In real life the story has been unfolding on it's own. I've been acting a lot nicer to my boss and at first I could tell he was suspicious/cautious, though over the next few days I've noticed him becoming more friendly. Only other thing is he's married... I'm so bad

So in addition to the boss-employee fantasy and mutual hate, now it's a married man-other woman fantasy... ugh why can't I be normal. For obvious reasons, I would never go through with it.

Anyone else have this similar fantasy? I feel weird about it and am too embarrassed to tell my friends, some which happen to be my co-workers and I do not want them to know.

 

[Fatwa_Morgana]

Hate and Love are closer together than you might think. I believe they can both lead to great sex!! Morgana