Got it bad, got it bad, got it bad...

[ExLimey]

...I'm not hot for teacher, but someone else. I can't eat and I can barely sleep.

Two people recently have questioned me about our relationship. Both have told me they think she feels the same. Both really know me well and her hardly at all. One met her only recently and the other has met her on and off and is sorta related. I have no idea if I should trust their instincts (They're both women if that makes a difference).

I work with the object of my infatuation and it's a huge distraction. I can't believe this person would want anything to do with me. I'd hate to create an uncomfortable situation by bringing it up, but I'm pretty fucking miserable thinking about it all the time.

I need some serious suggestions on how to handle this. Quitting my job is not one.

 

[Guest]

This thread was my first experience of 0reply:0view thread.
The above sentence is fucked up, I know.

 

[ExLimey]

This thread was my first experience of 0reply:0view thread.

Story of my life.

 

[Guest]

This thread was my first experience of 0reply:0view thread.
The sentence above is fucked up, I know.

 

[Guest]

EL, I don't quite understand your original post.
Can you clarify for me?

 

[floridaguy64]

Story of my life.

How about opening your yap and tell her how you really feel? What's the worst that could happen, she says no?

Ruck up man! Get in there and live a little! Life's too short to let what you want to casually slip from your grasp!

As far as the job is concerned, you found your current one, you'd find another should it become necessary to do so.

 

[ExLimey]

How about opening your yap and tell her how you really feel? What's the worst that could happen, she says no?

Ruck up man! Get in there and live a little! Life's too short to let what you want to casually slip from your grasp!

I know, I know. Deep down I know I need to "be a man!".

As far as the job is concerned, you found your current one, you'd find another should it become necessary to do so.

It's not that easy is this one horse town. Although if I had to because of her, I'm thinking she would most definitely be worth "falling on my sword" for.

 

[Cheyenne]

Trust your two friends who are trying to help you. You don't have to ask her to marry you on the first date- why not ask her to go to lunch?