grrrrrrr- Piss Me Off

[TN_Vixen]

About these f'n websites..... a long time ago a black friend of mine introduced me to a website where, granted.. the majority of males who post on the chat sites are black males looking to hook up with a white female. Of course, I'm white and the man who introduced me to the site was black... so I go, and initially I'm offended by the site and feel nothing but the temptation to goad these stupid black males and (whatever) white females into conversation about the motivation for contributing to the debasitity of this site...

Well of course, I get all this feedback, none of it positive about how could *I* have the audacity to prescribe my morale prejudices in regards to their chosen activities..... hmmph.

I'm not a prude
I'm not prejudiced.
I'm not without experice to the I/R experience

My thoughts are... How do you go to such a site as a black male intending to satisfy white female's fantisies about "OH GIVE MY THAT BIG BLACK DICK?"

YET, I could not get one man to respond to me in a coherent manner.. and the white females totally made me feel like a leper.. what's the deal?

 

[Lajo]

I wonder if it is one of those things that, if you try to figure it out and understand it, you will just make yourself crazy??

 

[Wil_E_Harden]

Racism is a fact

and one of the MOST sensitive aspects of racial conflict is sexual. That's almost half the content of "Black Rage," a very important book about racial stresses in the U.S. This book was published in the 1960's, I believe - one of its chapters is about sexual psychology and may be the very best writing on that topic for the lay reader. (Now stop that, "lay" here simply means people who are not psychologists/psychiatrists!)

So when you go to a chat site about interracial sex, you are wandering into a genuinely touchy location. SOME motivation for people to seek out interracial partners is political expression, some is curiosity, some is a kind of "fetish" attraction (exactly the same as men who like very fat women, for example, to the exclusion of other somatotypes, or women who find men with amputations their special turn-on), and some is the popular mythology that Black men have the biggest cocks.

But underlying everything on that site is race consciousness. It is a consistent thread in the United States. Your preferences are your preferences, and you actually need not apologize for them - but niether is it necessarily wise for you to challenge others at a web site created for THEIR preferences. Not only do you invite the fight you got, but also you can't escape the hostile, suspicious feelings most Americans have about race consciousness. You pushed EVERY button over there!

Now, actually, you brought up the basic stupidity of crude people who have limited imaginations, poor vocabularies, and no particular level of refinement. Those comments which offended you are the same which bother many folk in any environment. I am astounded at the number of women who find that form of chat just what they want - until I realize that they, like the puddles after a flood, have sought and found their own levels. So if you want a more elegant way of saying the same things, and an openly sexual setting, looks like you are indeed at home here!

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

People are people...Sounds to me some of those woman were not to smart.....

THE WIFE