Had Luck, Let’s Try Again!! (M for F)

[UnusuallyNumb]

So I made some posts years ago, and managed to have luck, find an amazing person who connected with me, and it went fabulously. Alas, times change, and through nobody’s fault, it sort of stopped about a year ago. I’ve hung around lit mostly quietly and watched here since then, but never found a new connection, so I figured if it worked once, why not give it a try again.

I am 45 and married (I know that stops some of you right away, and that is fair. I am upfront about it, if it is not for you, by all means, I understand!) I really stay in the marriage mostly for the kids. No intimacy at this point, I have tried multiple things to stir her interest, but it is not really working. Nevertheless, I miss that type of connection and thought to look here to see if I can find it with another female. I figure it will start with messaging here, getting to know one another, exploring, seeing if we connect. I love all sorts of conversation. From there, I’d like to hopefully progress to other chat platforms...that would be all I would expect for now. Age is not important to me, I more looking to find that woman who is interested in possibly cultivating a spark with me, seeing what types of passions can be found and explored mutually.

In my ideal world, you are open-minded and willing to explore right along with me. Among other things, I love to travel and to read. You are interested in sharing conversation with me fairy regularly, and that conversation can be about anything at all. I have pretty good opportunities to be online often given my work and the current situations with working from home. Given all that is going on in the world, I figured if I never take a chance, I never know what I may miss. Hopefully you are interested in getting to know someone the way I am! Please PM if you're interested!

 

[Orchidea73]

I am 45 and married (I know that stops some of you right away, and that is fair. I am upfront about it, if it is not for you, by all means, I understand!) I really stay in the marriage mostly for the kids. No intimacy at this point, I have tried multiple things to stir her interest, but it is not really working.

Since you mentioned it, I'm curious. Have you tried seducing her, all over again?

In any case, I wish you good luck and hope you will find what you are looking for. Your message is good. Comes off as genuine.

Cheers.

 

[LTMMC]

So I made some posts years ago, and managed to have luck, find an amazing person who connected with me, and it went fabulously. Alas, times change, and through nobody’s fault, it sort of stopped about a year ago. I’ve hung around lit mostly quietly and watched here since then, but never found a new connection, so I figured if it worked once, why not give it a try again.

I am 45 and married (I know that stops some of you right away, and that is fair. I am upfront about it, if it is not for you, by all means, I understand!) I really stay in the marriage mostly for the kids. No intimacy at this point, I have tried multiple things to stir her interest, but it is not really working. Nevertheless, I miss that type of connection and thought to look here to see if I can find it with another female. I figure it will start with messaging here, getting to know one another, exploring, seeing if we connect. I love all sorts of conversation. From there, I’d like to hopefully progress to other chat platforms...that would be all I would expect for now. Age is not important to me, I more looking to find that woman who is interested in possibly cultivating a spark with me, seeing what types of passions can be found and explored mutually.

In my ideal world, you are open-minded and willing to explore right along with me. Among other things, I love to travel and to read. You are interested in sharing conversation with me fairy regularly, and that conversation can be about anything at all. I have pretty good opportunities to be online often given my work and the current situations with working from home. Given all that is going on in the world, I figured if I never take a chance, I never know what I may miss. Hopefully you are interested in getting to know someone the way I am! Please PM if you're interested!

hello to you Numb one, When I read your headline first, I thought you mingt be wanting too much. Hardly anybody can achieve chat or mail happiness more than once.

But then after reading your whole ad, I understand better your desire. And I wish you luck in your quest. Just one suggestion: Might it not be possible for you and the amazing person you had connected with before, to resume again what you had ended earlier?

If your connection had reallly been so amazing, perhaps she is missing what you had as much as you now?

I have tried this and it seems to have worked, so maybe it will work for you also?

 

[UnusuallyNumb]

A kind thank you to both of you for your kind advice. I certainly don’t pretend to have all of the answers and definitely not solutions, so I appreciate your opinions! Hopefully you both are well. Stay safe.