Ladies and Gents, what is considered womanly or feminine? My mother and sis are giving me hell about working out too much. My body isn't masculine but, quite "tight". Is a woman who is athletic and toned considered less feminine than one who is volumptuous and soft? Guys, is muscle mass on a woman a turn on or off? Ladies, we all know that we are conscious of other women's bods...what do you think about the hard/soft issue?