Guys, be honest and tell me something

[eroticfiction]

Do any of you, unbeknownst to your partner, jerk off shortly before you know you are going to have sex (because you don't want to cum too quickly in front of her)? Have you ever done this? A guy I dated years ago confessed to this..... I am just wondering...

 

[Gamelover221]

Ever seen "Something about Marry"? There's a scene where the guy gets off just before his date I tried that once, but it didn't seem to make much difference to me.

 

[eroticfiction]

Thanks for your imput....

 

[tavoe]

yes i have, however it only served to lessen the sensitivity when it came to sex with my lady later in the nite. Yes, it prolonged the act, but oh what a price. Better to show that you are multi-orgasmic---women seem to like that much better. Baby, you make me so hot I came again already!!!

dirk

 

[oztongue]

erotic
I used to do it b4 dates and going out to clubs in case i picked a wpman for the same reasons u mentioned

refer something about Mary just b4 the hair gell scene

Do any of you, unbeknownst to your partner, jerk off shortly before you know you are going to have sex (because you don't want to cum too quickly in front of her)? Have you ever done this? A guy I dated years ago confessed to this..... I am just wondering...

 

[eroticfiction]

Interesting..........

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

Yes

Been there Done that. When I was dating my wife. She was in college and the Drive was an hour long. I would get up there take a shower, get off in the shower. So that I would not have a "hair Trigger" since it had usually been 2 weeks since our last encounter.

Always
Holden

 

[Gray Beard]

yes

I have do that, it prolonged the first orgasm. But I dicovered why do that, if I we are in for the night, just give it some time, and before long I was ready for round two, or three. Better to have orgasm with someone than alone, she knew that second round would last longer also.

 

[Absoluthoyt]

if its going to be our first time then yea i might jerk off to make a good impression by lasting a long time to start if not then no

 

[llee69]

Yep, sure have.

Sometimes I got laid when I didnt mean to.. Yea it helps to keep it going for a longer time.

An ex used to get off on getting me off for the first time before we went out. Then she got hers later. The first time she surprised me with it. I was horny as hell the rest of the night, knowing that we were going to do it...

Scuse me while I whip this out...

 

[Notme2]

Never did it or had to but it sounds like an interesting idea. I do masturbate alot so I think i have pretty good self control and can cum as fast or slow as I want.

 

[Cloak38]

Nope...never had a problem with cumming too fast.

 

[badmatt]

erotic

It can work....I remember doing it a lot when I was younger to make sure the performance anxiety didn't get the better of me...

but lately I've found that the only sure fire (pun intended) way to make sure I don't cum too early is a good blowjob...

 

[bigleonardo]

Do any of you, unbeknownst to your partner, jerk off shortly before you know you are going to have sex (because you don't want to cum too quickly in front of her)? Have you ever done this? A guy I dated years ago confessed to this..... I am just wondering...

Actually quite the opposite....I have good control.....and I want to have a full load of hot thick cum for my lover
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[Road]

I flog the dolphin before sex

I do not know about other men but it helps me a lot. I try and masturbate in the morning or very late at night so when it comes to having sex I do last a lot longer.

 

[Notme2]

I try to masturbate early morning and late night, too but not to last longer during sex. It is a great way to start the day and a natural sleep inducer. And damn fun!!!

 

[RawHumor]

I'd have to say no... my first orgasm is usually the most intense, so I'd hate to waste that one on my hand - it wouldn't be fair to her.

 

[Rambrat]

jerk off?

Someone once said that they jerked off first thing in the morning, before they faced the day, because it gave them an edge when it came to dealing with women... they weren't all bunched up and out of (mind) control.

I've never jerked off before a date or sex...wasn't necessary, I had control. I've always been able to hold back until my lover was satisfied.

Perhaps the men in your life couldn't contain themselves when faced with your beauty.

 

[Talesin]

EroticFiction,

In answer to your question, I haven't done it before having sex. I hope that you weren't upset by your lover telling you this because I don't think it's a bad thing. It's a good thing.

Look at it this way, he may have wanted to make sure he lasted long enough for you to have pleasure as well. How would you have felt if he said he masturbated after?

I have had to do that with an ex-girlfriend becuase she was willing but did not have the skills to really bring me off. That probably makes me sound like an ass and I don't mean to be. It's just that after being with a woman where your ogasim was lacking and you are still hotter then a half-fucked fox in a forest fire, something needed to be done.

T

 

[silencer]

Have never done that,I would rather go (cum actually) the second time with my lover,if we have the whole night together.
I prefer to take care of my lovers needs first, more consentrateing on makeing her cum 2 or 3 times before i do.
I found It does make for a hotter and longer love makeing session...

 

[eroticfiction]

Well, I think it's cute that some guys jerk off beforehand to make a good impression. I know one lover who, if he doesn't jerk off before going to bed with me, he cums immediately upon entering me. This happened a couple of times and each time he looked embarassed and said, "Too much foreplay." or "Damn you are sexy." or "You lost me with that number..whew!" I never minded because when he has jerked off, he gives me multiple orgasms and can fuck me for HOURS....

 

[barebear]

Do any of you, unbeknownst to your partner, jerk off shortly before you know you are going to have sex (because you don't want to cum too quickly in front of her)? Have you ever done this? A guy I dated years ago confessed to this..... I am just wondering...

nope, never done that, never had any interest in doin that, never saw any need to do that.... I like the feeling of my cock getting hard, caused by my lover... never had a prob. with cumming too soon...

bare...

 

[eroticfiction]

I think it's possible that the men who haven't had trouble with cuming too soon haven't been fucked right..... Poor babies...

 

[badmatt]

I think it's possible that the men who haven't had trouble with cuming too soon haven't been fucked right..... Poor babies...

erotic....either that or they're not quite being honest about their performances. never met a guy who hasn't had a problem once.

 

[Ebonyfire]

You learn something new everyday...

I never knew. I can think of sometimes in the not so distant past when I wished my partner had beat off, if that would have made the difference.

I think that is why I like to go down my my guy right off the bat. I have found that I am still very tight, even though I did have a big baby. I also have a lot of muscle control, so when I do my thing not to many of my partners can last very long without a whole lot of control.

Ebony