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Afterhours22

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About 20 years ago, I dated a girl nearly half my age for a short time. She had just turned 18 and I was 35. I worked for a security company for a concert venue and she had just started working one of the vendor booths. I could tell she liked me right away but given our age differences, I was not going to say anything in fear that I may have misread her. I could not have been more wrong and was blown away by how forward she was in finally coming out and saying that she thought I was hot and wanted to fuck me.

Yeah, completely floored to say the least. Well that was the start of a year long very intense, passionate relationship that seemed to be going a lot farther than I had expected. We confessed our love and I was considering asking her to marry me. Well then everything came crashing down. I found out, that she was fucking a couple of other guys from work and one guy from one of the local police departments. I was heartbroken.

It ended badly and I packed up and moved out of town. Several years later, her and I reconnected on Facebook when it came to be popular, and we became friends again. She confessed that she regretted ever doing what she did, knowing I was the good guy that she let get away. Both of us were in stale relationships at the time and never really met another like each other, but living across the country like we did and the job commitments that we had, prevented any chance of moving near each other.

Long story short, after all these years of being the best of friends online, I found out today that she passed away a few nights ago from a brain aneurysm. I can't help but feel that crushing heartache of losing her once more. :(:(:(
 
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Focus on the positives...you reconnected and that was important.
 
About 20 years ago, I dated a girl nearly half my age for a short time. She had just turned 18 and I was 35. I worked for a security company for a concert venue and she had just started working one of the vendor booths. I could tell she liked me right away but given our age differences, I was not going to say anything in fear that I may have misread her. I could not have been more wrong and was blown away by how forward she was in finally coming out and saying that she thought I was hot and wanted to fuck me.

Yeah, completely floored to say the least. Well that was the start of a year long very intense, passionate relationship that seemed to be going a lot farther than I had expected. We confessed our love and I was considering asking her to marry me. Well then everything came crashing down. I found out, that she was fucking a couple of other guys from work and one guy from one of the local police departments. I was heartbroken.

It ended badly and I packed up and moved out of town. Several years later, her and I reconnected on Facebook when it came to be popular, and we became friends again. She confessed that she regretted ever doing what she did, knowing I was the good guy that she let get away. Both of us were in stale relationships at the time and never really met another like each other, but living across the country like we did and the job commitments that we had, prevented any chance of moving near each other.

Long story short, after all these years of being the best of friends online, I found out today that she passed away a few nights ago from a brain aneurysm. I can't help but feel that crushing heartache of losing her once more. :(:(:(

I’m sorry for your loss, but grateful that you had the opportunity to share that kind of connection with someone
 
That's horrible; sorry for your loss.

The re-connection was definitely a saving grace, though.
 
I keep telling people ...

"YOU ARE NOT GUARANTEED YOUR NEXT BREATH."

Yes there is an afterlife.
 
Me too.

I Lost someone special some years ago while it wasn't sudden it still fucks with your head.
 
fuck the thoughts and prayers. did she leave you anything in her will?
 
Focus on the positives...you reconnected and that was important.


Or...karma's a bitch and she reaped what she sowed.

Or...she has a new gmail account and is relieved she got the stalker off her ass with the old fake death routine.

Hey, remember when girls in bars would give men their (fake) phone number?
 
I am sorry for you. Last year I did an Ancestry search for my 1960s girlfriends and two ex-fiancées.

Except for one ex-fiancée. now on her fourth marriage and living in Australia, all of them were dead.

The only 'girlfriend' I am still in contact with, was never a girlfriend except that her and my father thought we were. It was the fathers' idea since they were work colleagues and her then-boyfriend was considered 'unsuitable'.

After considerable pressure from both fathers, we agreed to go out to a local cinema, where she would meet her real boyfriend.

After that we had several 'dates' some of which I didn't know about where she said she was meeting me but was actually meeting him.

I liked her as a person but neither of us thought we had anything between us that we would want to go further. She eventually married the real boyfriend and recently they celebrated 55 years since their marriage.
 
She's in heaven now, blowing Rush Limbaugh.

Really?

Okay - then you get this:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=93474708#post93474708

I wasn't a regular [Rush Limbaugh] listener
- 2/17/21

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=91885810&highlight=Limbaugh#post91885810

OldJourno said:
Since I've retired I've tried to make time to listen to at least one Rush Limbaugh program a week.
- 2/3/20

^^^ Once a liar, always a liar. :rose:
 

Someone has way too much time on their hands.
Not being a regular listener and trying to find time to listen to one show a week seem to be saying the same thing. I wish I had listened to the show more often, but whatever.
If you've just tripped your trigger and come all over your shorts, good for you.
 
Someone has way too much time on their hands.
Not being a regular listener and trying to find time to listen to one show a week seem to be saying the same thing. I wish I had listened to the show more often, but whatever.
If you've just tripped your trigger and come all over your shorts, good for you.


I also thought it was a bit of a stretch, even for Obiturory.

I think he’s entering his hyper phase. Just nod and smile.
 
Sorry for your loss and it only hurts because you cared so much. To late in life we realize that regrets a bitch.
 
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