Guys, is this true?

[eroticfiction]

A friend of mine told me that ALL men like it when a woman is sucking a man's cock, she puts a finger in his ass when he is about to cum... Are there men out there who would be offended or disgusted by this practice....Or is it true, that they ALL like it?

And what is an acceptable way of finding out if a guy likes it? Do you just ask? Try it? If he likes it, will he ask me to do it? What is the proper protocall in that situation? Imput please...........

 

[lobito]

Well, my iMput is this...

NOT ALL guys do like it, and of the guys who do, not everyone likes it all the time.

What more can be said on the subject?

Lo

 

[eroticfiction]

Thank you Lo......

 

[bright sun]

imput

ef --

I'm not sure this is something that guys are going to keep stats on...I don't think my boys and I have ever really talked about this other than in a passing story....I like it from time to time, but definitely not every time...and I doubt I can come up with a story for you on this topic....lol

Good luck...

 

[dixiehunk]

Not having discussed this with any of my friends, I really don't know how they feel about this, but personally, I LOVE it. I'm not sure why, except that it feels really good, and is a huge turn on for me. I luv just about anything a woman done to my ass, though, so this might just be a personal thing.

 

[bright sun]

of course....

after a thorough examination of your profile ef, I would have to make an exception to the sometimes concept....especially in reciprocation for my alleyway behavior

 

[eroticfiction]

So Bright Sun, are you saying that you would sometimes, or always want me to put my little finger up your ass while I suck your cock? Or just in the alleyway?

 

[lobito]

A friend of mine told me that ALL men like it when a woman is sucking a man's cock, she puts a finger in his ass when he is about to cum... Are there men out there who would be offended or disgusted by this practice....Or is it true, that they ALL like it?

And what is an acceptable way of finding out if a guy likes it? Do you just ask? Try it? If he likes it, will he ask me to do it? What is the proper protocall in that situation? Imput please...........

Ok let's TRY to answer the last part, since it was added after I responded the first time.

You can ask of course, or you can, as he's in the "pleasure zone", just have your finger lubed, and press it into his bum hole.

If he cums right away, he may not admit it, but it might be something he liked, but is scared to admit. If he likes it A LOT, then chances are he'll want it again, and will say something to you. Then again, you COULD just ask afterwards, and see what his thoughts of it are.

Just because a guy likes it, doesn't mean they are gay, or bi. just means they like it.

Lo

 

[eroticfiction]

Why would someone think that was an indicator for someone being bisexual or homosexual? Interesting...

 

[lobito]

Why would someone think that was an indicator for someone being bisexual or homosexual? Interesting...

Would it really surprise you to hear that?

SOME guys won't admit that they like things stuck inside of them, because if anyone found out, they might be called gay.
Lo

 

[eroticfiction]

I see.

 

[Ohiomale]

ass play instant turn off... either side...

anal does nothing for Me...

 

[ethan-azguy]

eroticfiction: i assume you are asking for your trip to N.O., or do your just want to know for general purpose's, in the future. If you know the guy well enough ask him if he has ever done anything anal while masterbating, or try a little lube on the finger and while you are giving him his oral fix for the day, move your finger back there, if he jumps, then it's probably not a good idea. do some playing and feeling around just like you would want him to do before you move to far, and see the response.. ethan

 

[barebear]

yesss

Yes, erotic, if my lover inserts a finger in my ass, I seem to have better orgasms, that extra stimulation is so HOT .

I am sure the proper protocol is to ask....

bare

 

[Snork Maiden]

My guy gets very clenched buttocks if my finger starts wandering to his butt hole. I love having my butthole touched and probed but at the right time. I wouldn't want anything more than a finger though.

 

[schatz]

Well as you can see from the various replies, not all men may find it a turn-on and some may have homophobia about such an act. Personally, I enjoy having my ass played with and come especially hard with finger insertion. It's like pizza though...I love pizza but don't want it every day. As for finding out if a guy likes it..you could always ask but nervousness may restrain an honest answer. You could always just start lightly playing in the area with a finger and see what you get for a response and take it from there. Just make sure your finger is adequately lubed before any inserting. If you decide to just go ahead and try it...you'll probably have more luck if he is freshly showered.

 

[Kandi]

eroticfiction

in my experience
not all men like it
but many learn to

i wouldn't bother asking
cause often they have no idea
or some preconceived negative notion about it
and, yes, sadly many have homophobic associations

and i wouldn't just stick my finger up there
at the climactic moment
it could be the wrong time to bring it up

but if you subtly work in some ass play while you're
having sex, you'll get a pretty clear indication
if he already likes it or not
some clenching will happen involuntarily
so don't be disuaded by that
and don't fail to try it again
if at first you don't succeed
because for some, it is an acquired taste

hope that helps

 

[seldomseen]

it is usually better if its only the tip, and its near the time of orgasm, but it usually makes orgasm more intense

 

[okbyme]

It's a wonderful feeling, but not every time we have sex. I only feel comfortable doing that right after a shower, though. She has also used a very slim vibrator in that area, and that was extremely intense. Didn't think I was ever going to quit cumming.

 

[beachman1000]

i'm sure that you have lots of men telling you their version but a rule of thumb should be used. if you are liberated to the point of liking it when a guy sticks his finger or tounge deep in your ass then you be asured that he will like it when you do the same. some initial slow feeling around will tell you if he likes it and then follow through. do what feels good to you, he will like it.
bm

 

[fantac64]

I can only tell you of my own experience. I discovered what it did for me when she just touched me there with a moist fingertip. I damned near begged for it, it felt so good but the best is if she times it so I'm just about ready to come. She discovered that she likes it at the same magic moment. Haven't tried it? You don't know what your missing. Want to try it? just touch him there and you'll know. A finger tip inside and curled a little and OMG I'm gone.

 

[ntp]

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[LUV2WATCH2]

clip

I admit I have enjoyed the experience mentioned above...however it is imperative the nails are clipped....!!!

 

[zantac666]

I'm not sure if a girl does it softly i might.

The only time i get a finger is when my doctor checks me out or when i get a flex scope shoved in when checking my colon for cancer.

 

[Guest]

I agree with snork maiden.....I love to insert my finger in my wife's ass while performing oral sex. It's especially hot when she is coming her muscles pulsate on my finger.