Guys, ever wish you could just turn off the Sex thing for a minute?

[Oasis690]

I noticed the other day that I was scoping out a friend of mine while she talked. I have known her for quite a while and had always put her in the 'only if desperate catagory' (guys, you know what I mean). The thing is, I wasn't desperate, I was just being a guy. Sometimes I wish I could just turn that off for a few minutes, it can get tedious, especially if your subconcious is aware of what is going on.

What do you think?

 

[hogjack]

Not sure if it's ever turned off...

...definitely can be surpressed though.

 

[BlackSnake]

It can be embarrassing if you're caught studying a woman's cleavage instead of paying attention to what's going on in a meeting.

 

[Rubyfruit]

I have known her for quite a while and had always put her in the 'only if desperate catagory' (guys, you know what I mean).

If only your friend knew how high you held her.

 

[Oasis690]

Yeah, sometimes you just don't need/want it on. However, I admit my eyes zoom to a woman's rear and boobs everytime, and I never considered myself a pig. I am just starting to accept and be honest that guys are inherently horned out all the time, no matter how sexually satisfied we are. That doesn't mean we all fool around, but we all look.

 

[Oasis690]

Re: Re: Guys, ever wish you could just turn off the Sex thing for a minute?

If only your friend knew how high you held her.

yes, that sounds horrible, doesn't it? just being honest though. she's nice, but not that attractive physically.

 

[gallahad]

Re: Re: Re: Guys, ever wish you could just turn off the Sex thing for a minute?

you may not be able to turn it off completely...but you can surpress it ..especially if what she needs is something else and you care enough to give it

 

[Starfish]

What men need to turn off is the idea that sex is about LOOKS!


Fuckers.

Sex is about feeling good. Not looking good. That is all a facade that some men have created, and nieve women buy into, because they have disconected themselves from the truest and most amazing erogenous zone.... the mind.



Ruby said something to the effect of...

I find that good sex has very little to do with what your body is like.


I will never forget that, because it is true.

There are so many good looking people in the world, with zilch to offer because they are a shell of a person.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Re: Re: Re: Guys, ever wish you could just turn off the Sex thing for a minute?

yes, that sounds horrible, doesn't it? just being honest though. she's nice, but not that attractive physically.

Yes, it does sound horrible. It is. What about her makes you want to fuck her? Why isn't this thread about that something?

 

[Oasis690]

What men need to turn off is the idea that sex is about LOOKS!


Fuckers.

Sex is about feeling good. Not looking good. That is all a facade that some men have created, and nieve women buy into, because they have disconected themselves from the truest and most amazing erogenous zone.... the mind.



Ruby said something to the effect of...

I find that good sex has very little to do with what your body is like.


I will never forget that, because it is true.

There are so many good looking people in the world, with zilch to offer because they are a shell of a person.

I agree completely...that is why I posted this thread, the best sex I ever had was with a girlfriend I was madly in love with, and I had been with some very pretty women. That girlfriend would be consideread average in looks and body, but I loved her and that was all that mattered. Sex is way better when your mind is stimulated. But as far as checking women out, sometimes I would rather just be a person then some machine.

 

[Starfish]

I get it. It is like you are complaining because you are feeling like a slave to your hormones.


That is normal. But you should 'classify' people. That is an intellectual decision. You arn't doing that on impluse, and it is sort of unfair to her.

Just my opinion.

 

[Oasis690]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys, ever wish you could just turn off the Sex thing for a minute?

Yes, it does sound horrible. It is. What about her makes you want to fuck her? Why isn't this thread about that something?

This thread is about guys always having their sex drive turned on, not what makes me want to screw someone. There have been nine million threads like that on Lit, but I will answer your question...

My friend is nice but quite large, really, really large, but her eyes are extremely sexy and the other day my mind wandered and I felt bad because I was doing it while I was looking at her as she talked to me. I felt like I had done something wrong because she is my friend.

 

[Oasis690]

I get it. It is like you are complaining because you are feeling like a slave to your hormones.


That is normal. But you should 'classify' people. That is an intellectual decision. You arn't doing that on impluse, and it is sort of unfair to her.

