Has an ex ever stalked you

[Beck31]

And have you ever stalked her back? I can definitely say yes.

 

[Prince Albert]

And have you ever stalked her back? I can definitely say yes.

Yes without me knowing it; I ended up marrying her, still am. Love that woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Beck31]

That is cool P.A. Good for you.

 

[edgerider]

mmm have not had an ex stalk me

 

[Beck31]

Awe. It is not always a bad thing.

 

[DonovanCrane]

Had an ex stalk me, and she was one crazy b*tch. She pulled all sorts of stuff to try to get me to get back with her, with a strong tendency toward lying and manipulation. Stalk on the one hand, and try to offer support with the other. The ironic part was that it was her deceptive tendencies that split us up in the first place.

 

[Beck31]

That does happen sometimes. In my case it was more of a mind game. She would stalk and laugh b/c she thought it was funny that I would still defend her despite her breaking my heart numerous times.

 

[69thfirmesthand]

Yes I have had a stalker she was crazy it was very ugly.We were both seeing new people.She threatened me that she was going to ruin my relationship etc etc.She found out I was in her town on business and my gf was staying with me.The ex started calling my cell at 11:00 I shut it off.She called my room.I told her not to call back.I immediately called the office told them not to put any calls through.She showed up at my Hotel room door.Some how she talked the guy into giving her my room number.I opened the door.She started yelling at me.Wheres the bitch?Your my fucking boyfriend?You told me you loved me?I said" your married to a man you claim you love and you say your pregnant with his child"."It is time for you to move on"."I have nothing more to say to you"I shut the door.I called the front desk and I told them I wanted her removed immediately or I was calling the police.

I ended up speaking with the Hotel Maanager about the Night Auditor Giving out my room number and putting me in harms way.I also called her husband at work the next day and told him the story and asked him to keep a leash on his stalker or else I would file a restraining order.

To this day she will still send me messages every once in a while to my know wife.She better hope my wife never sees her.

 

[Beck31]

Sorry that happened to you. I think you take risks whenever you enter a relationship of any kind.

 

[SissyKatie]

I expect an ex of mine would accuse me of that.

Keep in mind... she lives a few thousand miles away over the Ocean. This stalking consisted of sending flowers, sending books I thought she would like from Amazon, and an email every month or so asking how things were, telling her a few bits of news from my end, and reminding her I would love to talk to her if she ever feels she needs somebody to 'unload' onto (she had difficult family situations, and was very depressed and reclusive when I first met her, so there was a history of needing someone).

I told her over Yahoo chat at one point that I would love to see her again. She responded 'That's creepy'.

For some reason it's fine for her to stand in Heathrow airport with us both in tears saying 'We have to be together, we have to... I will hunt you down if I have to, we have to be together'.... yet me saying 'I would love to see you again' is 'creepy'.

It puts a different perspective on it all when the story includes some of the medication she was on, and a major change in medication before things got 'weird'.

 

[Beck31]

Interesting. Best of luck to ya. I understand the hunting down part all to well. Meds and various states of mind can really muck up someone's way of thinking. Also family issues can take a big toll. Perhaps, and I am not trying to be a jackass here, the gifts were a little much from her point of view. I don't know the entire situation so I'm just throwing that out there.