Going to give a bj and be fucked for the first time

[JohnnyA]

I'm ready. I want to see what it's like and find out if that is something I want to explore.

I'm here in Cleveland and I want to know what it feels like to give someone a bj and to be fucked. I'm not gay, looking for a girlfriend at the moment, actually. I just want to experience the act and see what comes of it. I know I am bisexual in some way, I just haven't taken the steps foward.



So, what is my best way to safely find a Top that would like to go out for a night on the town and show me the ropes?

Im not sure how to get started.

 

[human_male]

You could try putting an ad on a website that has adds for men for men in your area. That's what I've just done. I doubt I'll get any hits though because I was too chicken to put my photo and I'm sure sounding like a bi curious guy looking to experiment puts people off.

Good luck.

 

[hornalt]

Yeh outpersonals.com and squirt.org are good for that. The gay.com chatroom for your area is too. I've been looking to do the same thing and even without a pic I get tons of offers, you've just got to word the ad right. Doesn't seem to matter that I'm bicurious or just starting out, I think some men find breaking in a newbie appealing. Then you've just got to take your pick.

 

[YANKEE DAN]

Find a gay bar, there's always men looking to pick somebody up there. I've met people over websites myself, works decently, try guys4men.

Use condums.

 

[human_male]

Yeh outpersonals.com and squirt.org are good for that. The gay.com chatroom for your area is too. I've been looking to do the same thing and even without a pic I get tons of offers, you've just got to word the ad right. Doesn't seem to matter that I'm bicurious or just starting out, I think some men find breaking in a newbie appealing. Then you've just got to take your pick.

Got any tips on this kind of thing, since you're experienced? I got a hit from a guy who just says wanna have some fun, and sent a pic of a huge dick. Would you just meet someone straight up, or would you insist on talking to them first? And can you believe dick pics?

 

[hornalt]

Sorry if I gave the impression I was that experienced, I really haven't done much yet. I'd rather talk to and get to know the guy first, just to see if we click and he's someone I'd like to get with. I'd recommend chatting first at least, just to see if you've got the same things in mind sexually, but it's really up to your preference. You can do a cam 2 cam thing first too, if you want a better idea of the goods and have a webcam. I might just be too picky though.

 

[human_male]

Sorry if I gave the impression I was that experienced, I really haven't done much yet. I'd rather talk to and get to know the guy first, just to see if we click and he's someone I'd like to get with. I'd recommend chatting first at least, just to see if you've got the same things in mind sexually, but it's really up to your preference. You can do a cam 2 cam thing first too, if you want a better idea of the goods and have a webcam. I might just be too picky though.

Oh ok, well no worries. That sounds like pretty sound advice anyway.

 

[emap]

Same thing as meeting someone of the opposite sex you meet online. Don't get together for the sex first, get together to meet and talk and make sure he is actually interested and not just some guy who gets off on playing tricks on other guys.

Also is good because you never know what the person actually wants, maybe they want to get you alone and kill you, or maybe they want to get you alone strap you down bring in a film crew and do a gay rape fetish video with an actual rape.

If you say let's get together for coffee and see how things go, the more perverted will either say sorry your not my type, or not show up. Still good to let someone know where your going and who yoru seeing, at least where your going, give them a license plate of their car to if possible, you still never know.

Now as for meeting just for sex or getting to know the guy, up to you and your individual taste, though of course always use condoms and bring your own lube and condoms, guys tend to leave that for the woman and if your going to be the woman you will need them.

 

[webber1998]

As above, squirt and outpersonals are OK.

Outpersonals is more expensive to sign up and not much is FREE.

squirt is less expensive and you might get a little bit of limitied attention with the FREE membership. I think they still have monthly memberships and I know that fixed up the chat service.

Chances are, you might have to wade through a bunch of BS'ers. But that pretty much goes for all of the online sites ( In my opinion ).

The online sites allow you to advertise EXACTLY what you are looking for.

I'll have to admit that I'm not much into the *just* having sex. I would always meet somewhere first and see how it goes from there.

 

[buildin]

manhunt.net. i got hits on that one and one or two hook ups. pm me if you want to know more

 

[B20civic]

chat rooms.


or go find a horny trucker at a truck stop

 

[bipedal]

I'm new here and have never done anything with a man before but have been curious for years. I'm divorced and I love women but to be perfectly honest - and I apparently can do that here without condemnation - I would like to both receive a blowjob from, and give one in return, to a man. I think I could do a pretty good job giving pleasure to a man, and I think I would enjoy it as well. I'm just really very nervous. I've never dared say anything like this out loud or written it down anywhere until I found this message board.

Through the website http://www.bimen.org I found the Yahoo group in my city and posted a message stating that I was curious. I received 4 replies within a day. I didn't reply to the "more experienced guys who wanted to break me in to the lifestyle" comments. One guy seemed just about as nervous as I am, though ... we started chatting online, exchanged photos, and seem to have hit it off pretty well. He's interested in exactly the same things as I am. We're probably going to meet up real soon and see what happens.

Long story short, I'd recommend finding the Yahoo group in your area. At the very least, its free.

I'll let you all know how it goes.

Thanks -

 

[deluxe3000]

You can also try checking out the erotic massage postings in the back of some local newsprint magazines. I found an Asian masseuse who advertised to bi-curious men and he was only $60. Initially I got a massage, a happy ending, and a shower. From there it progressed to massage, blow jobs, and a shower. Once I tried massage, fucking, and a shower. It's a nice way to try things out.

Good luck.

 

[Nabokov]

I met a guy through Adult Friend Finder that worked out pretty well. In my profile I made it clear I wanted to experiment and he contacted me --in my experience there are a lot of guys who are interested in experimenting but do not want to make a lot of noise about it. We got together a couple of times after exchanging few emails and a few phone calls. I was very nervous but ended up really enjoying sucking him and had an even greater time letting him fuck my ass.