Guys, is bottoming a regular thing for you, or a special event?

[Hitchiker69]

Do you like to receive as often as you can? If in a gay relationship, is it a regular thing, or is it only on special occasions?
I know some guys only do it reluctantly, if they want to keep a certain lover.
For me, once I discovered the pleasure of being fucked, I want it every time I'm with a man. But my ass can't handle more than once a week or so.
I've never been in a gay relationship, so any time 'm in bed with a man is special.

 

[klippert]

I can count on both hands how many times i had a cock up my ass...when I was in the lifestyle...
decades later...after my first marriage sunk...I was involved with married guy. it was all the connection that gave me the wanting to have his cock us my ass...he was much more the bottom...but....I enjoyed him pumping my hole...
eventually his wife joined us...and she enjoyed the action too

that said...I wasn't much for being the bottom

 

[Escierto]

My trans girlfriend is pure top and I am pure bottom, an arrangement that is satisfying for both of us. When I am with her, she usually fucks my ass twice a day. Sometimes I suck her off and once in a while she blows her load on my face. There is nothing like being fucked however and it always makes me feel so close to her and in love. I wish her cock was in my ass 24x7 lol.

 

[BiMale4KinkyFun]

I am always a bottom and love being a bottom. My last relationship my man would fuck me senseless when and where ever he wanted to. The relationship ended because his job transferred him across the country. I miss a having a guy in my life that would fuck me senseless multiple times a week.

 

[8incock]

Being filled with cock is absolute heaven for me. I love getting fucked by married guys any chance I get. It sucks when they cum to quick and it can be hard to find a good top who can last.

 

[klippert]

Being filled with cock is absolute heaven for me. I love getting fucked by married guys any chance I get. It sucks when they cum to quick and it can be hard to find a good top who can last.

I always had a thing for Hung Bottoms...for a good long pounding

 

[Samsacks]

I am a bottom who loves having cock in his ass as often as he can.

That said, I did have one guy do me so rough, I had to wait a few days, but it was fun.

 

[Escierto]

The other thing that is special about being fucked is having her cum in my ass. I don’t know if I absorb it through the lining of my rectum but her cum never seems to come out. She has a large cock and she really cums in me deep. Afterwards I feel wonderful lying there next to her knowing her cum is deep inside. I really can’t get enough of it. Swallowing her cum is fun but it’s just not the same for me.

 

[Escierto]

Being filled like that must feel so rewarding

Yes! It’s like nothing else. The strange thing about being bottom is it really made me understand how women must feel. The craving to be fucked and have your lover’s cum inside you. It’s not the same as being top and getting your rocks off. It’s only now that I understand this. For the bottom it’s really a spiritual experience. Of course it feels good too lol

 

[nwijoey]

I went bottom 13 years ago, got divorced, I am bi and have 2 to 3 regulars that fuck me weekly. So, I am getting fucked 4 to 6 times a week...not nearly enough

 

[OlderBtm4U]

“Is bottoming a regular thing for you, or a special event?”

Unfortunately, the latter.

 

[Traveler99921]

I have been having sex with men for about 20 years, but I have bottomed only 3 times. Surrendering to a man in that way had a strong psychological effect, much more so than oral sex with men. All three times I felt emasculated, and it took me some time to recover. Strangely I liked the effect. My wife seemed to like it also.

 

[BBCfan]

Do you like to receive as often as you can? If in a gay relationship, is it a regular thing, or is it only on special occasions?
I know some guys only do it reluctantly, if they want to keep a certain lover.
For me, once I discovered the pleasure of being fucked, I want it every time I'm with a man. But my ass can't handle more than once a week or so.
I've never been in a gay relationship, so any time 'm in bed with a man is special.

For me it would fall under special event because if it happened it would be taking my "cherry" or whatever.
Some nice explanations as to the pleasure from doing it, but I can't see myself ever doing it even in fantasy role play with a toy.

I met a cool guy with an amazing BBC that really wanted to take my ass for 1st time, so I tried a toy a couple times to see if I could maybe push my boundaries but found it uncomfortable in every way.

I enjoy oral submissiveness somewhat but that seems as far as it goes.

Some of you guys certainly make it sound alluring for sure, but if I was to fuck with a guy, likely it would only be as a top. Never say never though!!

 

[Hitchiker69]

I never thought I would bottom either, but when the time was right it was so very good! I've craved it ever since. I love the feeling of being filled, being taken, and satisfying a man as only a piece of ass can.

 

[Bunganut]

First and only time

I bottomed once. Hooked up with 2 guys. First was all out sex. Gave each other oral, but when he put his cock in my ass it was amazing. Best sex ever. The second guy was just oral. No kissing. Just oral. Been craving anal ever since.

 

[Samsacks]

I never thought I would bottom either, but when the time was right it was so very good! I've craved it ever since. I love the feeling of being filled, being taken, and satisfying a man as only a piece of ass can.

