Guy Curious but Uneasy about bj

[snowday43]

I'm otherwise a straight guy in my 30s but have developed a strong fascination about the thought of sucking another guy's cock and having him cum in my mouth and/or my face. The feelings are quite strong and have started to lead me to seek out possible opporturites for doing his. But, on the the other hand, I'm incredibly nervous about this and have chickened out the couple of times I've got close to doing this. I'm worried about how I'll feel about myself afterward if I go through with it. Will the sense of awkwardness and perhaps even guilt outweight the short-lived buzz that I may get from the expierence? I also find myself worrying about what the other guy would think about me as I would be sucking him. Would he think I'm odd for wanting to do this? I tell myself that he wouldn't be there if he weren't into it. But, I still can't help worrying about this.

Does anybody else have mixed emotions like this? Have anybody got past them?

 

[bimori]

I'm otherwise a straight guy in my 30s but have developed a strong fascination about the thought of sucking another guy's cock and having him cum in my mouth and/or my face. The feelings are quite strong and have started to lead me to seek out possible opporturites for doing his. But, on the the other hand, I'm incredibly nervous about this and have chickened out the couple of times I've got close to doing this. I'm worried about how I'll feel about myself afterward if I go through with it. Will the sense of awkwardness and perhaps even guilt outweight the short-lived buzz that I may get from the expierence? I also find myself worrying about what the other guy would think about me as I would be sucking him. Would he think I'm odd for wanting to do this? I tell myself that he wouldn't be there if he weren't into it. But, I still can't help worrying about this.

Does anybody else have mixed emotions like this? Have anybody got past them?

The other guy will love it . This is something that you want to do . I say go for it . I just love the feel of a cock in my mouth right before it explodes . His cock will get very hard him balls very tight . His cock will get longer . If you want to delay him squeeze his balls a stop sucking him . Sometime I will do this 3 or 4 time just to make him wait . Then when you let him cum it will be a very large amount . You can also eat your own cum to be sure that you like the taste . Be sure to get him off before you . When your horney your more likely to go thru with it . So just relaxe and enjoy . Swallow a big load for me . Yummmmmmmmm .

 

[Snowman5933]

I know exactly how you feel. My SO and I have been having a MFM relationship for sometime now. We're all three straight (although I deffinately the most curious). I like to watch him with my SO and sometimes I'll join in and help pleasure her...sometimes we take turns. One thing I love to watch is her going down on him. He's really big (length and girth) and it really turns me on. I have started having fantasies and dreams about him. I'm not attracted to him (I'm not attracted to men) yet I fantasize about giving him a blowjob when we're together. I've talked about it with my SO and it doesn't bother her (it's cool having someone you can share anything with). I think our friend would be really uncomfortable with the idea and I understand. We're not into swinging so finding an alternate partner for this fantasy is out of the question and I wouldn't betray our friends trust by tricking him into a compromising position. Some things are better left as fantasies in my opinion. Good luck!

Snowman

P.S. I found this in the blank manual.

 

[briar_rose]

Well one of my close friends and my bf's best mate has recently realised that he may harbour bisexual feelings. And when the three of us get drunk we're quiite ....cuddly i've fantasised about having a MFM with these two boys and now he's worked out he'd like to make out a bit with my Bf, we're just trying to work out how to jump him. Unfortunately my bf seems very reluctant to encourage his mates flirting.

Which i think is sad....my daydreams had such potential.

But yeah, don't hold back, life isn't forever. Give it a go if you get the chance, spontineity makes the world go round

 

[Mastersall]

Just do it. Trust me 20 years from now you will regret you didnt.
Live life and see what happens. It may be the hottest thing you
ever did.
or not... but you will know. I alwys say be man enough to suck a dick : )

 

[none2_none2]

As to his feelings, you need to watch his facial expressions to see if he is enjoying it. Also ask him. Be careful with your teeth. Lots of cock suckers aren't aware of just how sharp their teeth are and how acidic their saliva. They are also so crazy about the cock, that they aren't even aware that they are scraping the guy's cock.

For some guys a little scrap may be an erotic pain. For others, it can diminish the enjoyment.

