Guys, when did you look down and know...

3113

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...that you were going to be the size you were going to be? :)

Serious research question here about adolescent growth. We girls have no idea what bra size we'll be when we're 12 and putting on that first "training bra." From 12 to 16 we have no idea whether we'll end up wearing a B-cup or a DDD-cup (unless, of course, we're pretty sure we're going to look exactly like mom or an older sister). Some of us know by age 13 that we're going to have the cleavage and wow, what a surprise, we're going to be top heavy; others of us have to wait for the final results at about 16/17.

What about you male types?

Prior to puberty, did you look down and suspect that you might end up with a career in sex films? That your casaba was likely to turn out impressive enough to win you a place on a gay-porn site? Or did you and your friends all seem pretty equally unimpressive and you had no idea what size jock strap you were going to need till puberty hit and everything dropped into place? Did you keep growing and growing...or was there one year where it all came into being, one big growth spurt and you knew what you had?
 
breasts

I only got breasts when I was about 25. By then I had quite a collection of clothes that suddenly stopped fitting.

Not that I am complaining.

:)

Maharat
 
maharat48 said:
I only got breasts when I was about 25. By then I had quite a collection of clothes that suddenly stopped fitting.

Not that I am complaining.

:)

Maharat

Same with me, but it was after having my first child. Built up da boobs ;)
 
Damn good question, I don't rightly know.

If your a Seinfeld fan then you'll know about shrinkage - different moods, different lengths. So, prior to puberty and first conscious erection, I didn't really know how big or how small I'd be. I hit a growth spurt at sixteen where I grew six inches (no, to my overall height). Once it stopped, that was it for me and my penis.

Did I think I'd have a career in porn? No way. The only measuring stick (so to speak) I had were skin mags and they were no help, they only added to my anxiety over my perceived shortcomings. And contrary to many coming of age movies, not once did I participate in or even hear about guys in my high school getting together and comparing their manhoods.

But, then again, I never joined a fraternity.
 
Thinking back after reading your question, I have to say I have absolutely no recollection :lol:.

I was convinced I was way, way under average until a doctor explained to me the difference between "showers" and "growers" and also suggested delicately that some teen-age boys get a bit aroused in a locker room and tend to look somewhat bigger flaccid than they really are.

As I said in another post somewhere, I stopped worrying about it after my first experience with a multi-orgasmic woman. But I confess to wondering fleetingly on occasion what it would be like to be hung like a horse.
 
3113

It's strange that you mention it, but I've always thought my 9 inches was a tad puny. No one has ever complained about my size. But I somehow got the idea I was small. The I got a girlfriend who examines dicks for a living, and she straightened me out.
 
JAMESBJOHNSON said:
3113

It's strange that you mention it, but I've always thought my 9 inches was a tad puny. No one has ever complained about my size. But I somehow got the idea I was small. The I got a girlfriend who examines dicks for a living, and she straightened me out.

Interesting. From the way you constantly poke and prod and act belligerant, I could have sworn you were compensating for something...

Do you drive a big muscle car?
 
BELEGON

No. I own two compacts.

Tell me something. How come youre a passive-aggressive pussy? I'll bet youre the sort of person who is scared shitless to actually confront someone to their face. Probably make anonymous phonecalls to make complaints about your neighbors.
 
JAMESBJOHNSON said:
BELEGON

No. I own two compacts.

Tell me something. How come youre a passive-aggressive pussy? I'll bet youre the sort of person who is scared shitless to actually confront someone to their face. Probably make anonymous phonecalls to make complaints about your neighbors.

I simply don't need to engage in online pissing contests. Or even kissing contests, although they are more fun. But if you seriously think that I can pass up the chance to have a joke at your expense when you have the hubris to pull the "ol nine incher" line????? Please. You opened a door. Since most have you on iggy already, I got to respond first. Thank you for the opportunity.

As to the rest? I have no need to defend my honor here. My deeds have, and will, speak for themselves.

:kiss:
 
The Old Man says;
"I knew pretty early on how long I was NOT going to be-- back in second grade a classmate had a dick that was at least nine inches long..."
Limp, evidently. He says; "I looked at mine, and thought-- well there's something I don't have to think too much about..."

Now he's telling me about seeing the 1952 Marilyn Monroe nude calendar-- the one she did when she was still Norma Jean-- in someone's dad's garage. :heart:
 
Honestly I never really noticed it growing, it always just seemed small to me. But I didn't really pay that much attention to the size of it, it's not like I was dating anyone while it was growing anyway.

