Good Conversation

[lesschaostheory]

Hey there searchers and seekers. If you find yourself thinking you’d like an engaging conversation partner where the exchange isn’t a guided missile to orgasm, this post could represent a welcome opportunity! I am a married man in my 50s, stable, as happy as it makes sense to be most of the time, always keen to avoid drama. I’m a good listener and not cagey when it’s my turn to share, no ulterior motives or hidden agendas. I tend to look for the humor in things first, but equally enjoy both getting deep or keeping it light. I’m creative, active, and pretty fit, interested but respectful, direct but polite.

If some good conversation sounds good to you, drop me a message and say hello!

-L.C.

 

[lesschaostheory]

So we don't miss each other-

Thought this might be worth adding also - I'm not on Lit every day, so if you don't hear back from me right away, there's no ignoring going on! Not my style. Also, if you'd like to sidestep the PM route, I have a gmail address that's just my username on the front end, and you're welcome to send a note to me there. Thanks!

 

[lesschaostheory]

As these ads have a fairly unforgiving expiration date, I thought I'd renew this one. If casual, reciprocal enjoyment of good company is your thing, we might comfortably click.

 

[lotus_blossom__]

Nice ad! Welcome to the boards

 

[lesschaostheory]

Nice ad! Welcome to the boards

Thanks very much, lotus_blossom!

 

[sarah_1618]

Well-written ad. I bet you *are* a good conversationalist. I hope you find what you are looking for!

 

[lesschaostheory]

Well-written ad. I bet you *are* a good conversationalist. I hope you find what you are looking for!

Thanks, Sarah! Who doesn't love a good guided missile analogy? That rarified space where the military-industrial complex and hyper-casual eroticism meet is fertile ground

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

Good conversations are certainly hard to come by, especially in the personals, where guys are mostly looking for, to use your phrase, "a guided missle to orgasm", and nothing more. I give you kudos for a decent ad, and wish you all the best in your search for a matching conversationalist.

 

[lesschaostheory]

LadyJS, that's a hell of a bio-signature you've got there... direct & funny!

No doubt it can be tricky stirring up relaxed yet stimulating conversation that survives outside the confines of the site. I don’t know of another place like Lit where one can float an invitation to so many people of potentially similar, if not like mindedness, with such ease, for free. The responses run the gamut of tastes and intensities, but it’s going to be the “driven” visitors that flood the inbox and make you cringe for opening the whole can of worms. The off-target results are definitely different for women than they are for men, and I’m pretty sure women are getting the shortest end of that stick.

Nevertheless, thanks to the accessibility and openness of the community, I believe there are a lot of “invisible” people who pass through here, not shooting for a quick sexual fix, but rather an opportunity to spark a more conventional connection process, though in a somewhat unconventional way.

Despite the common difficulties, it’s not an effort that’s always doomed to failure, so for those still looking, take heart, be patient and keep your eyes open

 

[lesschaostheory]

Spring in the Northern Hemisphere!

It's the season of renewal! And allergies! Seems like a good time to float this note down the stream of Lit personals again. If you happen to be one who isn't sure whether making connections here is really for you or not, I'm a certified low-risk conversationalist. Credentials available on request.

-LC

 

[lesschaostheory]

What a surprise to see this post dug up from the depths! Just realized it generated some new messages, so please forgive my slow responses. Nice to know conversation still has appeal here in the future