 

[Gavionn]

I'm otherwise a straight guy in my 30s but have developed a strong fascination about the thought of sucking another guy's cock and having him cum in my mouth and/or my face. The feelings are quite strong and have started to lead me to seek out possible opporturites for doing his. But, on the the other hand, I'm incredibly nervous about this and have chickened out the couple of times I've got close to doing this. I'm worried about how I'll feel about myself afterward if I go through with it. Will the sense of awkwardness and perhaps even guilt outweight the short-lived buzz that I may get from the expierence? I also find myself worrying about what the other guy would think about me as I would be sucking him. Would he think I'm odd for wanting to do this? I tell myself that he wouldn't be there if he weren't into it. But, I still can't help worrying about this.

Does anybody else have mixed emotions like this? Have anybody got past them?

Sorry for adding the quote, but I wanted to be able to see your post as I replied, and this seemed to be the only way.

I'm in a similar situation.... I'm dying to try it. Even have a friend picked out who seems the most likely candidate. I think he's ready to give it a go, but neither of us seems ready to actually say it out loud. We just keep saying things to each other that could be taken more than one way.

Rest assured though.... if he doesn't go soft when you put him in your mouth, he's just as into it as you are.

Damn. Almost makes me wish you and I could get together just to finally make it happen!

Would you cum in my mouth, or on my face?

 

[rjp44]

Even though I had some experiences with another guy when in my late teens, I stopped after meeting my future wife, then went many years without sucking another cock. But in my late 30's, I began to have a lot of fantasies, even to the extent of vivid, recurring dreams about sucking a cock. After I was divorced, I explored those fantasies and it was fantastic. The dreams have never returned, and even though I'm completely masculine acting, and still love women, I totally accept the part of me that enjoys another man.

 

[webber1998]

It is interesting how many times this comes up with guys that fantasize about giving a blow job and having someone cum in their mouth. I'll have to admit that for me, it is an awesome experience. And one that I've had my share of in my lifetime.

If you are single and could find a guy that you were comfortable enough and safe enough to give a blowjob to then go for it. Take you time, find the right guy. Never be forced into something you aren't comfortable with. A little practice never hurts.

If you are attached, get unattached first.

 

[rjp44]

It is interesting how many times this comes up with guys that fantasize about giving a blow job and having someone cum in their mouth. I'll have to admit that for me, it is an awesome experience. And one that I've had my share of in my lifetime.

If you are single and could find a guy that you were comfortable enough and safe enough to give a blowjob to then go for it. Take you time, find the right guy. Never be forced into something you aren't comfortable with. A little practice never hurts.

If you are attached, get unattached first.

I think I catch on rather slowly, so would prefer lots of practice. ;-)

 

[golfadikt2]

I must admit, these feelings have been burning in me too for a few months.
Last time I sucked off a guy I was a young teenager and I was "experimenting" with a friend.

Living in a small town is the toughest part for me... it's hard to find a guy that I'm comfortable enough with to try this again.

That's the #1 obstacle. Finding someone you're comfortable with to do this. My suggestion is to wait until you find that someone. You'll know it when you do. That is when all inhibitions go out the window.

Don't you ever feel like tasting your own cum? and then once you jacked off and the cum is in your hand, you decide that you can't follow through? Finding the right person to do explore with will get rid of those doubts after you've cum

 

[bimori]

I must admit, these feelings have been burning in me too for a few months.
Last time I sucked off a guy I was a young teenager and I was "experimenting" with a friend.

Living in a small town is the toughest part for me... it's hard to find a guy that I'm comfortable enough with to try this again.

That's the #1 obstacle. Finding someone you're comfortable with to do this. My suggestion is to wait until you find that someone. You'll know it when you do. That is when all inhibitions go out the window.

Don't you ever feel like tasting your own cum? and then once you jacked off and the cum is in your hand, you decide that you can't follow through? Finding the right person to do explore with will get rid of those doubts after you've cum

Hey just cum up to NH and we can explore together .

 

[webber1998]

I think I catch on rather slowly, so would prefer lots of practice. ;-)

I'm in need of a little practice myself.

 

[okc_gy]

me too

I want to try it out also - Oklahoma. Maybe we can chat about it.