I no longer feel as if it's small, but I don't think I'm huge either. I'm comfortable with my size, and enjoy using it to the best of my ability :D


Oh, and Belegon.. *high five*

Yeah, you earned that one :)
 
tolyk said:
I no longer feel as if it's small, but I don't think I'm huge either. I'm comfortable with my size, and enjoy using it to the best of my ability :D
Well, honestly, much as I fantasize about it ;) I don't imagine that every male on the AH is carrying around a massive billy club--although if you all want to make up for that missed opportunity in the fraternity and start posting pictures to measure and compare, please, be my guest! Heck, you can post 'em here. I don't mind :devil:

:D

Ultimately, what I'm wondering is at what age you kinda looked down and said, "Well, whadda know? I've got a man-sized penis!"

I'm just curious to know if boys have a similar experience to so many girls who do have that moment in puberty (around 13 or 14 usually) when we look down and go, "Whoah. I gots cleavage!"
 
Stella_Omega said:
The Old Man says;
"I knew pretty early on how long I was NOT going to be-- back in second grade a classmate had a dick that was at least nine inches long..."
Limp, evidently.
See, that's kinda what I was wondering. Do boys who haven't hit puberty offer any hint as to their future size? Obviously, girls don't. We all start out flat as a board. But a kid can be tall in elementary school, or have a large foot size, and it often predicts that he's going to be *really* tall when he hits puberty or have an enormous foot size in high school. Does this hold true for the penis? Do guys get any hint at all of what the final result will be?
 
3113 said:
Well, honestly, much as I fantasize about it ;) I don't imagine that every male on the AH is carrying around a massive billy club--although if you all want to make up for that missed opportunity in the fraternity and start posting pictures to measure and compare, please, be my guest! Heck, you can post 'em here. I don't mind :devil:

:D

Ultimately, what I'm wondering is at what age you kinda looked down and said, "Well, whadda know? I've got a man-sized penis!"

I'm just curious to know if boys have a similar experience to so many girls who do have that moment in puberty (around 13 or 14 usually) when we look down and go, "Whoah. I gots cleavage!"
I never thought that.. It took my ex-wife like a year to convince me I wasn't small. She actually gave me quite the ego about it for a while, but I got over that.. Like I said, it's not huge

There've already been pictures posted in the past, used to use them as AVs.. I was run out of the AH at one point due to it :p
 
Well, I started growing up top at a very early age, nineish. :rolleyes: So I looked at my big sister and my mom and figured... yup, I'll be like them. All the women in my family run to DD.



And could people please stop quoting that person? He's the only person I have on ignore and I'd like to be able to ignore him. Thanks.
 
JAMESBJOHNSON said:
3113

It's strange that you mention it, but I've always thought my 9 inches was a tad puny. No one has ever complained about my size. But I somehow got the idea I was small. The I got a girlfriend who examines dicks for a living, and she straightened me out.

Yeah, I know what you mean. Nine inches is a bit puny; mine was bigger than that when I was in the first grade. It was embarrassing not being allowed to wear short pants too. No kid should have to go through that.

Oh, and by the way, I'm the one your girlfriend left you for.

Oh, and sorry about the two compacts; most women like big balls.
 
I hit my length in 8th or 9th grade. I was always into porn, and even measured it to see how I compared (which is why I remember). It was fairly thin, however, and when I did have sex, I could tell that it wasn't something that women considered big. It bothered me a bit, so I compensated by being very knowledgeable about oral sex (and I always had good hands ;) ). It wasn't until after my break from relationships (when my daughter was born), that I put on some weight and I noticed a little difference in the width. It didn't seem much, but now I'm told it's above average, so I guess it did grow at some point.

I know I was far too obsessed with it, but what can I say . . . I'm a dopey guy. :eek:
 
S-Des said:
I hit my length in 8th or 9th grade. I was always into porn, and even measured it to see how I compared (which is why I remember).
Ah-ha! So at least one guy knows when he hit his length ;) And yes, indeed, looks like 13-14 might be the age for guys as well as girls. With the exception of some advanced 9-year-olds (yes, we're talking about you Magica!) :rolleyes:
 
Height, I always knew I would be tall.

I never knew or cared how big my genitalia would be until after they were fully formed, or until after I had sex for that matter. I didn't even notice how big I was until I was 20 and had started masturbating. I was pretty oblivious to a lot of things as a teen :rolleyes:
 
I really don't recall placing any emphasis on size until I began seeing the girl who would later become my wife. I was eighteen, she sixteen, and after a few months of dating, things became more sexual, but she was a virgin and wanted to remain one. And so one night upon sneaking into her room via the window - oh man, the memories! - she coaxed me into putting it in her ass. Then I can recall, that is, once it was clear that the anal thing was ready-steady-go frequently, that I paid more notice to my size, as it contrasted with the size of her ass and anus, feeling and watching myself disappear/reappear from the tiny opening, etc I'm not john Holmes or anything, but there is a very discernable size discrepancy involved. I knew she was rare in many ways and we've been together ever since. Love at first insertion.

Later I found an anal-themed porno paperback in her nightstand drawer - she stole it from one of her brothers. And there it was, the culprit that had inspired her.
 
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