Just my opinion.

Come on, women classify every guy they meet as well. The ones they would and wouldn't do. It just seems, and I am probably completely wrong, but it seems women's sex drives are not on constantly like men's are.

 

[CoolidgEffect]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys, ever wish you could just turn off the Sex thing for a minute?

This thread is about guys always having their sex drive turned on, not what makes me want to screw someone. There have been nine million threads like that on Lit, but I will answer your question...

My friend is nice but quite large, really, really large, but her eyes are extremely sexy and the other day my mind wandered and I felt bad because I was doing it while I was looking at her as she talked to me. I felt like I had done something wrong because she is my friend.

But it sounds like you are digging your self into a deep hole here.

Is she just your friend because you find her quite large and classify her as "only if desperate?"

 

[Rubyfruit]

She could be the best fuck of your life.

 

[TumbledLove]

yep, if I had a switch, I'd definitely leave it off most of the time. Sexual thoughts are too damned distracting. Is there a pill that's the complete opposite of Viagra? cuz I need some.

 

[Oasis690]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Guys, ever wish you could just turn off the Sex thing for a minute?

But it sounds like you are digging your self into a deep hole here.

Is she just your friend because you find her quite large and classify her as "only if desperate?"

no, she is my friend because she is sweet, nice, and intelligent. I have never been physically attracted to her, that's all.

However, I have to get to bed, so, good night and thanks for all the feedback.

 

[Rambling Rose]

Ruby, bring your quite large self over here and let me objectify you for awhile. There's something in your eyes that's speaking to me.

 

[Starfish]

Come on, women classify every guy they meet as well. The ones they would and wouldn't do. It just seems, and I am probably completely wrong, but it seems women's sex drives are not on constantly like men's are.

There is a big fucking difference between a person thinking that yes or no they would or wouldn't...


It is the ONLY IF DESPERATE part that is 'classifying, and if you ask me it is fucking unfair and BULLSHIT.

Honesty isn't the problem here.

You are being honest, but that doesn't make you less uncool for summing her up that way.

 

[Rambling Rose]

Maybe, just maybe the feeling is mutual. Perhaps she is looking right back at you and thinking "Eh...I'd do you but only if you were like the last guy on earth and I had an itch in my pussy like fireants at a picnic."

Does that idea put it into perspective for you? I don't think men are the only ones having to sit on their sexual urges.

 

[teddybear4play]

Maybe, just maybe the feeling is mutual. Perhaps she is looking right back at you and thinking "Eh...I'd do you but only if you were like the last guy on earth and I had an itch in my pussy like fireants at a picnic."

Holy Christ on rollerblades, that was fucking hilarious.

TB4p

 

[MechaBlade]

There is a big fucking difference between a person thinking that yes or no they would or wouldn't...


It is the ONLY IF DESPERATE part that is 'classifying, and if you ask me it is fucking unfair and BULLSHIT.

Honesty isn't the problem here.

You are being honest, but that doesn't make you less uncool for summing her up that way.

I don't understand why you girls are jumping on him for thinking what every man (and I thought women, too) thinks. The "Only if desperate" category is better than "I wouldn't touch her with PC's dick" category (sorry PC). I know I sure would rather be in some woman's "desperate" category, than the "Never" category.

Calm down. He's not insulting her. He didn't tell her she's in that category. She just is.

Yeah, I wish I could turn it off sometimes.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Maybe, just maybe the feeling is mutual. Perhaps she is looking right back at you and thinking "Eh...I'd do you but only if you were like the last guy on earth and I had an itch in my pussy like fireants at a picnic."

I think I love you.

Want to get married?

 

[Rambling Rose]

I like to test the merchandise. Let's fuck first and see what box we each belong in, okay? I wouldn't want to hitch my star to the "only if I was desperate enough to poke you drunk out of my gourd" pick if I could have the "I'd fuck you with a bag on my own head iffen you'd have me" choice.

Get naked and meet me on the glider. We'll talk of strings and sealing wax and other fancy stuff.

 

[Rubyfruit]

I don't understand why you girls are jumping on him for thinking what every man (and I thought women, too) thinks.

No, we don't all think like that.