Guess who has a date tomorrow....

[Betticus]

It's been a while, trying to remember what not to do so I'm working on a list.

So far I have:

1. Don't talk about or ask about past relationships. from my friend whitney.
2. Try not to spank her before having "the talk". from me

Any other advice?

 

[00Syd]

YAY!!!! I'm happy for you And this from the guy who was a-scared of women.

UHmmmmm as for advice....

I dunno.

I never had any dating rules. the situation and feelings are different with every person, and so dating rules aren't always going to apply. I just go with the flow and hope for the best. If you be yourself and things don't work out, then it was probably for the best. But if you be yourself and things do work out, there will probably be more of a chance that it'll last than if you followed a bunch of rules that hindered your ability to let your personality shine through.

Y'know?

 

[Betticus]

YAY!!!! I'm happy for you And this from the guy who was a-scared of women.

UHmmmmm as for advice....

I dunno.

I never had any dating rules. the situation and feelings are different with every person, and so dating rules aren't always going to apply. I just go with the flow and hope for the best. If you be yourself and things don't work out, then it was probably for the best. But if you be yourself and things do work out, there will probably be more of a chance that it'll last than if you followed a bunch of rules that hindered your ability to let your personality shine through.

Y'know?

Well, she already knows about the bdsm naughtiness.. She's very cute and she's kinda the one who initiated this so I think I'm ok for the most part.

 

[00Syd]

Well, she already knows about the bdsm naughtiness.. She's very cute and she's kinda the one who initiated this so I think I'm ok for the most part.

excellent

 

[Keroin]

It's been a while, trying to remember what not to do so I'm working on a list.

So far I have:

1. Don't talk about or ask about past relationships. from my friend whitney.
2. Try not to spank her before having "the talk". from me

Any other advice?

Where are you going on this date?

 

[Betticus]

Where are you going on this date?

Nothing formal really, lunch and movie maybe in the afternoon and then maybe a club in the evening. Pretty casual.

 

[intothewoods]

Nothing formal really, lunch and movie maybe in the afternoon and then maybe a club in the evening. Pretty casual.

That's a long date! Do you guys already know each other?

Have fun! Just relax.

 

[Betticus]

That's a long date! Do you guys already know each other?

Have fun! Just relax.

We've been out to lunch before.

 

[subgrl18]

hope you have a great time

 

[ultramarineblue]

Have a great time!

 

[LilyBart]

So you know her already...you know she's interested in you, right?

Your first items on the list are pretty wise.

I suppose it goes without saying that you should refrain from picking your nose or scratching in certain places...

I would suggest that you be yourself. Because yourself is the one you get to live with forever...

Have a wonderful date, Betticus. And please let us know how it goes!

 

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[ultramarineblue]

So you know her already...you know she's interested in you, right?

Your first items on the list are pretty wise.

I suppose it goes without saying that you should refrain from picking your nose or scratching in certain places...

I would suggest that you be yourself. Because yourself is the one you get to live with forever...
Have a wonderful date, Betticus. And please let us know how it goes!

Best reason for being yourself ever!!!!

 

[Yasashii_Kaze]

Never, ever, ever break out the chocolate on the first date. You don't need that kind of fawning.

Seriously though, congrats and good luck!

 

[HoHoBomb]

I think it is good to do something physical on a date. Walk in the park etc...

 

[Marquis]

Pepper the conversation with sincere compliments and playful insults.

 

[graceanne]

Don't tell her about the faeries. Not until she gets to know you a bit better.

 

[Betticus]

Don't tell her about the faeries. Not until she gets to know you a bit better.

Gotchya....

 

[Harmony_1985]

Take the Hammies!

She'll melt at the cuteness.

 

[Yasashii_Kaze]

Take the Hammies!

She'll melt at the cuteness.

Hammies are always a good idea!

 

[Lady_Midnight]

Just be yourself. You're a nice guy...I think.

 

[Dreamliner]

Hey B

be cool for the first two dates...then give her a gift of a corset,,,,

i tell you....she will melt from that point on........

 

[Betticus]

Hey B

be cool for the first two dates...then give her a gift of a corset,,,,

i tell you....she will melt from that point on........

Well, when we were eating lunch I accidentally used an eyebrow and she almost slid right out of her chair.. too much power all at once.

 

[Keroin]

Come on, don't tease! We want details, details, details!

Seriously, how was it?

 

[Betticus]

LMAO

Tease!

come on! how are we gonna get our "new romance" fixes if we can't live vicariously though those currently infatuated?

which (might be) you

spill it.

Well, it was a bit off. A (ex) friend of hers rolled her car the other day and she has to replace it so after lunch we visited her friend at one of the dealerships. Apparently car dealers DO NOT LIKE doms much at all. They tried every tactic in the book to try to get her to buy a car on the spot.

I suggested that local bdsm chapters should have a dom for hire service to accompany people on high pressure shopping like cars and homes. We test drove a car and she stopped by to show it to her dad who I got to meet.. wasn't expecting that. He's a lawyer, seems ok. I told her she owed me big for this car shopping and meeting dad thing. She agreed.

She did try to intro me to someone as "a friend" and afterward I put that fantasy straight to the grave.

So we'll see.