Guys, does it turn you on to know I am horny?

Inna

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So guys, does it turn you on to know that the one you are with is horny? Am unsure if I should be sharing this with a guy before I know him well. Not that I would bring it until the physical part of the relationship starts to develop. Am horny most of the time and wondered if sharing this a big turn off or not? Have also wondered if I do share this does he automatically think I want his cock?
Sometimes I just want him to know that it is hard for me too, not that I want him to stick me the first chance he has.
 
Heck ya!

Ofcourse its a turn on, just tells him you are really like him, but at the sametime its a double edged sword might make him more aggressive and he might want to stick you the first chance he gets. I guess its judgement call, if your guy a gentleman or a bottled up horny beast *LOL*
 
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here are my answers as a guy, if you tell a guy that you are horny it is like blood in the water to a shark, he will ignore every word that you say for the rest of the evening and expect to fuck your brains out, so yes it is a turn on, but i dont think that it is a turn on in the same way that you are asking, its basically like pushing a magical turbo libido button, but be cautious when you are using that turbo button

Inna said:
So guys, does it turn you on to know that the one you are with is horny? Am unsure if I should be sharing this with a guy before I know him well. Not that I would bring it until the physical part of the relationship starts to develop. Am horny most of the time and wondered if sharing this a big turn off or not? Have also wondered if I do share this does he automatically think I want his cock?
Sometimes I just want him to know that it is hard for me too, not that I want him to stick me the first chance he has.
 
Ahh

nyrjmk said:
here are my answers as a guy, if you tell a guy that you are horny it is like blood in the water to a shark, he will ignore every word that you say for the rest of the evening and expect to fuck your brains out, so yes it is a turn on, but i dont think that it is a turn on in the same way that you are asking, its basically like pushing a magical turbo libido button, but be cautious when you are using that turbo button

Thanks, love knowing that it is more of a turn on than a turn off. So I should wait until I am ready to have him go for it?
 
i'd agree. tell a guy your horny and he will see it as the same way a guy is horny and think you can't wait to be under (or ontop of) him.

my gf kept it quiet and was always sweet and girly. i was actualy worried that she would break up with me when she found out how horny i am and that i just can't get enough. you know what they say about the quiet ones ;-). she can't get enough of me and i'm talking her into naughtier and naughtier things all the time and she loves it.
 
Am I turned on knowing that the woman I'm with is horny? Hell yes. However, waiting 'till YOU are ready would be the better bet. I would agree that telling a guy you are horny is tantamount to telling him "come get me now".
 
Inna said:
So guys, does it turn you on to know that the one you are with is horny? Am unsure if I should be sharing this with a guy before I know him well. Not that I would bring it until the physical part of the relationship starts to develop. Am horny most of the time and wondered if sharing this a big turn off or not? Have also wondered if I do share this does he automatically think I want his cock?
Sometimes I just want him to know that it is hard for me too, not that I want him to stick me the first chance he has.
I think sharing your horniness with a guy you are with IS a BIG turn on, but I think you can keep it simmering if you tell him what you intend to do about it and when. At least for me, the knowing that you are horny and want to be with me and possibly want me to help relieve your horniness is very exciting. If you whisper it to me and say...let's have dinner first or let's go to a movie...and then maybe we can take care of things later...that would keep me simmering and start such a buildup. I think you have to be careful, though, because if you say it when you're with a guy he will automatically think that he is the solution to your horniness. And he may be, but also may not be the entire answer! If you're doing it online or on the phone, then it's assumed you want to be with that person and explode away the horniness with them. Does that help any Inna?
 
Doctor Joe said:
I think sharing your horniness with a guy you are with IS a BIG turn on, but I think you can keep it simmering if you tell him what you intend to do about it and when. At least for me, the knowing that you are horny and want to be with me and possibly want me to help relieve your horniness is very exciting. If you whisper it to me and say...let's have dinner first or let's go to a movie...and then maybe we can take care of things later...that would keep me simmering and start such a buildup. I think you have to be careful, though, because if you say it when you're with a guy he will automatically think that he is the solution to your horniness. And he may be, but also may not be the entire answer! If you're doing it online or on the phone, then it's assumed you want to be with that person and explode away the horniness with them. Does that help any Inna?

It sure does. I guess they call you Doc for a reason, ;)
 
Knowing you are into me makes it so much more worthwhile when I finally do get you
 
i'm oldfashened

I love that my gf is a horny fuck machine (i call her that)

but i remember there being something fantastic about the dating. us not knowing how horny we each were and getting to know eachother first etc. there is a lot to be said for that.
 
UKrock said:
I love that my gf is a horny fuck machine (i call her that)

but i remember there being something fantastic about the dating. us not knowing how horny we each were and getting to know eachother first etc. there is a lot to be said for that.

wish someone wud think like that about me

normally they just wanna have sex for 1 night and then never talk again
 
I gotta agree.
There's something so tantalyzing about being with a woman on a date;
and wondering . . . is she thinking along the same thoughts I am??? :rose:
 
MrBates said:
I gotta agree.
There's something so tantalyzing about being with a woman on a date;
and wondering . . . is she thinking along the same thoughts I am??? :rose:
So it is better to let him know with my body than telling him with words?
Hmmmm
 
Inna said:
So it is better to let him know with my body than telling him with words?
Hmmmm
I think it builds up the suspense more.....and keeps him wondering.....until you decide to say something .....
 
communication

The older you get, the more you realize what the term "communication" means.
If a person is beginning a new relationship with another person, in my opinion it
is important to be open to them. Playing little games like "I wonder what they are thinking" etc., etc., does not further a relationship. Sooner or later the subject of sex will come up and you can tell them about your needs. I get irritated when people try to read my mind or expect me to read theirs. It is a no win situation. Better to put it out on the table and see what happens. And when you do, most of the time you will be surprised, pleasantly surprised. ;)
 
LibraStud said:
The older you get, the more you realize what the term "communication" means.
If a person is beginning a new relationship with another person, in my opinion it
is important to be open to them. Playing little games like "I wonder what they are thinking" etc., etc., does not further a relationship. Sooner or later the subject of sex will come up and you can tell them about your needs. I get irritated when people try to read my mind or expect me to read theirs. It is a no win situation. Better to put it out on the table and see what happens. And when you do, most of the time you will be surprised, pleasantly surprised. ;)

some of us don't know what we want :eek:
 
ickle_stace said:
some of us don't know what we want :eek:


A lot of us do not know what we want ;)

That is why it is good to let our new found partner know that I/you do not know what we want, then discuss any alternatives. :)
 
LibraStud said:
A lot of us do not know what we want ;)

That is why it is good to let our new found partner know that I/you do not know what we want, then discuss any alternatives. :)

oh, well thats ok, i can do that!
 
body language

certainly we are all familiar with the cliche that actions speak louder than words, speaking for at least myself i prefer for a woman to show me something with her body language that she is horny than for her to just say it outright, i like to earn my way into bed with a woman rather than for her to just tell me that she is ripe and horny

Inna said:
So it is better to let him know with my body than telling him with words?
Hmmmm
 
kevin2657 said:
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