Hard To Find????

[Behr_Naked]

I'm talking about a girls clit.

I bring this up because after reading some of the stories on the site here written by guys why they write the clit as finding it, or discovering it. And this is in stories with men and women as well as women and women. And almost every women knows where her clit is, so it wouldn't be hard for us to find it on another woman, we would know exactely where to look.

I mean if we were talking the g spot then I could understand, but the clit is like right there, not hard to spot at all. It would be like us saying we couldn't find the head of the dick.

So what I'm wondering is it hard for some guys to find? I have never had a problem with a guy finding mine, but I'm wondering if it has been a problem for any of the other women out there? And men if you read this be honest, has it ever been hard for you to find it? Because some of the guys that write these stories are in thier 30's and 40's so you would think they had found it by now.

I know that thier just stories, but I write (not on here) and I take from my personal life what I know to make sure the stuff has realism to it.

Just something I was thinking about and want to hear your thoughts on it.

 

[carini]

i know what you mean... i'm bi and have never had a problem finding the clit... nor have had a problem with having mine found... i however have had guys competely miss my pussy... they have a harder time hitting that than finding my clit LOL

 

[Mustang Sally]

I think that's just a turn of phrase in writing. He "found" it because he wasn't looking right at it, just reached down and felt for it. Ya know?

 

[Weird Harold]

I'm talking about a girls clit.

...

So what I'm wondering is it hard for some guys to find?

It's not so much that it's hard to find as it is hard to put your finger (or tongue) on it without looking. It's not the same as running your hand down a man's front and having your path blocked by "his monstrous manhood."

Another consideration is that, in some women, the clit isn't readily apparent until it's erect. Even knowing where my ex-wife's clit was, I often couldn't actually feel it until it started to engorge.

Finally, I think there is an element of "look what I found here!" to the figure of speech "I found her clit" instead of "I turned my attention to her clit." It's not so much that a search is required as it is similar a magician's delight in finding you have a coin in your ear.

 

[Vlad]

No problem

I'm 29 and have never had a problem locating a lovely clit or the highly sensitive g-spot--the 19 yr old "girl next door" gave me some valuable lessons when I was a teenager--

Vlad

 

[Behr_Naked]

i know what you mean... i'm bi and have never had a problem finding the clit... nor have had a problem with having mine found... i however have had guys competely miss my pussy... they have a harder time hitting that than finding my clit LOL

Same here, I can find one easily it's not hard to do.

As for them missing, I just spit my juice out! I think it's when the guys aren't that experienced that they do the whole, am I in yet thing? And you want to go does it feel like your in yet? I mean I think most guys that have been there and really know what it feels like by now will say that when your in, you know it!

The thing with the stories, well most of the ones that I picked up on it were where a girl or guy was right up there all in a girls pussy and then the writer goes, {I then found her clit and swirled my tongue around it.}

One of the others that kind of like irks me on the stories is the one where the girls that are virgins always have these monstrous orgasms even if their with guys who are virgins, and the guy virgins always are able to go for twenty minutes are so {where are those guys?} LOL just once I would love to read a story where the guy comes in two minutes and the girl is in pain, I mean that's the way it was for me and my friends. hmm maybe I need to write a story for here?

 

[carini]

No joke Sista!!!
if i had a dollar for everytime i finished the job right myself later... i;d be rich...
only once has a guy not gone off before me.. and oddly enough he was a virgin.. but until he had sex with me he had only had sex with men... took him 45 minutes to get off

 

[Behr_Naked]

OMG!!!!!

It is so weird that you said that about the guy only being with other guys. There is this guy I know who I flirt with for fun, who is mainly a virgin, he's only had oral sex. But it's been only with guys, he wants to lose his virginity to a girl though and we have talked about this and I said that I might be willing. So now I'm intrigued about him lasting. . .

I mean I have had guys who could last, but the last guy I was with who could really last was a long time ago. I miss those marathon sessions of sex where your just trying all kinds of positions for over an hour so that the stimulation changes and it holds things off. Or the girl sex where you eat her for an hour till she loses count on how many orgasms she's had.

Man I miss sex like that, I need to quit being such a good girl. . .

 

[DriveSouth]

Re: OMG!!!!!

Man I miss sex like that, I need to quit being such a good girl. . .

Behr_Naked - hi, you sound lonely ... and I am sure I can find your clit, if not, I'd be very persistent in searching for it.




[Edited by DriveSouth on 02-01-2001 at 10:54 AM]

 

[carini]

LOL that's it... i'm driving to Texas to have sex with my girlfriend.. this long distance no sex thing is killing me!!!
LOL

 

[willywanker]

ok, old guy writing here (42, not real old but)

No, I haven't had trouble finding a clit since I found my first one. Like the lady said, they are all in the same place. But I have been with a couple of women in those 42 years whose clit would try to hide as she got closer and closer. Maybe I was paying to much attention and it got over sensitive but I still knew where it was and I still got that orgasm.

I know this is going to sound like bragging but here goes anyway. I can't tell you the number of times after making love in several different positions, my wife getting off multipile times, I've just given up and gone to sleep without cumming myself. A quickey at my house is 15 minutes. I wish I could tell you I have some great control, but I don't know why it is. Used to piss off my ex-wife and wife now sometimes says it makes her feel like she is not doing something right. I thought about seeing a doc but am kind of worried he might "cure" me and I'd be another 2-minute man. But when my wife wants an "all-nighter", that is what she gets.

 

[*Lazer*]

I think Behr it is not so much finding it as it is ignoring it. The men that come to this board are more likely to be creative enough to stimulate a woman to orgasm. You would be surprized at how many men out there act like they are hunting unicorns when going for that sensitive little organ.
I learned after the first time to plant a large sign on myself clearly labeling the desired spot.

 

[Behr_Naked]

Re: Re: OMG!!!!!

Man I miss sex like that, I need to quit being such a good girl. . .

Behr_Naked - hi, you sound lonely ... and I am sure I can find your clit, if not, I'd be very persistent in searching for it.




[Edited by DriveSouth on 02-01-2001 at 10:54 AM]

LOL yeah I have been kind of lonely lately. I have been good for 2 months and counting now. But I'm hoping to change that sooner then later LOL!

But hey persistence is good, and I'm sure that you would have no problem finding my spot, no search light needed here, want to look?