Guess I was looking in the wrong places

[xcaliburmyte]

22, M, Colorado, Looking for something else. I have tried all the different places, online, offline, even phone a friend type places. Its not all its cracked up to be. I guess the good guy never winds up with the girl anymore cause I just about lost hope.

I may sound sappy, but I really am looking for somehting else in a relationship.. I am willing to try out new things, heck, I'll even try a different lifestyle just to try it out. I have alot of things I like and dont like, and I will have some limits, though they are pretty small. If you think I sound interesting, let me know. Im looking for a straight relationship, and just about anything goes for that. I'll even toss up my picture so you can get a good look at me. The Flash was a bit to low, and being 6'7" it tends to add a big glare, but those are Blue eyes under those glasses.

 

[Kobal]

I feel your pain, I have also been trying alot of places to meet a nice girl. have yet to meet one that can take me for who i am. maybe its my location, my age my looks who knows, maybe its the whole "The nice guy finishes last" thing

well Good Luck in ur hunt they are out there just need to know where to look.



Kobal

"In a world based on looks, Im lacking"

 

[wildrose70]

Believe me...there are lots of women that would love to find the *nice guy* ...and I speak from years of experience...never give up hope....*dear Abbey* of the net...lol

 

[kinkybater]

An observation

I come in contact with the most goregeous, sexy and hot women regularly, and many times am hit on and flirted with. Where, you might ask, does all this action take place? Hold on to your hats.... THE SUPERMARKET!!! Hard to believe, but true. The supermarket and the convenience store has proven to be two places that are teaming with great looking women who seem to be very friendly. I guess the lesson in this is ... get outta the house... talk to someone RT.

 

[xcaliburmyte]

You would be supprised how much i get out. I just not really as easy for me to approach women. I have that odd thing where i think that the woman i want to talk to would be afraid of me or that i would seem like a dork. *sighs* guess I'll just have to keep trying

 

[Kilora]

I feel your pain sweetie, been single for close to three years now and have been looking for that decent nice guy. I to have tried everything, online personals, chatrooms, rl socail events, etc. Even guys I work with. Instead of that sweet guy I end up with the possesive, jealous abusive losers.

 

[xcaliburmyte]

I guess its just back to the drawing board, this didnt work either. *sighs* Mabey i'll go out this weekend and see what I can do.

 

[Nebraskaman]

Wow,

Now your story sounds all too familiar.

I worked for an international construction firm, made good money, recently divorced, and couldn't find anyone to share even a portion of my life with, untill....


A friend introduced me to an On-Line, Text Only, Role Playing Game, of all places.

To make a long story short, I have been involved in this game for nearly 8 years now, The Lady that I live with, and am soon to marry met there first, and then in real life as bussiness took me to near where she lived.

Don't get me wrong here, I did not intend to find a mate in a RPG, that just happened. What I did find was a great community of folks, many, many dear friends who we visit and visit us in real life often.

The point? Well, sometimes trying to force a thing to happen has the reverse effect.

My advice? Be yourself in all places, to include on-line as well as real life, and the one that is right for you will find you and your qualities, shyness included, to be perfect for her.

Lots of luck in your search, I do wish you the same happiness that I have found myself.

Old Wolf

PS I will not use this platform as a forum to advertise a comercial On-Line RPG, especially since I am a Staff member there. If you want to know how to find it, please drop me a PM, and I will gladly give you the URL to go take a look at it.