Sometimes my ass just quivers with desire for cock.

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

Have never done it

I have no experience with men. None. Nothing. Nada. Zilch. I refused to even consider any type of sex with a man, but over time, I slowly opened my mind to accept the possibility of oral, but never anal because that would be the "sign"....the sign that I was gay. Over time, I have accepted the fact I want to experience everything with a man, including anal.

I was chatting with a local gentleman last night, and he was a total top looking for a total bottom. The idea of playing that role no longer scares me, and we are discussing on how we might make that happen. I would surrender my ass to him as he desired, but would also try to make it a special event for him each time.

 

[jjlc74]

I’m a total bottom, always have been and really enjoy the sensations of being fucked. I get more pleasure and certainly better orgasms from having a cock inside me. At the moment I have two regular partners and a third who is an occasional lover. I find myself yearning for the feeling if I don’t get fucked daily, like an addict looking for his next hit. Part of the thrill is being submissive and surrendering to dominant men, feeling emasculated and also wanting to please my man with my body. I do know guys who can only bottom once or twice and then need to rest for a few days, I’ve never been that way but do understand that anal isn’t for everyone, I have a very dear friend who enjoys being fucked by his husband and they enjoy long sessions of making love but he then has to let his ass recuperate (in his words) for a couple of days before he feels like letting his husband fuck him again. It’s a very individual thing

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

Me too

I’m a total bottom, always have been and really enjoy the sensations of being fucked. I get more pleasure and certainly better orgasms from having a cock inside me. At the moment I have two regular partners and a third who is an occasional lover. I find myself yearning for the feeling if I don’t get fucked daily, like an addict looking for his next hit. Part of the thrill is being submissive and surrendering to dominant men, feeling emasculated and also wanting to please my man with my body. I do know guys who can only bottom once or twice and then need to rest for a few days, I’ve never been that way but do understand that anal isn’t for everyone, I have a very dear friend who enjoys being fucked by his husband and they enjoy long sessions of making love but he then has to let his ass recuperate (in his words) for a couple of days before he feels like letting his husband fuck him again. It’s a very individual thing

Because I have no experience with men, I can only express my expectations and desires. I don't think I would use the term "emasculated" necessarily, but the idea of willingly surrendering my ass to a dominant male is attractive to me. We all have a feminine side, which has nothing to do with orientation or with being effeminate, and the idea of being able to freely express those feminine characteristics with a partner I can trust is something I want to experience.

I have come to believe that it isn't fair for only females to experience a man's masculinity. If a looking at a nude man, and his penis, is so arousing to a woman, why shouldn't I be able to enjoy it as well? If engaging in sex with a man is so pleasurable to a woman, why can't I experience the same pleasure? On a non sexual note, why can a woman desire to feel safe and protected by a man, but as a man, I can't be vulnerable, and desire the same safety and protection? I mean, I enjoy holding a woman, and being held by a woman, feeling her soft breasts against me. But, there are times when I want to be held by a strong, hairy chested man as well.

Just my thoughts......

 

[Wanking_Frank]

Don’t worry about the labels, just enjoy the sex. Try it out and see what you like.

These urges just need to be satisfied and the longer you wait, it’s just unnecessary suffering. Let it happen and enjoy it.

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

Don’t worry about the labels, just enjoy the sex. Try it out and see what you like.

These urges just need to be satisfied and the longer you wait, it’s just unnecessary suffering. Let it happen and enjoy it.

We're currently chatting to see where it takes us. He is so hot!

 

[bi_cpl_with_crossdresser]

I have no experience with men. None. Nothing. Nada. Zilch. I refused to even consider any type of sex with a man, but over time, I slowly opened my mind to accept the possibility of oral, but never anal because that would be the "sign"....the sign that I was gay. Over time, I have accepted the fact I want to experience everything with a man, including anal.

I was chatting with a local gentleman last night, and he was a total top looking for a total bottom. The idea of playing that role no longer scares me, and we are discussing on how we might make that happen. I would surrender my ass to him as he desired, but would also try to make it a special event for him each time.

This is exactly how I feel.

 

[Jerseyshore]

I have preferred bottom since I was in my 20s when I realized how much I enjoyed submission and being seduced. Over time I lost the thought that I was "less of a man" because I preferred bottoming.
My first real gay experience was of bottoming and I never forgot how, as we went on, how wonderful it felt to give myself to that man. Even many years later it still turns me oin.

 

[towigl]

As a older married guy, it is a rarity but when I do get the opportunity I am a total sub when Im with a man. To let him take me that way, I love the feeling that he completely dominated me and I belong to him in that moment. To me there is no better feeling.

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

No experience, but.....

I have never had sex with another man, much less been topped, but the thought of giving myself over to a man, surrendering to him, pleasuring him, is so exciting. I feel more comfortable, and sexier, when I think of myself as a submissive bottom, and I look forward to the day when I can fully release that part of my sexuality.