Happy Marriage, yet not happy due to lack of sex?

[TripleAFun]

I am 60 and find myself craving human touch and some pretty hot sex with my wife but she seems almost totally uninterested. It is not like I do not discuss this with her but still nada. I am so lonely and wonder if I should look to have an affair? Any suggestions?

 

[Britva415]

I am so lonely and wonder if I should look to have an affair? Any suggestions?

Ask your wife this?

 

[Lady2020]

My advice is to separate. But that would involve a lot of pain and shame.

 

[lustingmoment]

My wife lost interest and we still fuck but not often but I have a lover 10 years younger and loves devouring my big cock so best of both worlds

 

[Rob_Royale]

I am 60 and find myself craving human touch and some pretty hot sex with my wife but she seems almost totally uninterested.

Pretty common in post-menopausal women. Talk and see if she'll consider talking to her doctor about hormone replacement therapy that might restore her old fire.

 

[bouldghirl]

It could just be age related loss of libido. It does happen. Tell her how you feel and if she would consider couples therapy. It can help.

 

[LakeBoy63]

I am new to this, just signed up today so if you have any advise for me I would appreciate it. What are your interests and what pleases you the most?

 

[shizzz]

My wife lost interest and we still fuck but not often but I have a lover 10 years younger and loves devouring my big cock so best of both worlds

Is wife aware of the lover? Did you talk to wife about taking a side lover? I would not even know how to begin that conversation. But just curious about how it evolved, cause that sounds awesome

 

[ElliottEden]

I am so lonely and wonder if I should look to have an affair? Any suggestions?

There's lonely and then there's LONELY. Depending on how long you've been married, are there kids, grandkids etc. - you can probably depend on a lot of people getting hurt when they find out. Now, having said that - if your wife is one of those who agree 'sex is only sex' then maybe talk with her about it. Maybe. Likely it's going to stir up some shit that'll make you regret doing it.

The best advice I've seen in the thread is for the two of you to seek some form of counseling and then - if your wife is willing - see if there are some therapies out there that may help. Hell even if she just sorts of nods and agrees to giving you a handjob every once in a while that's better than nothing, right?

 

[SaveFerris1]

I am 60 and find myself craving human touch and some pretty hot sex with my wife but she seems almost totally uninterested. It is not like I do not discuss this with her but still nada. I am so lonely and wonder if I should look to have an affair? Any suggestions?

Same here, Newcastle, England