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phoenix6666

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....had an orgasm from a small penis? Excluding foreplay and oral sex, just regular intercourse, have any of you gotten off from a guy with a small dick?
 
I did once. But it was because his pubic bone was regularly grinding against my clit.
And Lynxie has a good point; the guy I mentioned was below average with an erect penis of about 3 inches.
 
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phoenix6666 said:
....had an orgasm from a small penis? Excluding foreplay and oral sex, just regular intercourse, have any of you gotten off from a guy with a small dick?

What's your definition of "small?" If you're talking "small" with regards to the man's view of his own penis, then yes. If you're talking "small" with regards to the statistical average length of a penis, then no.
 
GenesisMan said:
Then let me ask this. What is the average size erect?

OH GAWD NOT ANOTHER PENIS SIZE THREAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lets put an end to this right here.

The average erect penis is 5-6 inches long and 1-1.5 inches in diameter.

Thats measured from the base of the penis to the tip.

The sperm whale has a penis that averages 6.5 feet in length. And when the sperm whale comes, the ejaculate can be measured in quarts. Now, no matter how big you are, you're suddenly insignificant compared to the sperm whale.

Its not the size of the motor under the hood, but the volume of her screams of joy that matter.
 
Bobmi357 said:
OH GAWD NOT ANOTHER PENIS SIZE THREAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lets put an end to this right here.

The average erect penis is 5-6 inches long and 1-1.5 inches in diameter.

Thats measured from the base of the penis to the tip.

The sperm whale has a penis that averages 6.5 feet in length. And when the sperm whale comes, the ejaculate can be measured in quarts. Now, no matter how big you are, you're suddenly insignificant compared to the sperm whale.

Its not the size of the motor under the hood, but the volume of her screams of joy that matter.

Thanks for beating me to it and posting the average, Bob. And thanks, too, for throwing in the sperm whale trivia :D

Like LadyJ said, it's not the penis that makes us come. If that's all we needed, we'd forget you boys entirely and stick with our vibrators and dildos. No, we're after the complete package (no pun intended). We want your penis, the rest of your body your personality, the things you whisper in our ears.... it's the whole person that brings us to orgasm, not just their dicks.
 
Lynxie said:
We want your penis, the rest of your body your personality, the things you whisper in our ears.... it's the whole person that brings us to orgasm, not just their dicks.

Very well said, Lynxie. There's much more to a man than his cock.

While there are some size queens out there, most of us are more than happy with whatever our man has. If you don't like what you have, don't worry about it. You can't change it without potentially damaging your ability to use it in the long run. Just focus on being the best lover you can be.
 
Lynxie said:
... it's the whole person that brings us to orgasm, not just their dicks.

True, but the dicks DO play a part in the matter. And as far as the small question goes, I was referring to the statistical average. I don't think most men are ever big enough in their minds.
 
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It's not the length of the penis but the girth size that matters to me and yes, I've orgasmed from a small penis before. However, like what SlyKiten wrote my lover was grinding himself against my clit at the same time.
 
Size, or lack of, has never been an issue for me in regard to achieving orgasm. The amount of creativity in which He puts into it as He makes love to my mind is what causes me to multi-climax. Besides, it's not the size of the worm, it how well it wiggles that really matters.

¸,ø¤º°sinn0cent°º¤ø,¸ proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND
 
phoenix6666 said:
True, but the dicks DO play a part in the matter. And as far as the small question goes, I was referring to the statistical average. I don't think most men are ever big enough in their minds.

I guess the licking frog I put in my previous post didn't make my point clearly enough.

Lynxie has most of it right; I also meant that I don't come unless my clit is being taken care of, regardless of penis size.
 
phoenix6666 said:
True, but the dicks DO play a part in the matter.

Nope, not for me. If I'm gonna have an orgasm through intercourse alone, then it's all about the angle of penetration, and I can get the stimulation I want that way regardless of size. Other people's mileage, of course, may vary.
 
phoenix6666 said:
....had an orgasm from a small penis? Excluding foreplay and oral sex, just regular intercourse, have any of you gotten off from a guy with a small dick?
I actually prefer men on the average or below. I just like how they move better. I have gotten off plenty of times with men with a smaller penis
 
phoenix6666 said:
....had an orgasm from a small penis? Excluding foreplay and oral sex, just regular intercourse, have any of you gotten off from a guy with a small dick?

I always used to say that size matters. Definitely not true.

Call me an oddball, but I'd rather have a smaller size cock. Every woman's different, of course, but yes, I've had plenty of orgasms from riding on top. It hits the spot purrfectly :)

But if he's not going to talk to me during sex, forget about it. My body will shut down. I need to be talk to in order to cum.
 
niteloser said:
I actually prefer men on the average or below. I just like how they move better. I have gotten off plenty of times with men with a smaller penis
I never thought I'd hear a woman say that. You just made my day.
 
Eilan said:
Very well said, Lynxie. There's much more to a man than his cock.

While there are some size queens out there, most of us are more than happy with whatever our man has. If you don't like what you have, don't worry about it. You can't change it without potentially damaging your ability to use it in the long run. Just focus on being the best lover you can be.

aaaaamen to this post!
 
A few months ago I had a conversation with one of my ex's.

I was basically telling him what a crappy lover he was (I was past the point of still caring about his feelings to try and sugarcoat things)... I figured if the man had no idea he was bad in bed how was he supposed to get better?

So I told him he sucked in bed (and not in a good way)... and that I wasn't the only one that thought so... my suitemate in college slept with him too.

