Corylea
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I have a woman lover, R, and a male friend-with-benefits, S. R and S are seriously involved with each other. We usually see each other in pairs, but we have the occasional threesome, which gives rise to some amusement as we all try to practice good poly manners.
R and S are serious about each other, and R is S's official "girlfriend," as opposed to the positions that the rest of us occupy. So when the three of us are together, I defer to R when it comes to things about S, because she's higher in S's hierarchy than I am. R goes out of her way to include me in things with S, because she doesn't want to abuse her position or to make me feel left out.
R and I are the newest serious couple, so it's easy for us to just fall into each other and forget all about S. R and I both make sure that this doesn't happen, and we make an effort to include S back in if we've gotten a little too into each other, so that he doesn't feel left out.
I tend to be more attracted to women than to men, but this isn't S's fault, and I make an effort to lavish as much enthusiasm on him as I do on R.
S and I have been flirting with the idea of my becoming his dom for awhile (haven't gone there yet because I've been ill), and I make sure not to do things that I know will put S into sub mode when the three of us are together, since that might not sit so well with R.
S was the one who introduced R and me, and since he enjoys the testament to his matchmaking skills that we are, he often encourages us to be together, even though that might result in his getting less attention.
Does it sound as if there might be a lot going through our heads?
During our last threesome, a couple of weeks ago, when S wanted to have intercourse with somebody, I deferred to R, and she graciously deferred to me, and when it looked like we were about to do, "After you, my dear Alphonse" all night, S said to me, "Well, I've fucked her since the last time I fucked you, so it's your turn," reducing things to the kindergarten-but-clear "whose turn is it" level.
Good manners for polyamory -- don't leave home without 'em.
R and S are serious about each other, and R is S's official "girlfriend," as opposed to the positions that the rest of us occupy. So when the three of us are together, I defer to R when it comes to things about S, because she's higher in S's hierarchy than I am. R goes out of her way to include me in things with S, because she doesn't want to abuse her position or to make me feel left out.
R and I are the newest serious couple, so it's easy for us to just fall into each other and forget all about S. R and I both make sure that this doesn't happen, and we make an effort to include S back in if we've gotten a little too into each other, so that he doesn't feel left out.
I tend to be more attracted to women than to men, but this isn't S's fault, and I make an effort to lavish as much enthusiasm on him as I do on R.
S and I have been flirting with the idea of my becoming his dom for awhile (haven't gone there yet because I've been ill), and I make sure not to do things that I know will put S into sub mode when the three of us are together, since that might not sit so well with R.
S was the one who introduced R and me, and since he enjoys the testament to his matchmaking skills that we are, he often encourages us to be together, even though that might result in his getting less attention.
Does it sound as if there might be a lot going through our heads?
During our last threesome, a couple of weeks ago, when S wanted to have intercourse with somebody, I deferred to R, and she graciously deferred to me, and when it looked like we were about to do, "After you, my dear Alphonse" all night, S said to me, "Well, I've fucked her since the last time I fucked you, so it's your turn," reducing things to the kindergarten-but-clear "whose turn is it" level.
Good manners for polyamory -- don't leave home without 'em.
