handjobs?

[Guest]

what do guys like best about handjobs? what could i do to make it all the more better for you?

 

[dreamer]

Of all sexual acts I think this may be the one that varies most among us men. Mainly because we all have our prefered methods from years of practice..hehe.

I would advise asking him, and talking about what he likes, how much pressure how fast etc...but most of all masturbate with and for each other. You will then get an idea of how he likes taht kind of stimulation. Also it can be so much for for both.

Enjoy

 

[millieteases]

I asked, he said:

Cut your nails
Use lubricant
Grip firmly, but not like you're tyring to kill a chicken
Up and down and all around and a finger in the butt can be really nice right near the end.

 

[horny_giraffe]

I like a handjob because she can visibly control her grip and I can guide her to do exactly what I like. I can vary the grip by putting my hand over hers so that she knows exactly how hard to grip my dick. Her hand is also much stronger than the force she can exert with her mouth by sucking, assuming that she's not going to bite it off. Her hand doesn't get tired as quickly, and she's a little more patient. She's also a lot more casual about it (although this might vary from person to person.) She's more happy to give me an impulsive/whimsical hand job than a blow job, and doesn't seem to assign it so much meaning. A skillful combination hand job/blow job is as good as coitus, if I'm not considering her pleasure as a factor.

Personally, I like a strong grip to slide the outer skin like a sheath over the inner membranes, like one massages muscles under the skin. The friction needs to be under the skin, not on top of it. If she just rubs the outside skin, it just begin to chafe.

The head, though, can use some extra lubrication and a light massaging rub. Perhaps one could put some lub in one hand, and keep the other hand more-or-less dry.

I agree that guys might be quite different in their preferred techniques, though.

 

[DevilBoy79]

i think its just the feeling of someone elses hand stroking our cock , to speak in general, but as for myself i dunno besides i love everything my S.O does to me

 

[InnocentAngel81]

i think its just the feeling of someone elses hand stroking our cock , to speak in general, but as for myself i dunno besides i love everything my S.O does to me

you just like it because i make everything vibrates

 

[DevilBoy79]

you just like it because i make everything vibrates

vibrates? hmm dont remember that but you would know

 

[ApplesMcgee]

sometimes...

It can be the visual of watching your woman grip your cock. It's almost like letting her have control, but she is doing it all to please you.

PowrDragn

 

[Wyatt]

Fall asleep face downwards whilst lying on your own arm.When you wake up with a "Dead Arm" type pins'n'needles thing,quickly masturbate with that hand and it will feel like someone else's.This dispenses with the need for a woman to be there!

It took me years of practice but I've got it down to a tee now!!

 

[vengefulvixen]

Whenever I gave my b/f handjobs I always thought I was doing it wrong. Then one day I asked him to masturbate in front of me. After that I kind of tried to imitate that a little and he says they're much better. I dunno if it would help you but it did me.

 

[Elizabeth]

The one I have found to me best is this. Have him lay on his side, on his left if the woman is right handed. Get close behind him..like spooning. Reach around and start stroking his cock. This tends to feel the way it would if he was doing it himself. The angle of the hand is more pleasing (i"ve been told) than if I was facing him or in some other position.

 

[MrBates]

Ooooo......

Ok, so I'm a guy, and I'll be perfectly up front with you.
I really LOVE handjobs!
A well performed handjob can be every bit as pleasing, and sometimes even moreso, than a blowjob.

The feel of a woman's fingers around my penis is wonderful.

So, if any of you need some 'hands on' experience, just let me know....I'll be happy to assist!


And Vengeful....good idea about having your b/f masturbate in front of you. That is indeed a very good way to learn about how he likes to be touched!

Don't be afraid to do the same for him!

MrB

 

[BigEd2000]

I love a good Hand Job. After getting started with a bit of casual jerking I like it best when the girl lubes up her hand (spit works great), then stroks with a firm hold that has just a bit of 'slip' to it.

 

[bharman4102]

Whenever I gave my b/f handjobs I always thought I was doing it wrong. Then one day I asked him to masturbate in front of me. After that I kind of tried to imitate that a little and he says they're much better. I dunno if it would help you but it did me.

one of the best i ever had was from a woman who said her last bf let her watch him a lot, and she imitated what he would do. thats probably a great way to learn!

 

[SallyIsHere]

communicate and experiment

Talk about it and experiment with different techniques. Using lube is great, Astroglide. I love giving hand jobs. It is relaxed and intense. You can talk dirty and share fantasies. And when a guy cums, it drives me wild. Now, where is that vibrator. Just thinking about it gets me wet.

Sally

 

[ApplesMcgee]

ohyeah...

Another thing great about handjobs is watching a woman that is into it. She is so excited and turned on to see you cum or fell your hardness in her hand.

PowrDragn

 

[JasonBe]

Elizabeth,

Your technique sounds wonerful...have to have my girlfriend try that one.

Thanks

 

[dreamer]

Re: Ooooo......

A well performed handjob can be every bit as pleasing, and sometimes even moreso, than a blowjob.

I agree.

And Sally, you're right so much of it is the intimacy not just the action. Eye contact, talking...mmm...nice.

 

[vangoh971]

Don't forget about the balls and the ass, i love to have my balls gently squeezed while she's stroking me

 

[MrBates]

Re: communicate and experiment

Talk about it and experiment with different techniques. Using lube is great, Astroglide. I love giving hand jobs. It is relaxed and intense. You can talk dirty and share fantasies. And when a guy cums, it drives me wild. Now, where is that vibrator. Just thinking about it gets me wet.

Sally

Sally . . . next time you're in the mood and want to give a guy a handjob, let me know! I'd love to get one from you!

 

[male969]

i think its just the feeling of someone elses hand stroking our cock , to speak in general, but as for myself i dunno besides i love everything my S.O does to me

have to agree with this

 

[TXappeal]

always remember

the grip is the difference between pink and purple

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

The one I have found to me best is this. Have him lay on his side, on his left if the woman is right handed. Get close behind him..like spooning. Reach around and start stroking his cock. This tends to feel the way it would if he was doing it himself. The angle of the hand is more pleasing (i"ve been told) than if I was facing him or in some other position.

A hot variation on this, which my SO happened onto was her coming up behind me after the shower. She reached around and started strocking me, we both watched in the mirror. Not sure why, but it was very hot .... visually stimulating, as well as a nice hj.

 

[male969]

A hot variation on this, which my SO happened onto was her coming up behind me after the shower. She reached around and started strocking me, we both watched in the mirror. Not sure why, but it was very hot .... visually stimulating, as well as a nice hj.

that sounds pretty good, might have to try that

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

that sounds pretty good, might have to try that

Definitely worth trying. Extra nice with painted nails.