He was surprised.... lol.. it was hilarious.

But anyway... moving on... he mentioned needing some aspirin because he'd gotten a headache from me being so forthcoming... I jokingly said, "better get some Viagra too". His response was, "WHAT?!??? I need that too?"

I told him no, that I was joking, and that he was the longest guy I've ever been with. (Which is the truth)....

And he says good because he still worries about that sort of thing a lot.

I said, "Why? You may have been the longest I've been with but you're still the crappiest."

Moral of the story: Don't talk to your ex's about how good you are (or are not) in bed... and don't worry about your dick size. It TRULY is HOW you use it. :cathappy:
 
SkyyAngel said:
A few months ago I had a conversation with one of my ex's. I was basically telling him what a crappy lover he was (I was past the point of still caring about his feelings to try and sugarcoat things)... I figured if the man had no idea he was bad in bed how was he supposed to get better?

Actually, this is a more interesting question.

What makes a guy crappy in bed?
 
EarnestImp said:
Actually, this is a more interesting question.

What makes a guy crappy in bed?
You're right--this IS an interesting question.

I'd have to say that the biggie (for me, anyway) would be not communicating/listening.

Assuming that women are cut from the same mold and therefore all like the same things.

Assuming that porn star sex=real person sex. Porn is fun, but it ain't necessarily meant to instruct.

I don't have any personal experience with this, but I've heard that some men who are larger than average (not ALL, so please don't flame me!) tend to think that because they're well-endowed, they don't have to do anything but show up, thrust a few times, get off, roll over, and go to sleep (or leave).

In general, selfishness, which applies to most of what I've said.
 
I was married to the same man for 25 years. We had lots and lots of sex.........the average was twice a day and on some days more often if he could get it. Deffinately a man with a high sex drive. Oh, and he was hung like a horse! Very nice package.

Now here's the kicker.........I never......never had an orgasm. Not once. The sex was all about his orgasm........his pleasure. Yes, he ate me out......did all the sucking and such......very experimental in positions and such. But, the thing that was lacking was there was no concern with getting me going.....turned on. I don't really know how to explain it but I never was able to get into it.

Then after I divorced him and started dating........I met a man that I eventually went to bed with. One night he got me going and I had my first orgasm. Scared me to death! I had no idea what what going on and was felling really strange tingling and bucked him off me so he landed on his butt on the floor. When he calmed me down and we talked he started laughing and asked had I never had an orgasm........I replied no. So he then penned me down so I could not get away and started sucking on my clit! When I started feeling the tingling and trying to get away he kept me penned and I started cumming........I saw star's.

Needless to say he created a monster. He could get me cumming just with fucking me........and his penis was about 5 inches and not real big around. In fact I could easily take him in my mouth to the base of his cock and not gag as it did not hit the back of my throat. (I loved sucking him off!) But after the first time I always came. The reason why was he would take his time getting me there......he paid attention to my whole body.........and got me really turned on wanting to cum...........and I would!

So actually......no it is not the size of the tool that is important but the skill of the person using it!


Corkie :rose:
 
Bobmi357 said:
OH GAWD NOT ANOTHER PENIS SIZE THREAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lets put an end to this right here.

The average erect penis is 5-6 inches long and 1-1.5 inches in diameter.

Thats measured from the base of the penis to the tip.

The sperm whale has a penis that averages 6.5 feet in length. And when the sperm whale comes, the ejaculate can be measured in quarts. Now, no matter how big you are, you're suddenly insignificant compared to the sperm whale.

Its not the size of the motor under the hood, but the volume of her screams of joy that matter.


your a Knee slapper. Dam I need a zoom Lens NOW! wink!
 
corkie2 said:
I was married to the same man for 25 years. We had lots and lots of sex.........the average was twice a day and on some days more often if he could get it. Deffinately a man with a high sex drive. Oh, and he was hung like a horse! Very nice package.

Now here's the kicker.........I never......never had an orgasm. Not once. The sex was all about his orgasm........his pleasure. Yes, he ate me out......did all the sucking and such......very experimental in positions and such. But, the thing that was lacking was there was no concern with getting me going.....turned on. I don't really know how to explain it but I never was able to get into it.

Then after I divorced him and started dating........I met a man that I eventually went to bed with. One night he got me going and I had my first orgasm. Scared me to death! I had no idea what what going on and was felling really strange tingling and bucked him off me so he landed on his butt on the floor. When he calmed me down and we talked he started laughing and asked had I never had an orgasm........I replied no. So he then penned me down so I could not get away and started sucking on my clit! When I started feeling the tingling and trying to get away he kept me penned and I started cumming........I saw star's.

Needless to say he created a monster. He could get me cumming just with fucking me........and his penis was about 5 inches and not real big around. In fact I could easily take him in my mouth to the base of his cock and not gag as it did not hit the back of my throat. (I loved sucking him off!) But after the first time I always came. The reason why was he would take his time getting me there......he paid attention to my whole body.........and got me really turned on wanting to cum...........and I would!

So actually......no it is not the size of the tool that is important but the skill of the person using it!


Corkie :rose:

Women are like old cars you got choke them and lot them warm up before you run down the freeway.

Guy's want to jump in and be on the on ramp in 15 sec.......

It doesn't happen Guys, Like that lady said,, Give her a Blow job.. suck on her Clit!

Question<< why is it called a Blow Job, how cUm its not a suck Job?
 
I have never had an orgasm from pure fucking alone...no matter the size of the penis. Don't think size matters at all. Some women I guess just don't have them, some do...
 
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