Got any Tricks?

angelkitty7888

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Hi! i'm an amless wanderer of the forum as you can probably tell :) but i have a question for bi women and lesbians.... Do you have any wonderful tricks that work on your current female partner for turning them to pleasured mush? While my SO and i have been together for about 2 1/2 years we've been rather slow in the erotic section in our relationship.... and she almost always is the "dominant figure" in the erotic part.... (i can count the times i've been doing the touching on one hand).... yes i know it sounds strange but when we started neither of us was quite sure where we were in ourselves... and had a rule that i wouldn't touch her unless she asked me to / if either of us went to far for that time we'd tell the other.... (i think she was less sure she was bi than i was) so for a little over 2 years it's been her doing most of the sexual style touching.... and recently i've started taking the "top" position....

And although i know that confidence and all plays a key role, being scared out of my wits of hurting her and having not much clue what she likes or wants is a key part that hurts us... if i had a semblance of an arsenal i might be able to figure out what she likes best.... i really would like to know what has worked for other apreciators of the feminine physique for pleasuring their partners.... mouth, hands, i don't care i just have searched around here and found everything scattered about lol so i wanted a thread i could find

(FYI she's not a vocal lover so i can't take cues from her voice either..... she also seems to have trouble knowing what she wants so when i ask her she's not really sure and i never get an answer.....)

If men have suggestions too all i ask is that you realize i lack certain parts :p and have no access to strap ons so... yeah....

"And may the floodgates of hell open wide..."
 
MY advice would be to discuss your & her needs and desires over a bottle of wine or two. She may be wanting you to seduce her and take the lead sometime. The better the communication between lovers the better the sex. Using masssage can stimulate each other and get you in the habit of touching and carressing each others bodies.

Good luck I hope you find the satisfaction you desire. :rose:
 
I have tricks for both women and men. My favorites with women is right when they're about to come (Missionary position) I grab an ankle and start sucking toes, licking in between them, etc. Also, after licking her until she gets off, I wait down there a moment or two while she's winding down and starting to relax, but still uber-sensitive, then it's time for licking bottom to top with little flicks of the tip of my tongue across her clit. Usually leads to my head getting clamped between her thighs, shreiking and crazy hair pulling.

Wait...WTF am I posting this on the gay forum? :D
 
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