 

[NaughtySmirk]

I'm in a similar situation, and plan to try it out soon. My biggest problem is that I'm not sure I will like it. If I do enjoy it I will have no issues and I will be glad that I did it. But if it turns out that it's one of those fantasies that is hot in my head but not in practise, I think I will feel bad about it for some reason. Or a least embarrassed. So I think I will try it here, while I'm travelling, so that I won't have to deal with all my friends knowing about my questioning.

 

[tonycurinmass]

Can I ask people's age here on this topic? The reason I ask is it seems that as guys get older...and some not all, of their wives start slowing down in the bedroom, from what I can see, tend to become interested in trying this.

So I'm wondering, I'm in my mid 30's now, am I going to crave it even more 10-20 years from now?

 

[rjp44]

Can I ask people's age here on this topic? The reason I ask is it seems that as guys get older...and some not all, of their wives start slowing down in the bedroom, from what I can see, tend to become interested in trying this.

So I'm wondering, I'm in my mid 30's now, am I going to crave it even more 10-20 years from now?

In my mid 30's is when my desire to have sex with another guy returned, even though I had not thought of it since my high school years. It grew stonger and when I divorced in my late 40's (for other reasons) it was almost an obession to explore those desires. Glad I did though.

 

[tonycurinmass]

In my mid 30's is when my desire to have sex with another guy returned, even though I had not thought of it since my high school years. It grew stonger and when I divorced in my late 40's (for other reasons) it was almost an obession to explore those desires. Glad I did though.

Really? Was it better than you imagined? (You can PM me if you don't want to discuss this in the forum)

 

[rjp44]

Really? Was it better than you imagined? (You can PM me if you don't want to discuss this in the forum)

It was even better Tony. I had never kissed a guy before or received anal, and now that I've experienced more, I find even more enjoyment.

 

[lovablo]

I am in my mid 40's and always fantasized about it!!!! One day soon I will make it cum true!

 

[webber1998]

I'm in my mid 40's.

Actually, my first sexual experience was with a guy. We wound up involved secretly for almost 4 years. After he went off to college, I was married for 20 years and wasn't with another guy until after my divorce.

The desire was always there to be with a guy. And to be honest, it only got stronger over the years.

 

[taboo1]

same...

man this is a mirror image of myself...im secretely very bi curious... have a g/f (man I'd love a threesome with her and another guy), and get really turned on by the thought of sucking a guys cock and having him cum in my mouth.... but I must admit, I'd love my first experience to be with a lady too...best of both worlds...i've come on a dildo and sucked it off (just practising)... very horniating lol... also by the way, im a 38 yr old male.

 

[conntom2002]

I've thought about and like the poster above I have worked over a dildo pretty well with my mouth.

The hard part is who to do it with. I'm not the rest stop type. SO who knows. It would be great to have a MMF.

I think I'd also be rathe rpicky about the person. I like my women in good shape and attactrive and it would be that same thing for a guy.

So.... it would seem it will remain a very erotic fantasy for now. ANyways, back to playing around crossdressing (which has given me some damn intense orgasms - fun stuff)

 

[lemmesee]

I'm otherwise a straight guy in my 30s but have developed a strong fascination about the thought of sucking another guy's cock and having him cum in my mouth and/or my face. The feelings are quite strong and have started to lead me to seek out possible opporturites for doing his. But, on the the other hand, I'm incredibly nervous about this and have chickened out the couple of times I've got close to doing this. I'm worried about how I'll feel about myself afterward if I go through with it. Will the sense of awkwardness and perhaps even guilt outweight the short-lived buzz that I may get from the expierence? I also find myself worrying about what the other guy would think about me as I would be sucking him. Would he think I'm odd for wanting to do this? I tell myself that he wouldn't be there if he weren't into it. But, I still can't help worrying about this.

Does anybody else have mixed emotions like this? Have anybody got past them?

No guilt for me....I wanna do it....but I'm afraid of the STD issue....

 

[deluxe3000]

Hey lemmesee,

If you're afraid of STDs then just use condoms. I infrequently have some man/man sex and the guy I fool around and I always use condoms. In fact, I always double up the condoms just to make sure. Probably doesn't feel as good but offers more protection.

Good luck.