Has your wife ever told you a prior boyfriend was better in bed than you?

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I've been married for over 25 years now. When in college, my wife to be and I had dated for several months. I broke up with her because I lost my feelings for her and wanted to date others. For the longest time, she would not date anyone else and was hung up on me. She had only been with one other guy prior to me and that was only a one time thing. Well, at some point, she started seeing someone else. I got jealous and went to see her. She indicated that she had slept with him two times. I got them broken up but did not get back with her. At some point, she started seeing another guy. It was apparent that she was really starting to like him. I got jealous once again and told her I wanted her back should they ever break up. She was delighted to hear this and soon came back to me.

While I had my hard dick in her one night, I asked her if his dick was bigger than mine.
She immediately told me mine was bigger. I asked her who was the better at fucking. The first thing she said, and I'll never forget it as long as I live was, "his name, knows how to fuck". I asked her what that meant. She said that he was the better, but only by "a little bit". I asked what it was he did that made him better. I felt jealousy and excitement at the same time. She said things like lighting candles, taking his time, and that he pushed his dick up and in slowly in certain way. Later it came out that his dick was thicker but shorter than mine.

Later, I asked her if she had ever sucked anyone elses dick (knowing that the last boyfriend was the only possibility) but mine and she immediately said no. Later, feeling somewhat guilty, she brought up the subject and said that she did not want to lie to me. She indicated that she had probably sucked the guy as above maybe twice and that it was not a regular thing. She was not absolutely sure she had because she had been drinking on several occasions and was in situations where she might have done it. We eventually married and the blowjob thing came up time and time again. She vascillated between being pretty sure she had not blown him to possibly she had. It was left many years ago that she was pretty sure she had not. My wife is fairly straight laced and does not tell lies. She is by all accounts a very good person. I find it hard to believe that someone could not remember whether or not they had a dick in their mouth. It drove me crazy back then. I guess from male pride knowing I was the only one my wife had given head to.

I have not brought this up since way back then because to do so would be bringing up something that was put to and end. I still think about it often and jerk off thinking about what those two did. I think about her coming with him (the only other she came with besides me), he shooting his sperm on her stomach and in her. And, the thought of her with his dick in her mouth drives me up the wall, especially if he were to have cum in her mouth. I jerk off thinking about her and him constantly. I tell her how hot it would be to see her fucking or blowing another guy but I never tell her about my continuing thoughts about that particular relationship she had because I guess that I don't want to concede anything to him given I knew him. A male pride thing I reckon. It wouldn't anger me now if she were to tell me that there was more to know about all that. Actually, I'm glad that I have some rich fantasies to jerk off to.

So....anyone else have a similar story that fuels your lust?
 
The thought of my wife with her previous love interests doesn't do much for me. I go back and forth between being somewhat turned on to being a bit jealous (which doesn't for me translate into titilation in any way). I think it only turns me on to the degree that I'm thinking of her in the act. She's very sensual and often just the thought of her naked body can do quite a lot for me.

I've thought of her with other men and we've even talked about taking the next step towards a threesome but have yet to make it a reality. Again, it's not so much the fact that she'd be with another man that turns me on. It's more the idea that she's turned on and enjoying herself that really gets me going. I want her to be pleased and I take great pleasure in seeing the physical manifestations of her pleasure - writhing limbs, soft moans, muscles tensed and waiting for release, that expression that she makes just before she orgasms...

The advantage that I see with having another man there is that there would be two of everything for her to enjoy. That, and I would get a chance to step back and enjoy the show from a distance - at least for a time. It's not a frequent fantasy of mine, but it does sneak in from time to time.

Edit: I just realized that I didn't respond directly to the question posed in the title of the thread - No, she's never told me that. If I were to ask (as you did), I have no doubt that she'd be honest with me. I'm fairly sure I know what the answer would be. But I've also learned in life that there are some places that I simply don't want to go.
 
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Your story seems to have connections to cuckoldry. I could be wrong. Maybe you're a little more like myself.

My partner has never told me that a prior boyfriend, or a sexual partner after we've been together, was better but she has had some enjoyable moments and she's been with bigger, thicker and more experienced. I can't say that I simply like the idea of her and someone else but there is some sexual attraction to her acting on her desires and enjoying herself. I think I am ok with things of that nature because of her sexuality.

You asked for a story... Most recently she acted on our open relationship with a co-worker and had a blast of a time. She explained it was a great release, he was quite skilled and in all she came to him four times in the multiple sessions. The story has been sexually attractive to me based on the fact that she acted on her desires, is having no strings attached sexual adventures secretly and that she had such a good time.

It's less about her having a blast and multiple orgasms with another man as it is about her having a blast and multiple orgasms in general.

Not sure if that makes sense to anyone else but myself haha.
 
Many times. Her fwb was a regular for many years and she didn’t mind telling me why. If I wasn’t pleasing her with my five and a half penis she would tell me, if you can’t do it I will have to go get J to do it. Once she excitedly told me after being with him that he asked her why she she kept coming back an she told him because she really likes his dick. I questioned her so she said, his is thicker, longer and always does her twice. That really got me ANGIST and now I find being belittled exciting. Things like that can grow on ya if ya know what I mean. I wish I could see it for myself or even her sucking it. I had often asked her why she never to let me be with them or at least watch them. She quickly told be because you couldn’t handle it! You just don’t understand why I feel so much for her but she is sweet, sexy and will do anything for me. Except stop experiencing her sexuality. Ya see I got her cherry when we where in college an I was experienced. So I feel I owed her for her not enjoying her sexuality. Please reply if you have something bad or good to add.
 
Your story seems to have connections to cuckoldry. I could be wrong. Maybe you're a little more like myself.

My partner has never told me that a prior boyfriend, or a sexual partner after we've been together, was better but she has had some enjoyable moments and she's been with bigger, thicker and more experienced. I can't say that I simply like the idea of her and someone else but there is some sexual attraction to her acting on her desires and enjoying herself. I think I am ok with things of that nature because of her sexuality.

You asked for a story... Most recently she acted on our open relationship with a co-worker and had a blast of a time. She explained it was a great release, he was quite skilled and in all she came to him four times in the multiple sessions. The story has been sexually attractive to me based on the fact that she acted on her desires, is having no strings attached sexual adventures secretly and that she had such a good time.

It's less about her having a blast and multiple orgasms with another man as it is about her having a blast and multiple orgasms in general.

Not sure if that makes sense to anyone else but myself haha.
I sure do, read my experience an ya will see why.
 
I am 67 and past my prime. My wife has never said that a previous lover was better than I was but I have watched her with a couple of current lovers and judging from her reactions with one of them, I would say they he fucks her better than I did.
 
She speaks of her first time as the best time ever and has over time I believe seen him again. I’ll chat about it if anyone wants to shoot me a PM
 
I love fantasizing about the idea that my wife's first sexual encounter was her older brother and that they had a DECADE of sex before she even met me. And that he will always be her "best".
I would love if that had been the case and she reminds me of how good he was at pleasing her pussy every day.
 
My wife says I'm boring and have the smallest penis of any man she had been with .
 
my wife never told me that --, I met her when she was sixteen and at that time her last actual boyfriend before was when she was 12. She told me I was her first fuck, I know for a fact I wasn't but I wasn't gonna stress her about that lie.
But I did have a FWB waaaaay back before they had a name for them, 1969 was forever talking about her 'used to be's' .
 
Yes, She even said everyone She had had sex with was better, that is why She turned sissy into a sissy.
 
Not in so many words, but....yeah.
OTOH, another ex told me I was her best, ever.
*shrug* Some like bacon, some like sausage.
 
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